Deciphering Capricorns Text msg

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by PiscesLoves on Friday, August 2, 2013 and has 17 replies.

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@PiscesLoves
13 Years
He is a young cap with sag moon & sag venus. Im his first everything. We are long distance with visits every 3 months. When discussing our future, he writes:
"we'll live for the now and see where it takes us. I dont wanna get
u down but regardless of what happens, things in the future will
change. Till our vacation in a month though you and i are set in stone."

My little Pisces ears hear "warning: im gonna dump you, but not until I get laid again"
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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts
Capricorns are just realistic. He's young, he has no idea where the future is going to take you. Plus, long distance relationships very rarely work out unless someone is willing to move closer. Its had in a LDR to build the chemistry and maintain the day to day aspects of a relationship. He's being real and honest. Don't give him a hard time. I don't think he's just thinking about getting laid.
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@PiscesLoves
13 Years
Ok, thanks, Truecap.
I might be willing to move.. If it's worth it. I just sure don't want to if he is already envisioning the end. Hopefully it's just communication error.
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@TigerCap
13 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn
He loves you but as others have said he is just being realistic. As his first everything you will be remembered fondly whatever happens but he also knows that it is unlikely to last. He's not planning for it but it is his Cappy mind saying *Warning; chances of the lasting forever are 0% due to lack of immortality and less than 5% for life. Following scenarios likely:1, 2, 3,...*

Just enjoy it and see how it goes. Give him a hard time and he will freeze up. He didn't do anything wrong yet.

Good luck 🙂
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@PiscesLoves
13 Years
Posted by SureShotCap
Give me his number. I'll call and ask him for you... 🙂 JK!


Lol! That made me laugh!!
I really appreciate the voices of reason on here. Im such an emotional fish and I jump to conclusions. I don't wanna picture the end.. I wanna stay in my blissful love world and focus on romance and trust and supporting each other. It's hard to think like a Cap! But since then, his texts have been about making memories and holding me and how good it will feel to just be with each other. That doesn't sound like just getting laid or thinking about the end. Im glad I talked to u guys before I went bat sh*t crazy over the deep end. Thanks!
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@Lucriu
12 Years500+ PostsCapricorn
"we'll live for the now and see where it takes us. I dont wanna get
u down but regardless of what happens, things in the future will
change. Till our vacation in a month though you and i are set in stone."


I want to give this a shot = )


First we organize this by putting what is important to you first (feelings) and then his rationalization second.

??You and I are set in stone. Till our vacation next month, I dont want to get you down reminding you of this but things change, we??ll live for the now and see where it takes us.??



Now we disect the shiznit out of this

??You and I are set in stone(I feel that what we have is solid). Till our vacation next month (I look forward to seeing you), I dont want to get you down reminding you of this but things change (It gets me down just thinking of this so im assuming it does the same to you), we??ll live for the now and see where it takes us (I feel that it's worth it to see where this takes us and by saying ??WE??, instead of ??I?? I'm hoping you're up for it too).??

I'm a Capp btw, I dont think i have that on my profile so i just thought id mention it = ).