Capricorn is open with everyone but me? :(

My cap bf who has venus in cap is open with everyone but me.Meaning he tells everyone he misses them,loves them but never says those things to me 😢So we've been dating on/off for a year.He has alot of friends,he's very outgoing and social.When his friends write on his facebook wall and ask him how he is he starts saying i miss you and all that stuff.For example one of his friends who's a girl wrote on his wall and asked him if he's doing well and he responds with yes he is and asks her how she is and that he miss her alot! and that really hurts me cause he never says those things to me.I haven't seen him in a month cause i'm away at my parents and he never said I miss you or anything of that kind and i feel like i dont mean anything to him.Do caps not express their emotions to the people they actually care and love?

Cap venus here.

He is cautious saying it to you because perhaps he wants to really, really mean it when he says it to you. Also, he doesn't want to jump the gun in saying sweet nothings to you, so what if its been a year. He will take his time and he won't be pushed. My bf has cap venus and it took him a year and half before he admitted how he felt about me.

The other people, well, he's probably known them for a while. They have been true blue friends to him so he's comfortable saying it to them. They will take it for what it is and not read too much into it, whereas you might read more meaning into it.

Plus cap venus is uncomfortable talking about feelings with someone they really feel something for. AND, a cap venus feels like if they said it once, then you should already know how they feel.

Just my guess.

Some of the caps here have cap venus, maybe one of them will pitch in and offer some insight.

I didn't mean that I have cap venus, I meant you're dealing with a cap venus here in this situation.

*just clarifying*

Also, look at his actions. If he hugs you tight when you do see him after its been a while, then he is showing you that he missed you.

Thanks for the responses guys!Truecap i understand 😢 its just hurts so much when the person you love is emotionally open with everyome but you.He always gives off a very cold i dont care vibe with me.And when i see him saying cute lovey stuff to his friends its as if a knife goes through my heart but.Truecap was your bf pretty non emotional.towards you throughout the relationship?

Posted by astrocap
Thanks for the responses guys!Truecap i understand 😢 its just hurts so much when the person you love is emotionally open with everyome but you.He always gives off a very cold i dont care vibe with me.And when i see him saying cute lovey stuff to his friends its as if a knife goes through my heart but.Truecap was your bf pretty non emotional.towards you throughout the relationship?

He is an aqua with a cap venus. So yes, non-emotional, a little aloof, noncommittal about emotions, affectionate but not touchy feely, always has me wondering what he's thinking, slllooooowwwww in moving things forward (it inches along), frustrating at times, BUT honest, reliable, stable, dependable, actions are loud (in that its obvious how he feels). Did I say aloof? lol!

But, yes, pretty non-emotional. He is logical and rational instead. But I'm a serious capricorn, I get it and understand it.

He does discuss his problems with me because we are a lot alike in how we approach things, but I'm sure he doesn't discuss all his concerns, fears, problems, worries. Nor do I.

Patience, dear lady, patience.

Cap venus moves much slower than the average bear. So slow that people sometimes give up on them. I'm sure its their way of determining whether you're really, really into it for the long haul. They take relationships pretty seriously, so if he's spending time with you, then you shouldn't have any reason to worry.

CAPRICORN VENUS (from alwaysastrology.com)

Capricorn Venus is responsible and in control. They impress people by their wit, their focus on their goals, and their smarts. They like a certain amount of predictability in their relationships to fit their cautious personality.

They like to be alone, which is part of their charm. This loner behavior attracts many of the opposite sex as they seek to be a part of the "coolness" that is Capricorn Venus. They aren't very expressive or demonstrative about love, and their partners may wish they weren't quite so practical. The person with Venus in Capricorn isn't known for their warmth or spontaneity. In actuality, they can be very romantic and wish for someone to share their lives with. How they appear to others is very important to them.

Capricorn Venus is attracted to people who are serious and goal-oriented. They are willing to commit, and are rather conservative. They may be a bit shy, but they don't want anyone to know. They plan everything, and they are perfect for those who want to know where their relationship is going and want security. Capricorn Venus is respectful and tries very hard to not hurt their partner. It is difficult for them to let down their defenses, but when it happens, they are warm and tender.

Capricorn Venus shows their emotions and affection through their actions rather than their words. Passionate people can attract them, yet intimidate them at the same time. They have a lot to offer for those who are up to the challenge of getting to know them.

A Venus in Capricorn person needs material wealth and status to feel safe and secure. They may choose to marry someone who is from a higher station in life. They are reserved in public, but can be quite affectionate in private. They are loyal to those they love, and live up to their responsibilities. They are likely to seek out someone who has the same level of ambition they have with which to build their own personal empire. They are a little old-fashioned, and they would like nothing better than to settle down and have a family to grow old with.

In friendship, Capricorn Venus wants to help their friends be successful in the world. They are dependable and expect their friends to be as responsible as they are. They may suffer bouts of melancholy, so it is important that they have friends willing to extend a hand when this happens.

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Capricorn Venus has a talent for finding good partnerships. They build with a sense of tradition, and they would like to leave a legacy in whatever they choose to be involved in.

People are attracted to Venus in Capricorn people because there is something soulful about them. This is made even more attractive because of the mystery created by their close guarding of their privacy. They don't just sit back and watch, they get up and do. They garner respect and exude dignity. They are loyal and unwavering.

For those attracted to a person with Venus in Capricorn, they want someone they can count on no matter what. They want someone who is accomplished in some fashion, and being prosperous doesn't hurt. They admire those who are hard-working and resourceful.

Posted by astrocap
My cap bf who has venus in cap is open with everyone but me.Meaning he tells everyone he misses them,loves them but never says those things to me 😢So we've been dating on/off for a year.He has alot of friends,he's very outgoing and social.When his friends write on his facebook wall and ask him how he is he starts saying i miss you and all that stuff.For example one of his friends who's a girl wrote on his wall and asked him if he's doing well and he responds with yes he is and asks her how she is and that he miss her alot! and that really hurts me cause he never says those things to me.I haven't seen him in a month cause i'm away at my parents and he never said I miss you or anything of that kind and i feel like i dont mean anything to him.Do caps not express their emotions to the people they actually care and love?

Dating off and on means what? Is he keeping his options open?

My Venus is in Cap . Words don't come easy to me in a relationship. If I feel very intensely about something, I can never express it. You should see my FB wall, very similar to how you are describing. Like Truecap said look at the actions which will be filled with thoughtfulness. Simple words like 'I missed you' is same as.....very difficult, let's just put it this way(the metaphors that came to my head were very dramatic). Everyone has different way of expression...you just have to learn to read them correctly.

I'm simply stating my reasons without taking into account the dynamics of your relationship.

Since this is about communication, Mercury should play a key role as well. My mercury is in Capricorn.