december versus january

january caps seem very different to me than december caps. i dont see why the month should make that huge of a difference but i feel like it's been a consistent finding for me. january caps always seem more serious

Hell no... not the only difference different but a decent observation.

I've been with two Cap guys Jan 6 and Jan 16. Both are serious as far as not immature or annoyingly goofy. The only problem I had with them is Jan 16 disappears after rekindling in a very beautiful way and Jan 6 sends mixed signals. Actions don't match words.

As for Capricorn women, I only have one friend, she's a sweetie but very self-indulged. Our friendship is basically based on her life and what's going on in it. Whenever I try and include my life (because sometimes I need opinions, advice or vent time) she just is never responsive. I'm seriously rethinking our friendship.

But, for the most part, Capricorns are adorable earth creatures. I can't easily figure them out so getting to know them is very appeasing to my mind. 🙂

january caps seem very different to me than december caps. i dont see why the month should make that huge of a difference but i feel like it's been a consistent finding for me. january caps always seem more serious

Oh that's simple 🙂 There are difference between all signs, it depends on what week they were on and what cusp they all on:

For instance:

Saggie/Cappie cusp

Capricorn I

Capricorn II

Capricorn III

Capricorn-Aquarius cusp

LO @ Brahn,

You and your love/hate relationships with capricorns 🙂

SB!

Hi Buddy 🙂

Yeah, I know ... at least right now it is. Don't worry, its just the mood he's in ... I think 🙂

Hi Sagi 😄

Where are the cap girls 😢

YAY! Your here 🙂

My astro twin has arrived.

How are you?

Oh no Well, my stomach is bothering me, but I think the more I workout, the less it will bother me. I just want to go home and lay down LOL

Huh? What Leo/Virgo guy? Who do you speak of?

Maybe goodness Sagi, I have no idea who you are talking about 😉

Changing anyone is impossible. You can only change yourself.

No B, people can influence others. It depends on how willing the other people are 😉

Ethics ... important?

Oh come now B, you don't believe this 😉

Ethics are important, but they tend to complicate real matters.

LOL sorry for being a smarty-pants Sagi 😛

But no, he has not resurfaced after we talked. Actaully, no one has seen now ...

Its funny you mension him because two of his friends have come to me recently asked, "Hey, have you seen ..."; "Where is he? Do you know where .... gone?" or "Out of anyone, I would think that you'd know his whereabouts?" "Well, I guess if you don't know then no one knows now"

Why me? Why would I know where he is? I'm not his girlfriend so why are his friends coming to me?

It seems that when I stopped hearing from him two weeks ago, so did his friends ...

So, I'm not sure where he is really. I'm surprised they are coming to me asking about him. You'd think they know where their friend is located. One friend is looking for him so ... I'm not really sure.

Actually, I'm not sure if I should be worried or not. I don't want to be, so I'm trying to keep my mind even. I mean their no reason for me to worry ... right?

No ... sagi ... I haven't sent any messages to him 😢 I just decided to forget about him when it seem his outside responsbitlites were more important then a relationship ...

That's what the "Well I'll Be Damned" thread was about

I refuse to communicate with someone who hasn't spoken to me in two weeks. But from the looks of it, the same time he stopped talking to me, he stopped talking to him too.

*them too I meant to say

Caps not being honest? Lol, I'm so honest and blunt that ppl hate me for that sometimes. It's prolly my Sagittarius moon, although I could be wrong.

OK, it's clear, Branh doesn't like cappies, lol.

okay cappysweetie you are better than me in terms of dealing with situations like this. i can get worried and too soft when i worry i would only be able to let go after i make sure he is safe and sound. i can tell you that's not the best way to deal with situation like this cuz more hurt would likely be inflicted onto self during the process. unfortunately i cannot change this side of me even when i knew what may be coming i could only close my eyes, take a deep breath and brace myself for impact.

anyway, your way is better. take it easy.

Oh no! You don't understand, this is why I'm trying to keep my mind even because I'm just like this too 😢 😢 😢 Although, this has never happened before. The only this happened is when I was a teenager and my boyfriend disappeared and a few days later his friend told me that his father sent him to a mental ward. So no, I'm not taking this lightly at all. However, I don't want to "feel" anything. You know what I mean?

Well, Sagi

Neither one of use should be suffering from this. I don't think its a mental thing (for the both of us I mean), I think it runs deeper then that. When I don't see someone for a while. I instantly want to know if they are all right.

I will not chase them down, but they are always in the back of my mind until I know that they are still vital

Seriously, the fact that no one else has heard from him either bothers me but I WON'T do anything because I don't want to be hurt if he's alright but he's just choosing to ignore the world.

His one friend is looking for him now actaully ... its too bad ... that I don't have his email address. I never thought to really give him mine either. Sometimes when people don't want anything to do with their phone, they will still email.

Three days ago, another friend (more like a buddy) asked about him and when I said I don't know where he is, he seemed puzzled.

Yep, my Mars is on the Aqua/Pisces cusp ... which is the cusp of freaking sensitivity. Good grief 😢

Why do they say you will bring down your own world?

Branh wrote:
**If a Cap actually said "yeah I'm this and that way, but you know what, treetrunk you, I'm just this way", then I'd respect that. sometimes there are Caps who totally ignore some of their ways, and pretend that they don't exist at all. I'm sure deep down they know it exist, but Caps have some watery element to them. Water signs believe to some degree that if you don't acknowledge something, it doesn't exist. The "800 pound gorilla sitting in the room" complex is what I call it.**

Hahahaha!! Y'know that's so true. It's like I mentioned in one of my other posts: The Cap Mer-Goat (half-fish/half-goat) has both Earth & Water elements. As such, he is pushed AND pulled by both these elements. On one hand, he wants to be brutally honest with you. One the other hand, he says the problem doesn't exist.

I think I know how Pisces feels now: 2 fishes in opposing directions....

Maybe that's why these 2 seem to bond with each other so well. Geminis seem to have this problem too. One twin contradicting the other.

Don't worry Sagi,

My mom says that I've gotten better over time, but I use to care more for others then myself.

I will be back later. I have to go to my other job!!! I'm going to be late!