Sagg girl asks my best friend if I'm gay?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by CapricornLord on Saturday, May 30, 2015 and has 14 replies.

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@CapricornLord
11 Years

Hello

Capricorn male here, so this girl who used to be with me in high school is asking to my best friend (through FB) if I'm gay...

I really never talk to her, she said "Hi" to me and I said Hi back one day, and the next few days he just asked this to my best friend

my best friend (scorpio btw lol) was like "Well, I ain't telling you anything about my friends, good bye" and told me about this weeks later.

so what's the deal girls? am I really giving the wrong vibes or is this girl being too arrogant or what? lol

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@Weeds
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Seems as tho she has interest but isnt willing to go the extra mile until she knows what team your on..
The scorp seems to have already invest time in you and isnt willing to be competitive with the sag.

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@CapricornLord
11 Years

Hello!

thx for the replies!

However, I think you guys (or girls) misunderstood me. I'm not gay.

I'm not femenine at all, I don't walk funny or have feminine gestures or voice.

I'm good lookin (or so I've been told lol), so maybe it's some kind of stereotype or something?

I don't hate the girl or anything, I don't really dislike her because I don't know her, but my scorpio friend dislikes her soo much, (it's a male, my scorpio friend is a male lol), because he says she's vulgar (she has actually texted him offering sex before even knowing me, that was long ago, but still, and he intensely dislikes when women act like this to him, because he's also very good lookin)

He even told me that night, that the girl called to his phone (drunk apparently) and told him how much he would love to fuck him too.

So yeah, there's that lol

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@CapricornLord
11 Years

Also please don't get me wrong, I don't think sagg girls are all sluts, they're actually very funny and there are some girls I find very attractive.

But more than once a sagg girl has approached me and more than once I've heard they are, so please tell me where to meet a decent woman of this sign lol

also, (not that I care very much, but curious), why would a girl think a guy gay?

I'm not femenine in anyway, I don't have some accent or lisp or whatever.

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@CapricornLord
11 Years

And just so you girls believe me, this other sagg girl used to talk to me, some friend of her once asked me if I liked her (also this girl was kinda my friend then)

I was like "No, she's crazy lol", but I meant it all in good fun, didn't really thought anything about it.

So a few days later this sagg girl starts interrupting my conversations with people out of nowhere and remarking the fact that she was crazy (she sounded angry)

"No CapLord, I'm just like that"

Hell, she even called me antisocial once.

yeah... I'll stop here now.

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@CapricornLord
11 Years

Posted by dontgetmewrong
Well, don't really know what to tell you. but..Perhaps, she's just looking for fun right now, nothing serious, and she just wants to sleep with you.

With the scorp male friend, he was probably insulted, bc she now has her eyes set on yoU too... or he knows just how "free" she is with her sexuality. Lol. She's sowing her oats and she has no shame in that. Believe me, there are girls that look/act good but lowkey sluts. Male and female.

No, not all Sags are alike and sleep around and are rude/loud. I know people like that in practically every sign. I know Sags that are still virgins /low # partners/quiet and some that will put your # of sexual encounters to shame. You'll just have to weed through people like everyone else when it comes to dating any sign.

Not sure why she thought why you're gay though, but something sparked the question obviously.

Sorry this reply was quick and just thrown out there, but got things too do right now.

You apologized to me for writing a short reply! 🙂

how cute! lol

Yeah I figured, all sagg girls I've met/known are very open minded and just plain random (god I laugh alot around them).

I'll keep lookin around I guess

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@brianafay
19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Also having lisp does not make one seem gay...get the fuck out of here with that lol....

I could think of a lot of worse things to come off as ...gay men are awesome...I'd take it as a conpliment. I could see if you are interested in her and are concerned with seeming available, but other than that I wouldn't really worry about what she thinks you are

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@CapricornLord
11 Years

Posted by brianafay
Also having lisp does not make one seem gay...get the fuck out of here with that lol....

don't want to. lol

I could think of a lot of worse things to come off as ...gay men are awesome...I'd take it as a conpliment. I could see if you are interested in her and are concerned with seeming available, but other than that I wouldn't really worry about what she thinks you are

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It's not really... I don't even know her, she's cool and very open about her sexuality and uh... drinking habits.

but other than that I barely know her and speak with her every now and then.

I'm not homophobic or care if people think I'm gay, I find it amusing tho.

My friend (scorp) and I always come across as gay to some girls or even some guys, I know he does because he holds good eye contact and smiling while talking to other men, and has weird gestures lol but he's not gay at all, and because he's above average looking.

I, on the other hand, take care of my hairstyle, my eyebrows, I used to be bullied over them because they are soo thick and now girls tell me they want them.

I like dressing nice, so I assume it's because of this

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@CapricornLord
11 Years

Posted by tiziani
Mate if I were you next time I come across her I'd be driving with the windows down and "Something inside so stronggggggg.... " blaring over the speakers. Park up, hop out and give her a smile with the lastest Vanity Fair rolled up under your arm.

Really make her wonder.

LOL

But why tho?

it's no big deal to me, I talk about other women I find attractive with my friends in front of her, altho I admit I didn't even realize she was there at the time (I wasn't trying to make her think I'm not gay or something)

that's just to show you just how much I don't care if she does think that or not.

Besides, if I did that probably someone else would see me and then people would really start thinking I'm actually gay LOL