I can't help but attract them, why?? I'm a gemini. I knew 3 caps that liked me, 2 had SAME BIRTHDAY, another I think likes me was born 2 days before and there were a couple more that I know of!! This is weird.? I have Taurus cusp and Cancer rising, moon in pisces, venus in taurus. thanks
Capricorn Guys!
ok, 2 i don't know exact bday, I know they were caps, the other 2 were 1/14 and both very intense and in love with me (one hates me now, LOL) and one I think 1/11. Who knows how many more before I didn't know of, it's almost always instant connection.
I'm a Gem, and the Cap I'm "involved" with was an instant attraction too. It was mutual though lol. It's something that confuses the both of us though. We often tell each other how we don't know WHAT it is that draws us to the other, but we're going to find out lol.
We're kinda opposites, but we have enough in common to keep us from being at each other's throats. I think that's a huge part of the attraction.
We're kinda opposites, but we have enough in common to keep us from being at each other's throats. I think that's a huge part of the attraction.
I'm the exact opposite as far as saying things aloud. I tell the Cap everything (except "I love you")! LMAO. In the beginning I was very guarded and shy, but as we continued to get closer, I dropped ALMOST all of my guards. I remember the first time I told him I had a dream about him that wasn't so innocent, he was so excited/shocked that I had the dream AND told him about it that he questioned me for about an hour about it lol. He was like, "What happened? How was the dream me? Did you like me? What happened next?" Lol. It was hilarious.
But as far as the connection, he's starting to GET me as a Gemini (which NEVER happens). One day we were discussing one of my quirky ideals, and I said, "I'm hard to understand, but I don't try to be!" And he calmly said, "I understand you." I felt like a burden had been lifted from my shoulders because he was no longer saying, "Damn, you're harder than chemistry" or any of the other teasing things he used to say early on about figuring me out. So as far as Gems and Caps go, I think ours is definitely opposites attract in the beginning, but similarities keep us there. Because he is everything I'm not, I was intrigued. I wanted to pick his brain and understand him. But as I learn about him, I realize we're more and more alike, we just go about things in different ways. It keeps me hanging on, wanting to uncover more.
But as far as the connection, he's starting to GET me as a Gemini (which NEVER happens). One day we were discussing one of my quirky ideals, and I said, "I'm hard to understand, but I don't try to be!" And he calmly said, "I understand you." I felt like a burden had been lifted from my shoulders because he was no longer saying, "Damn, you're harder than chemistry" or any of the other teasing things he used to say early on about figuring me out. So as far as Gems and Caps go, I think ours is definitely opposites attract in the beginning, but similarities keep us there. Because he is everything I'm not, I was intrigued. I wanted to pick his brain and understand him. But as I learn about him, I realize we're more and more alike, we just go about things in different ways. It keeps me hanging on, wanting to uncover more.
I'm not alone lol
My Cap always tells me I'm hilarious. I'm a cornball too though, so he always cracks up at the wacky stuff I say. When we're in person, the conversation is AMAZING. It's like I have to tell myself to let him talk because he has so much to say but will usually let me go and go and go. So I've learned to clamp my mouth shut and let him speak, and we had the best time once I did that. He's also told me that he likes my ability to say/do whatever I want. The way I just decide to do something and just go for it. He said he wishes he could do it, but he can't. He HAS to plan lol. I think this match is a very interesting one. It can be very good, very bad, or just somewhere hovering in between with a lot of uncertainty because the two are so different on the surface.
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