Observing Capricorns... Things I've noticed..

Just some Gemini observations.. We tend to mirror who we are around and are extremely empathetic. I find Capricorns fascinating and are never bored with them! They always surprise me- definitely a contender for marriage with a gemini since we are prone to boredom and will get extremely cranky if things get predictable! One observation is: They refuse to do the social convenience of dating- as in it's not about first come coffee, drinks, then dinner, then other dates, then your official. NAH-UH.. They don't believe in THAT social convenience. ALWAYS best to be unassuming with a Cap! They create their own unique love story. If each chapter happens to be days, weeks, or months (hopefully not years! agh!), so be it! If they want you, they REALLY wants things tipped in their favor so you can't say no!
My own examples:
1. My Cap co-worker and I had been flirting for months at work and through text here and there. I was super drawn to him, but he seemed like a player and I had too much going on with my life to have any drama with it. One day, a Saturday, I stayed cuz I needed to work late. My ride had to leave and they asked our boss if she could give me a ride. I noticed my Cap hanging around... late... on a Saturday... As I was working, UNBENOUNCED to me, he told my boss that HE was going to give me a ride home!! Which he never did take me home- he took me to his father's birthday dinner, then the mall to buy some shoes, then his house, and to family party. I never made it home that night. It was unforgettable. I guess he saw his opening and took it!
2. A couple months into dating my co-worker Cap, I broke it off. He seemed too unsure and I didn't have time for that. I was having issues with my roommate for awhile. Three weeks after the breakup, my Cap ended up calling me- telling me how much he missed me and I admitted I missed him too but told him we could be together. I then told him of recent drama with my roommate that day and things were BAD. The next day he came to work, told me I'm going to move into his cousin's house, to get me out of that bad roommate situation, who just that week came to have a room for rent. Which I did. He came over a lot and made it nearly impossible for me not to get back together with him! LOL!

Yes, he really likes you and caps are a take charge kind of sign.

Beware: What you see as sweet and taking care of you now, You will eventually see this as controlling, confining and yes, you will find him predictable in the long run.

Sorry. I'm a realist and I was married to a gem for 18 years. Gems don't like to be controlled.

Yes we don't like to be controlled, but I figure I do my thing while he's away! (With Caps always working or disappearing and what not! LOL) I'm VERY smart, but he's smarter. Which I like, being a woman, knowing I'll be taken care of.

Posted by Sangfroid

I can't count the number of times I've heard people say things along the lines of: " Wow, you really aren't afraid to take initiative, responsiblity and you're so capable, you really thought all of this up yourself?! Nooo, really?! I would've never thought that of you". Okay, enough self adulation.😉😄

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I don't want to be your hero

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my favorite texts there

hmm...
When my Cap and were breaking up, he blocked me from his Instragram because 'he didn't want to hurt me' and 'I don't want you waking up one morning and seeing things you don't want to see'. This was the only weird thing about our break up.. but my intuition told me not to take it personally and that his heart was in the right place...

In his mind he was still taking care of you, even though you were breaking up. What he said was honest and respectful to you. In his mind.

Secretely, I still would have wanted to see what he was posting. 🙂

OLD CAPS DON'T BREAK UP WE JUST FADE AWAY
I DON'T LIVE WITH ANYONE ANY MORE IF IT GETS TO THAT POINT I
JUST START SEEING LESS AND LESS OF HER
DON'T WANT THE FUSS
DON'T WANT THE DRAMA
DON'T NEED THE NEVER ENDING LOVE.