Capricorn male and female Leo

Capricorn Male asks a Leo Female to come to his show. They are dating and this is the first time he asks her to any event. At this point she has no choice but to go by herself. On top of that she is not going with him. While there he will be mingling with his other guests and or fans and may have a few sets. She asked were they going to leave together, but he said he does not know, he don't think so. He gets mad and states her coming by herself has nothing to do with him. Blows up, and states he is not letting anyone kill his sh**. They live together and he has not be home since Monday. He also comes out of the blue and stated that she thinks she is fly now with her new job. So should she go anyway or go with her gut and not go?

To add. Her funds are kind of low. She doesn't get paid until next week. She found a way to get some clothes to look good per his request. He is not getting her in free although it is a low cover. She will have to take public transportation and he has no concern as to how she is getting back home at a late hour.

I would never do anything I am not comfortable with, nor properly prepared for...

Before today she had a feeling about not going, but she waited since she didn't see him since Monday. Knew he was going to start an argument and make it all about him. At that point this confirmed that she wasn't going plus him not giving a treetrunk about how she was getting home and the disrespect. So you guys definitely confirmed what she already knew, but this was just to confirm her gut.

Does she not have a friend that can go with her? —??

I would go to a show by myself to show my support to my man, even with the knowledge that he will not have time for me. He will know I'm there and feel supported and that's the whole purpose in going. I would find a family member or girl friend to go with me if I didn't want to be alone at it (but I have no problem doing things alone).

Furthermore, I would get myself home. I'm a grown up, not a child.

I see three problems:
1. They live together, so why hasn't he been home all week? (working or partying?)
2. They live together, so why can't he help with the cover charge or get her in free? (fundraiser or profit?)
3. They live together, so why isn't she more confident? (how old is she, 12?)

Other than that, I can see the cappy's side - she doesn't sound very supportive. UNLESS, he really is just an uncaring, arrogant prick and then she needs to move out. Hard to say without knowing much more about his personality.

You lost me at "They live together, but he has not been home since Monday."

With no explanation? His bags would be on the lawn.

I don't understand the OP at all. I can see that she would have to go by herself. Why not bring friends with you? Clearly there is no reason to go all by yourself. If money is an issue, and they live together, why doesn't he just give her the money to go to the show that he wants her to attend? None of it makes any sense to me. It sounds like neither of them is willing to compromise. That sounds about right, in a Leo/ Cap couple. lol.

Here is the simple answer. He is immature and more focused on his career and is approval seeking to adjust to the life style . He needs his friends approval on his girlfriend. This is why he doesn't want to be seen with her in public. He might love her but doesn't want to mix his personal and work lives together at the moment.

I would NOT go...at all.

There are issues here way beyond this event.

Posted by JTG
Funds are low?

Run Cappie, run!

She spent all her money and yours is next!

Leos...

She did say she bought new clothes for the event. She knew there was a cover charge, but did she spend too much on the outfit and not manage her finances to keep enough for the event charge? Hmmmm.... you may be on to something.

Just to clear some things. Although I am a leo this is not my story. So she ended up going as he straightened up a flew right. To keep it short. He met her so she wouldn't go in alone and they went home together. He even had to curse out a few friends because they wanted him to leave his girl to hang with them and let her travel home alone. She was always supportive, but his attitude towards her asking a simple question with concern of her safety home he didn't seem to get. The people she asked to go with her cancelled on her last minute. He was working on the event all week and someone close to him is ill in the hospital. Hence not being home. Despite him mingling he checked on his lady through the night. Some other friends of his found her and they chilled with her as well. All in all they both had a good night! Oh funds were low not non existant. She spent less than expected on the outfit. :-P

I guess we were all wrong. Is she happy now?

Well, if that is all true, then I don't see what the problem was.

I still don't know why she couldn't get herself home. Do they live in a bad neighborhood or something —?

Posted by truecap
Well, if that is all true, then I don't see what the problem was.

—?

Lol

Posted by truecap
Well, if that is all true, then I don't see what the problem was.

I still don't know why she couldn't get herself home. Do they live in a bad neighborhood or something —?

The point is it would have been late. She would have been riding public trans. No real man would want to have his woman go home alone at 2 or 3 am bad neighborhood or not. Had she had more funds she would have splurged for a cab. So she would have gone alone and go home alone. It was principal. She asked a question and was barked on for no reason. Due to his stress I think. However, he knew he was wrong and turned the situation around.

Posted by SureShotCap
I guess we were all wrong. Is she happy now?

I think most everyone had solid points and opinions and suggestions. In the moment that this thread came about it was an unnecessary disagreement. He had a lot going on and I think he just felt over whelmed. This is my personal opinion. His approach was all wrong, but he made it right in the end.

Posted by coolcappy
I think this was pointles to even mention! After all he, the cappy chap, did the right things! But he was accused too soon of all the bad things which he wasn't even going to do lol

I agree. This was something in the heat of the moment, but of course a woman hearing it from a man that way it seemed as though he could give a damn, but he did give a damn.

Posted by WoundedLeo
Sorry sister Leo...I think everyone was confused by your post including me. LOL.

Clarity is of the essence if you want helpful answers 🙂

My apologies to all for the confusion. 😉