Capricorn males please help !

Two things jump out at me.... One night stand and cancelled Valentine's day. Caps are serious minded people that for the most part don't one night stands... But when they do give into their urges the boundaries are pretty clear in the mind. And secondly, IMHO if a man's serious he won't cancel Valentine's. Can't give much more help than that but those jump out at me.

Cancelling is a red flag.

Wait and see if he contacts you, then proceed with caution

Hmm. Yup, I'm with the girls above. Don't expect too much. I wouldn't initiate anything in your shoes at this time, but go on with my life as usual and let's see what happens.

Posted by evalani290
"It was supposed to be.a one night stand" Men drop their standards when it comes to casual sex,women raise them and that's apparently true because men don't USUALLY fall in love after one night stands,women catch feelings. You've been a substitute of love for him by doing that,a replacement until something better comes.

"We made plans on Valentine's day but he cancelled last minute saying he got invited somewhere ." You are his second option or his last option,you've made plans and he cancel because he got invited "somewhere". That stands for a better catch than you,a bigger fish to hook or maybe he just lied and thought it's better to just stay at home alone than with you.

"He called about 5 months later saying he missed me & that he had been busy working but he was always there for me so we made plans but he cancelled again saying he was sick" He misses you,that's sweet...which part of you exactly?That's all crap,until he shows you otherwise don't believe a word of it.

You should start to put some boundaries and stop catching bones.

I ish I could say otherwise, but I agree 100% with what evalani290 wrote above!

Yah.....she's got a very valid thought process there.

Nice to see ya around these parts, CP!

I agree with the others, you're not a priority. Sorry. Caps don't normally cancel on people. They might be late, but not cancel 🙂
Being a Cap's backup can be painful and confusing. Move on and find someone who makes you their #1 choice.

If they do cancel for an emergency, they will make follow up plans immediately or very soon after (next day)*

Exactly! ^^^^ That's why I said it's a red flag in my opinion.