capricorn lady signs of interest and disinterest!

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truecap
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Posted by capgirl69
If I like you, I will:
-flirt shamelessly
- stare you down
-hang on your every word
- give you compliments
- talk to you

If I don't like you:
I will appear aloof/disinterested/bored/ rude

It's pretty obvious!



I agree. Will just add a couple things.

To like: I will touch you
To don't like: Looking around the room for someone else to talk to.

Mad: Cold shoulder. No eye contact. No aknowledgement of your existence. No response. Will be friendly to everyone, but will ignore you. If there is aknowlegment, it will be sarcastic, condescending and full of verbal jabs.
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Posted by truecap


Mad: Cold shoulder. No eye contact. No aknowledgement of your existence. No response. Will be friendly to everyone, but will ignore you. If there is aknowlegment, it will be sarcastic, condescending and full of verbal jabs.



The guy I work with must think I'm always mad at him. I'm just evasive. =[ I'll throw a "hi, how are you" maybe once a week. If I'm caught in the break room and he starts a conversation I don't turn him down very often though.

I'd like to say "you'll know if she's interested," but it wouldn't be honest. It depends. Have you offered to hang out with her somewhere? Mention somewhere open and public first, so she doesn't feel pressured. Or if you and a few friends/coworkers are going somewhere nice, invite her to come along? You would know based on her answer.
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Posted by StillWater
Posted by truecap
Posted by capgirl69
If I like you, I will:
-flirt shamelessly
- stare you down
-hang on your every word
- give you compliments
- talk to you

If I don't like you:
I will appear aloof/disinterested/bored/ rude

It's pretty obvious!



I agree. Will just add a couple things.

To like: I will touch you
To don't like: Looking around the room for someone else to talk to.

Mad: Cold shoulder. No eye contact. No aknowledgement of your existence. No response. Will be friendly to everyone, but will ignore you. If there is aknowlegment, it will be sarcastic, condescending and full of verbal jabs.



lol point.

Looking bored is pretty dead on with not being interested.

Also though, you have to be careful because sometimes caps are interested...but only as friends and it might come off as romantic. So the real question is: How would you show romantic interest vs just being friendly?

Sometimes we show immense interesting just because the person has intrigued us just for curiosity's and for learning purposes. It doesn't mean we have intentions of caring for the person. Or we can care about the person in terms of doing our good deed of the day but doesn't mean we have romantic intentions. Trust me...there is a reason they say caps are complicated.
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LOL< you're giving away our secrets! 😉
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from all your lovely comments which I appreciate, id say what ive gained from your advice is that's shes mad at me then. but Stillwater the info you provide is always distinguished but in a good way it makes me think because from what I did to her a couple weeks ago walking past her when she looked me dead in my eyes and for her to get my attention in the bar this past weekend when it was busy just to say hey says something to me. but that's all she did. she didn't want to be bothered with me like she usually does. she would start a convo with me usually. and she would pace back in forth to the bar service people then come back to me or shell sit at the other side and just stare at me. but this weekend I tried saying bye to her but she thought I wanted another drink when I approached her I told her I didn't then she just left me lol. but yeah from all the things ive done to her I just don't know why she still proceeds to converse with me. she knows I like her I feel its mutual but shes seen me out with girls gotten mad and the whole nine when and doubt shes the reason why im doing that because if she wasn't in the middle between "she should stay or go moments" who knows what it could be ya know
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😆 If she keeps turning around in her chair to look at you. If she completely turns around because she has nothing else to do and stays staring at you. If some one coming from a different direction starts talking to her and she spins her chair around to look at you. Obviously, when one of her people asks if it's you and she says yes.

All of this happened to me today, but I also took into consideration all the other crap she's done before today. Even if her coworker hadn't asked if I was the one, she was just too obvious.