capricorn too much contact (my 1st cappy)

Hi all, OK so this is my first post on cappy board, coz I just met the 1st CappyMan I know about 2 weeks ago. 🙂

I'm a gemini (I know you'll all say we;re not a match) I've only really dated air signs in the past and other than my last Virgo.. As I mature a bit seem like everyone is becoming less than their signs and more understanding of other peoples characteristics ( i could be wrong)

Anyway, I met this CappyMan 2 weeks ago When I visited my Aunt in Arizona for for a week and went to her 2nd wedding. I was one of the sponsors and the CappyMan was my partner. I met him at the rehearsal and I kind of had a crush on him and he seemed to have been attracted to me too. We chatted a lot when we can. At the wedding we sat in different tables but He came up to me and asked me to dance with him and asked for my number after. A day after the wedding, I helped my aunt carry some stuff from the hotel to their home and things and he was there too as he is the son of my aunts new husbands bestfriend and they're neighbors. He was really nice to me and all, always smiling etc though I didnt get to talk to him that much then cause we were busy. I went home the next day.

Then 2 day later, just as I thought he would never contact me, he did. He texted me and I texted him back and he's been texting me all day, all night after that. Once I was sleeping and wasn't able to reply right away and he texted again and said he is worried etc, when i finally replied he said, thank god u were just sleeping, I was scared I thought u don't like to talk to me anymore..etc. He text me when he is about to leave work, when he wakes up: good morning. Goodnight before he goes to sleep. When he hangs out with his friends he'll text me almost everything they are doing, like: i'm on my 2nd beer now, we just finished dinner, I'm gonna drive home now, im home now, etc...like everything he does! Asks all the time what i'm doing, asks a lot of questions etc.

My last relationship was with a libra who is also like me, always busy and i've never had anyone in my life text me this much, nor am i a person who text too much either..I also take a while to fall.

Now the question is: Is this normal capricorn charected to pursue/contact too much? Does that mean he really likes me or is he just being friendly?

with his texts and reporting, he almost sound like my boyfriend.

also: I kind of have a crush on him too, I also (secretly..lol) like the attention, it's something i'm not used to

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It's something i'm not used to and something I know in the long run if he continues to do that will maybe make me feel suffocated a bit. But right now, I kind of like it. I'm just afraid for him, Bec I know i can ride this and enjoy things while it lasts, but since im not that familiar with cappys and he already shown ( in that short period of time) signs of being a bit emotional/possesiveness?

I'm wondering how deep could it possibly be for him? All this contact/pusuing

I am also replying to most of his msgs and questionings as I like talking to him, we are not flirting with each other, more getting to know each other. BUt could if mean, i'm leading him on if i continue to be friendly with him—, knowing that what he wants I might not be something I can give. I cannot see it developing to love on my part.. I'm looking for something else at this point, but I dont mind that little attention and crush. I'm just worried for him and the proper way to address this...or just go on with it..not care if i might make him fall if i continue to give him attention.—?

sorry that's long, just curious. 🙂 I would also appreciate some summarized info about cappys when they like you/just friendly with you etc..since this is my 1st cappy. thanks 🙂

My Cappy was like that at 1st too. Even after we had sex he was still calling like that. Things will eventually change.I miss my Cappy waking me up early in the morning and late at night.

I agree with faith .. happened to me too, and I am an aries, which means I dont fall for just anyone ... once he got your attention, he will start playing the violin on your heart strings. Whatever happens never be the one who admit how you feel first, and dont show too much interest either, he loved it when I used to ignore him. Let him keep guessing otherwise he will be in control. Don't ever let a cappy be in control ... they will over use their power, and come and go whenever they like.

lol...im not an attention whore. but i text alot...i realy hate small texts. even though if im busy or not talkitive i leave small texts. im wierd like that

vaporized.

this cappy likes you miss gemini.

Hi guys! thanks so much for all your replies! I wish I can address each one by one. I really appreciate it though. OK so for now I'll just keep it cool and friendly with him. So far to this day he doesn't have an absent yet lol..

I'll keep you guys posted. 🙂