CapricornLord
joined January 23, 2015
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Capricorn Sun
  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    Posted by SpiceNSugar
    Sadly, I think Leos and Caps are better suited to be friends than lovers. if anything at all.


    why do you say so?

    I've noticed a few women I find very attractive being leo, sadly never been in a relationship with one, so I can't really have a say on it.
  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    Posted by Gemini772
    Do you feel bad for your lover when you give the silent treatment/disappear? Do you put yourselves in her/his shoes? smile *


    What do you mean by silent treatment?

    People usually tell us caps we're being "cold" when actually we're busy with something atm and not paying attention to you right now.

    We don't usually do "silent treatment" to you (or even think about it), it just happens to be a rough time at the moment which requires our attention elsewhere.

    it's not because you're not important or don't matter to us, but we don't want to fail in our work and we concentrate on that for a little bit.

    If a cap (or someone for the matter) gives you the silent treatment on purpose, it's because you did something wrong and deserve it lol
  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    It's no use to fight over who's better for a scorp lol

    remember that there's so many other variables than just sun sign alone.

    My opinion?

    I think Scorpios and Cancers can do great couples, just as much as Scorpios and Capricorns.

    I believe I've met MANY couples of both pairings in many ocassions.

    Personally, the cancer women I've met I've never found myself attracted too (which is kind of weird), they're too much of a good person and gullible (please cancer women take no offense, I think you're great people overall).

    But I need a woman that commands power, uh... a woman that can make me get on my knees for her if she asks (or orders, whatever), I don't know if I'm wording this correctly.

    Scorpio women command power, they just look at me with those sexy eyes of theirs and can make me jump if they want, and I love it.

    All my placements are cancer and capricorn (exception being Aries mars, which makes me quite angry easily but also forget it quite fast).

  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    I am one

    Jan 18

    I don't know, I'm very social and outgoing, yet sometimes I'm quiet and reserved and not interesting in talking

    sometimes I look "brooding" and "aloof", other times I can't keep my mouth shut.

    it's weird
  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    I get along great with gem girls, they somehow seem to be very attracted to caps or so it seems smile
  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    Posted by Impulsv
    Posted by CapricornLord
    Posted by Reincarnation
    Cancer, without a doubt.

    Capricorns are too boring, calculating, and easy. Also lack idealism. Life is too short for that.


    It's really hard to lump all caps in the same spot like you did you know?, I'm Jan 18 and been told I'm Cap/Aquarius and I'm pretty talkative and weird for a cap.

    Cancer moon and cancer ascendant makes me look very approachable for everyone, or so it appears to me.

    I don't know what you meant by idealism :o lol


    Totally
    My cap father is a gregarious man n followed n sought by many. Freinds, of all ages even my age. He is funny , talkative , outgoing n spontaneous.
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    is he by any chance near my birthday? sounds like an aquarius/cap cusp like myself

    This scorp girl friend of mine is dating this other guy who's a cap, but he's very serious and quiet, almost never speaks a word at all.

    She's very happy with him tho, he seems like a great guy, but he's soooo quiet it drives me crazy lol, when I try to make small talk with him.
  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    Hello!

    I come here because one of my best friends since I was a small child is a Leo, we somehow get along pretty well and I found that weird since him being leo and me being capricon/aquarius is supposed to be very bad.

    also te girl who used to be my crush back in the day was a Leo! and she actually introduced me to star signs and all that lol

    I was wondering what do you guys/girls think of us caps?
  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    Posted by Reincarnation
    Cancer, without a doubt.

    Capricorns are too boring, calculating, and easy. Also lack idealism. Life is too short for that.


    It's really hard to lump all caps in the same spot like you did you know?, I'm Jan 18 and been told I'm Cap/Aquarius and I'm pretty talkative and weird for a cap.

    Cancer moon and cancer ascendant makes me look very approachable for everyone, or so it appears to me.

    I don't know what you meant by idealism :o lol

  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    I kind of get the vibe that most scorps would prefer a cancer partner than a capricorn one.

    But as they already told you, the small differences in their entire chart could easily make a scorp more compatible with a cap or a cancer.

    I should know, my sister is cancer and she's so innocent and gullible it's annoying to me, and I've met some other cancer women that I perceive similarly.

    Then again one of my best friends is a cancer dude, so who knows? lol
  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    Posted by virgo85
    Posted by SureShotCap
    Can you please tell me what is it that your afraid of? If I am wrong you learn,evolve and then move on. If I am right and you wait and your the one, you will have everything and anything he can provide for you.

    I know you feel it, if you didn't we wouldn't be speaking atm. Why not take the chance? Just keep doing what your doing. Be you and stop asking people for advice. He will love you for it...


    Im afrid of being hurt. I tend to over analize everything. While we were hanging out, all i did was read stuff on google about Capricorns. I coukd barely focus on work.but you are right, i should give love a chance. Or i will never find it
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    He probably needs time to think about it

    He's obviously sexually attracted to you, but he doesn't know yet where will this lead in the end or what he'll do about it.

    He probably wants to decide whether he will take things more seriously and start seeing you as more than a FBuddy or not

    you know what I mean? lol
  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    Posted by tiziani
    Mate if I were you next time I come across her I'd be driving with the windows down and "Something inside so stronggggggg.... " blaring over the speakers. Park up, hop out and give her a smile with the lastest Vanity Fair rolled up under your arm.


    Really make her wonder.


    LOL

    But why tho?

    it's no big deal to me, I talk about other women I find attractive with my friends in front of her, altho I admit I didn't even realize she was there at the time (I wasn't trying to make her think I'm not gay or something)

    that's just to show you just how much I don't care if she does think that or not.

    Besides, if I did that probably someone else would see me and then people would really start thinking I'm actually gay LOL
  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    Posted by truecap
    Posted by jawsclaws
    Hey everyone- I recently started dating my first capricorn and am heavily confused at his actions. Weve been dating for a month now and I feel like im always the one initiating/asking him to meet up. I can't read him so i can't gauge the situation properly, but we have a lot of fun together and he seems interested. Can someone help provide some insight into the capricorn mentality & actions during this initial courtship phase?


    Stop asking and initiating. That's the man's job. If he's into you, he will initiate, otherwise, you're just chasing. I don't think cap men appreciate women who chase them. Sure, they'll meet up and get what they want, but they won't bother to respect a woman who doesn't make him make an effort.

    My advice is just step back and stop initiating meet ups. See what he does. His actions will tell you whether he likes you or not.
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    I actually like it when the woman approaches and chases me, shows me thats she has courage and that turns me on somehow lol


    It has more to do with the fact of her being attractive to me in the first place, wether if she approaches or I do doesn't matter then lol smile
  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    Posted by brianafay
    Also having lisp does not make one seem gay...get the treetrunk out of here with that lol....


    don't want to. lol

    I could think of a lot of worse things to come off as ...gay men are awesome...I'd take it as a conpliment. I could see if you are interested in her and are concerned with seeming available, but other than that I wouldn't really worry about what she thinks you are
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    It's not really... I don't even know her, she's cool and very open about her sexuality and uh... drinking habits.

    but other than that I barely know her and speak with her every now and then.

    I'm not homophobic or care if people think I'm gay, I find it amusing tho.

    My friend (scorp) and I always come across as gay to some girls or even some guys, I know he does because he holds good eye contact and smiling while talking to other men, and has weird gestures lol but he's not gay at all, and because he's above average looking.

    I, on the other hand, take care of my hairstyle, my eyebrows, I used to be bullied over them because they are soo thick and now girls tell me they want them.

    I like dressing nice, so I assume it's because of this
  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    Posted by AriesGirl74
    The guys "look" very serious - the ones I know are not openly outward jokers as such and they don't always go round with a massive smile on their faces, but when you get to know them - and when they let you in they are actually more sensitive than you realise smile


    It's a mask tho, we are normally seen as reserved and quiet, but like you say, once you meet them they aren't all that serious.

    It also depends on many other things besides sun sign.

    I'm cancer moon, and just found out am an aqua capricorn too, so I'm more emotional and attuned to arts (love to play my guitar), and I'm almost always eprceived as innocent by everyone.

    almost as if... they didn't take me seriously, I'm kinda used to it
  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    Posted by livictori
    After watching me apologize, pretending to be over it and spending time together he hits me with the, "you turned your back on me" butter.
    He said it would have been better if I just cheated on him. Wtf kind of malicious ish is that?


    Scorp values loyalty, any an all wrongs you did will always be there for him, in the back of his head.

    It's all or nothing with scorp, we caps are kinda lika that too
  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    Posted by Scorpgirl
    Hello -- Scorpgirl here.

    Cappie and I have been dating for about a year now, with a number of breakups initiated always by me.

    We have the usual Cap/Scorp attraction and sex is like taking a ride to the planet Saturn and beyond -- out of this world; it mystifies both of us.

    I am a bohemian artist (Master's in Music); he is an uptight Chinese engineer. This could be part of the problem.

    As a classic Cap, work is first on his list and it consumes him, then there is his elderly mother, then his two daughters. He'll never get over being the only divorced person in his family -- the "losing face" thing is double for him being chinese AND a Cap. (Being Jewish and a Scorp, I could give a butter what people think...)

    He will text me just about every day, and I know he is not seeing anyone else. He just never wants to do anything exciting, and he can go for weeks without seeing me. This is why we break up. Our last break up lasted for 2 months, then my psychic perception told me he was calling me -- I unblocked him and he hd called me five times on Christmas day.

    We are both in our 40s, divorced. I know this is pathetic -- why can't two people with children get this fixed.

    He is THE most stubborn person I know. How can I get his slow ass to hurry up? I just don't see the point of this relationship, but he will not let go.


    Why are you guys fighting? what's going on here? Scorpio Vs Capricron fight for who's the coldest? LOL

    the girl is getting frustrated because cap isn't showing any signs of committing, I can understand that

    I'm a Medical Doctor (almost...), I barely have any free time during weekends and I hardly see my friends (many of them scorpios)

    They know it's not because I stopped liking them, but because I'm always busy doing my own thing, it's kind of understood between us.

    Now....

    if this guy isn't showing signs of trying to take this to next level it's kind of... weird

    I mean, yeah, you guys are grown up, you should get married already, and he should explain to you why he can't see you very often.

  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    Posted by dontgetmewrong
    Well, don't really know what to tell you. but..Perhaps, she's just looking for fun right now, nothing serious, and she just wants to sleep with you.

    With the scorp male friend, he was probably insulted, bc she now has her eyes set on yoU too... or he knows just how "free" she is with her sexuality. Lol. She's sowing her oats and she has no shame in that. Believe me, there are girls that look/act good but lowkey sluts. Male and female.

    No, not all Sags are alike and sleep around and are rude/loud. I know people like that in practically every sign. I know Sags that are still virgins /low # partners/quiet and some that will put your # of sexual encounters to shame. You'll just have to weed through people like everyone else when it comes to dating any sign.

    Not sure why she thought why you're gay though, but something sparked the question obviously.

    Sorry this reply was quick and just thrown out there, but got things too do right now.



    You apologized to me for writing a short reply! smile

    how cute! lol

    Yeah I figured, all sagg girls I've met/known are very open minded and just plain random (god I laugh alot around them).

    I'll keep lookin around I guess
  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    OP is back


    didn't think this was going to get that many replies lol,

    So to answer a bit.

    By "game" I meant not standing idle and waiting for something to happen, not that I actually go around acting like something I'm not, probably the word has negative connotations and should've avoided the term I guess.

    Posted by Rabbit
    treetrunking amateurs.


    Yeah, says the one who didn't figure out how I learned about her sign huh... lol Winking

    Thanks for your insight and all girl/guys

    But I'm afraid I found out she's taken, I'm not going any further with this. Nobody likes a homewrecker, moving on.

    Good day and thanks again!
















  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    Posted by anna1
    This question is for all my dear capricorn fellows who have experiences with Scorpios. We always read that Scorpio can read people easily but I think Capricorns can also read Scorpio

    I have my moon in Capricorn and I am with a guy with moon in Scorpio. I think sometimes I understand (maybe up to some extent) what's going inside his mind when he asks particular questions. also I know how he can read me when I act in a particular way without me saying a word. I am unable to explain this but may be some of you can relate?


    Oh hardly dear!

    I've met my share of scorps (women and men alike), you won't ever know everything about them, they keep their own secrets for themselves, even if you're very close to them.

    I do get along very good with many of them, but I wouldn't say I can read their minds
  • CapricornLord
    Capricorn Sun
    male
    Posted by SirHorns
    Posted by Koniucha
    What do you consider a personality weakness?

    Inability to handle a situation properly due to indignant attitude. Like say someone flips out and needs time to cool off, but instead of doing that or saying that, give in to triggers that makes them throw more tantrums or spazz out even more.

    I understand as humans, we all have weakness, should perhaps I should re-phrase it by asking how to I tolerate people who don't know how to handle their own weakness?
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    Aries woman once exploded on me, I don't care if you're a fire sign, if you can't stop being all dramma in public you are weak and lost my respect.

    I kinda get where you're coming from