Capricorns how do you deal with your pride and ego, love too?

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Let's break some stereotypes here. So let me explain. First of all I consider my self mostly a Capricorn cause i basically have Ascendant, moon, mercury, Venus, Mars and Neptune in Capricorn. My sun is in Sagittarius.

So currently I am dealing with a weird and new situation for me where I don't have enough money for my studies, cause my parents can't support me financially this year and also I didn't get accepted in student dorms as I expected based on previous years. So I was thinking about taking a break and get back to my parents house for some time. (I study in another part of the country, pay rent and have quite a lot of expenses.)

Anyway I have some good friends here that I lived in their house for a month, then went to a hotel for this month and I have been looking for a job. I haven't found something yet. And I was telling to all of my friends that I might need to leave by the end of the month.

So yesterday and today my two good girlfriends that have some free space into their home told me I can live again with them if I want to until I find a job and a home to rent too. These news made me feel very blessed and grateful. I almost got moved.

Of course I thanked them and told them I will think of it and discuss with my parents about it.

I feel so good I have them in my life but my pride got hurt a little bit, for wanting to go back to their house. I know thats bad and I don't really care about my ego, even though it has a life of itself as it seems haha) but it makes me be less openly expressive about how grateful I feel for them inviting me again to their house.

Also these specific friends are two of the very few people I have come close enough to feel good to live together with. (They are a Gem and a Leo).

They have told me that even at home when everyone gets to be themself eventually I am still as calm and collected as a freaking Cap and my reaction was all too Capricorn to these beautiful news too. I felt so good and happy and grateful inside of me and just some of it came out but at least it was genuine.

I have read Capricorns love is quiet and other people wonder about a Capricorns feelings as we do not really express them for everyone to see but for sure we have one of the most secure and genuine forms of love that is and you can see it in our actions, our presence whenever you need us and how we make efforts to get closer to you and help you in every way that we can. Just to remind you Capricorn risings have Cancer in 7th and that says a lot about us too.



Share your thoughts or experiences on this 😘
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You have to stay true to who you are and the right people will recognize your actions. It sounds like the Gem and Leo know what kind of person you are. You'll be a good influence on them as well. Caps always repay kindnesses afforded to them in spades as well. We never forget nor turn down our true friends no matter the time in between.

Your situation reminds of my struggles in college with coming from a family where I had no help either. I slept on friends' floors when I had no money and used to go to the library when there was no heat in the dead of winter.

What I will tell you is that all this effort and goodwill that you've put out there will come back to you. The people out there that you see using people and taking shortcuts by devious means..all that will come to light at some point. It all comes out in the wash.

Some will see it as arrogance but the self confidence built from having excelled despite the obstacles and doing it on your own merit is something no one can ever take from you. Self reliance is a beautiful thing because it allows you to actualize whatever you can dream of.











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Posted by Nightcap-

You have to stay true to who you are and the right people will recognize your actions. It sounds like the Gem and Leo know what kind of person you are. You'll be a good influence on them as well. Caps always repay kindnesses afforded to them in spades as well. We never forget nor turn down our true friends no matter the time in between.

Your situation reminds of my struggles in college with coming from a family where I had no help either. I slept on friends' floors when I had no money and used to go to the library when there was no heat in the dead of winter.

What I will tell you is that all this effort and goodwill that you've put out there will come back to you. The people out there that you see using people and taking shortcuts by devious means..all that will come to light at some point. It all comes out in the wash.

Some will see it as arrogance but the self confidence built from having excelled despite the obstacles and doing it on your own merit is something no one can ever take from you. Self reliance is a beautiful thing because it allows you to actualize whatever you can dream of.

Thank you I appreciate your answer! 😊













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Op what % cap are you?


Would you remind me where do I find that?


https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology-how-to/finding-dominant-planets-elements-signs-in-natal-chart-8334853/?checkpg=1

OK thanks! So I am 22,4% Capricorn
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Lol ok cool. Thought you might have me beat. I'm 26%
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Posted by LadyNeptune

Op what % cap are you?


Would you remind me where do I find that?


https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology-how-to/finding-dominant-planets-elements-signs-in-natal-chart-8334853/?checkpg=1

OK thanks! So I am 22,4% Capricorn


Lol ok cool. Thought you might have me beat. I'm 26%
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haha lol. Then i have Aquarius 18,7% and following Aries 17,5% which i didnt expect.