capricorn and marriage

so i've been involved with my cap for about 3 years, 5 months ago he broke up with me, and we stayed apart for about 2 months. then he came back telling me he made a big mistake (i had cut off all contact during the time we were broken up and was dating other people). anyway, since we've gotten back together, it's almost like being involved with a completely different guy. he goes out of his way to make sure i have everything i need and is all around a great bf. his mom has been really proactive in establishing a good relationship with me as of late. for instance she's taking me out for dinner tomorrow night as a late bday present and she wants me to help her work on her garden. anyway, for the past month or so he's been making comments here and there about us getting married or joking about getting me a ring. the thing is, is that i'm not sure how serious he's being or if he is just joking around. we've always talked about having kids together in the future but never really about marriage. also, a lot of our friends have gotten engaged this year. like at least 5 different couples so i'm not sure if it's just because of that.

Awww thats sweet Cancergem Im glad for you. Savor the moment

Guys wouldnt say it if they didnt mean it. Aww love. sweet.

yay! now i'm all excited 🙂

cancergem im happy for you 😆 im sure he will be a good hubby

If he's making comments about marriage, even jokingly, it's a good sign. He's serious about you. They take their time and you must be patient (everything's on his schedule), but once they decide you're the one, it's a wild ride. My cap and i have been together for 4 years. We got engaged a few months ago and are getting married this year. We talked about marriage for 6 months before we got engaged. He kept bringing it up, sometimes as a joke. But it meant something.

thanks happycappy!

@ urban cap, congrats! it's funny because he never, ever would mention anything along the lines of marriage in the past. for the past couple of months though, he's just kept talking about it. i really do hope that is what happens, because we've come a long way communication wise. also has been really encouraging me to go along with the activities his mom has been wanting to do with me.

Sorry, I can't get past the bit where you were dating other people within two months of splitting with someone you'd been with for three years. Maybe that's just me?

Posted by VirgoM20
Sorry, I can't get past the bit where you were dating other people within two months of splitting with someone you'd been with for three years. Maybe that's just me?

well within the two months, the first month i didn't date anyone, by the second month i was casually dating other people. i don't really see why that's a big deal though. i know he was doing the same and i wanted to get over it because i didn't think we'd be getting back together.

Posted by LovelyScorp
congrats, cancergem. I wish much happiness.

And if you need a wedding planner or goodies for the event keep me filed away in your rolodex. 🙂

thanks! lol will do! well, i probably shouldn't get ahead of myself considering he hasn't actually asked

Blessings to you cancergem, I hope the best for you. 🙂