Capricorn Girl and Taurus

(I've put these post on other places too)

I have been with this Taurus guy for almost 2 years. We've been through hell and hot water. I??ve been loyal, I??ve been truth and YET it's almost a love/hate relationship. He goes M.I.A and then pop back up in my life. Not totally committed, but is "committed". He HATES talking about what's really going on in life, and he constantly laughing at THE WORST MOMENTS! It feels like I'm being played. He says I'm the only one and he doesn't mind spending his life with me. But I'm having such a hard time believing him. How do I know if what he saying it's really true? I don't feel like playing mind games, I've already wasted almost 2 year and I'm like at 85% of his heart. I don't want to waste time. So has a Taurus I need to know what's going on has in this situation. I'm a Capricorn Girl (part Sagittarius, Dec. 23 so I mixed with a little Sagittarius). I'm a very serious person with goals, will jump fences, leaps and bounds, want something real, I will give my all, pretty much being LOYAL and MORE! Taurus and Capricorn suppose to be perfect matches but because I have Sagittarius sign mixed, it throws off our compatibility.

I need your guy??s advice! How do I make him give him me 100? How do I know if it's real and not wasting my time? How to make this relationship work MORE?

Feel free to ask more questions so you'll have a deep understanding about us... (even your own personal stories)

You can't make anybody do anything.

-Trots off-

Posted by capgirl75

Posted by bangaa
(I've put these post on other places too)

I have been with this Taurus guy for almost 2 years.
He goes M.I.A and then pop back up in my life.
He HATES talking about what's really going on in life, and he constantly laughing at THE WORST MOMENTS!
It feels like I'm being played.
He says I'm the only one and he doesn't mind spending his life with me.

Red flag, red flag, red flag!
2 years- pops in and out- doesn't want to talk about it.

He doesn't MIND spending his life with you? He doesn't MIND it?
He should WANT to spend his life with you.

And Article L is right- you can't MAKE him do anything.
I would think after 2 years you would be his girlfriend at the least. If not by now, not going to happen.

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I am his girlfriend. He mentioned to me He wants me to move to Atlanta with him for a new life together also. He say he one of those people that hates talking his feelings because people always use it against him and/or hurt him. I'm having a hard time letting him know that I'm not like the rest. (For Example his ex-girlfriend of almost 5 years).

Posted by capgirl75
Well if he's asking you to move in that sounds like a pretty solid commitment. Not sure what more you would want.

Even though he wants me to move, he said I have 85% out of 100 of him. He has 100% of me and I'm not sure why I can't get the same in return. Is it something Taurus's do? We have so many up's down its ridiculous within the 2 years...

Posted by capgirl75
Did you ask him why?

Actually, no O_o lol

Posted by Metoo
I think if your constantly worried, uncomfortable, and asking questions, this is your answer.
On the other hand if you are always freaking out and questioning and worrying, this is what might push him away?

Try and find your balance, and in doing so, why dont you calmly and genuinely explain you love him, and want to be loyal and go the distance, but you need some time to reflect and get some things settled.
Then....TAKE A BREAK. A real one. With no contact, ask him to respect that and you do so as well.
Then take stock of this relationship, think of all the things he HAS told you. Think of why there are doubts or confusion, do you think he is not genuine and trustworthy? Is he WORTH all this stress and mayhemin your life?

To often women give men the power and control over how the relationship will go and if HE will chose US?
Sorry I dont think so, if you remove yourself from the eye of the storm and get quiet and centered, you may realize he is no longer worth the time and wait and you can move forward confidently! In my opinion HE isnt the one with the choice to make, you are.
Take your power back, take the bull by the horns, take a break and then let him know what YOU want.

You have all the info you need. You dont need to ask more questions. He has told you all he is going to, dont try and drag more out of him, take ALL he has given you in word and deed and do some serious evaluation.

This has been one of THE BEST advice I have received thus far = ).