faith$golphin
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Confused, I feel my Cappy has strong feelings 4 me
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I was never sure if you CAP man had a girl friend or was just trying to keep you off him. Did you ever see her or had any indication she existed?
But do tell... did he sound drunk at 3 am?
My Cap guy wanted to introduce me to his family too... which never happened btw, because he cheated on me around that time.
But do tell... did he sound drunk at 3 am?
My Cap guy wanted to introduce me to his family too... which never happened btw, because he cheated on me around that time.
He don't get drunk!!! Atleast I never saw him drunk or talk to him drunk. I will fill you in with more later.!!! Got to go meet him at my cousin house.
ASK YOU DO YOU LOVE HIM....You know I don't come down on you like the others here but that's some bullshit...He is playing with your head, stop talking to the man, 3am and talking about love PUHLEEZE!! I wouldn't answer my phone for that BS, I wouldn't pick up at 3am unless it's my mom or family.
He should have been "DEMONSTRATING" to you that he loves you by actually opening his damn mouth and say "I LOVE YOU" I miss you, I'm sorry for all the crap I put you through.
This fool come to you with this non-sense and your excited, your self esteem is in the gutter if you happy over crumbs, got you jumping through hoops like a school girl on her first date and he don't want shit, he just love how simple minded your are over him....He will most likely bring you around the people that know he cheats, yes there are people in families that know a certain family member cheats and tolerate it....you are being a fool over this man, he just want some ass...I will say this thought...you must have the bomb booty b/c he cannot stop fucking with your head to get in your pants.
He should have been "DEMONSTRATING" to you that he loves you by actually opening his damn mouth and say "I LOVE YOU" I miss you, I'm sorry for all the crap I put you through.
This fool come to you with this non-sense and your excited, your self esteem is in the gutter if you happy over crumbs, got you jumping through hoops like a school girl on her first date and he don't want shit, he just love how simple minded your are over him....He will most likely bring you around the people that know he cheats, yes there are people in families that know a certain family member cheats and tolerate it....you are being a fool over this man, he just want some ass...I will say this thought...you must have the bomb booty b/c he cannot stop fucking with your head to get in your pants.
Oh of course it's the ego stroking SC, no doubt....He called at 3am most likely b/c the woman he deeply values kicked his ass to the curb or made him feel rejected like a loser so he needed a really high ego boost, he knew he could come to the one person that will love him no matter how shitty he treats her and she held true to form, oh I love you, I'm in love you with you....What a huge ego stroke that is for a man like him....then he threw her a crumb, he couldn't say I love you too, he said I will take you around my family....SMDH, I mean come on, this guy is lame as hell but somehow he got all up in through her head and heart and continually pull on her strings and she cannot for the life of her pull her self esteem out of the pits and ditch his ass...I'm sure there is someone that would love to treat her like a Queen and accept her treating him like a King but this guy is an emotional user.
5 years of neglect, OMG I know you had to be deprogrammed LOL, I have helped women in your situation and some of these women were completely brainwashed...It's no joke
5 years of neglect, OMG I know you had to be deprogrammed LOL, I have helped women in your situation and some of these women were completely brainwashed...It's no joke
Posted by CapGal
If a man is close to his family, then chances are you are just one of the many girlfriends to meet his folks, so don't get too excited just yet. Wait and see how things progress after.
I'm not that excited and I'm not letting anything get to my head. That may have been the problem from the start. Thanks for reminding me.
We stayed at the cook-out for maybe an hour and 15 mins. I meet his mother, daughter, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and a host of cousins. He's dad left the cook-out before we got there. We played a couple games of spades with his cousins and their girlfriends. They had ponies?? rides for the kids. It was ok his family was nice. When he was dropping me off, I look at him and said you do really like me and he smiles. I said don't you! Then he looked at my hand and said dam who bought you that. Talking about the ring he gave me a couple months ago. I just look at him and shook my head. He gave me that serious look that made me melt. That's the look that made me fall for him at the beginning.
Posted by tiki33
ASK YOU DO YOU LOVE HIM....You know I don't come down on you like the others here but that's some bullshit...He is playing with your head, stop talking to the man, 3am and talking about love PUHLEEZE!! I wouldn't answer my phone for that BS, I wouldn't pick up at 3am unless it's my mom or family.
He should have been "DEMONSTRATING" to you that he loves you by actually opening his damn mouth and say "I LOVE YOU" I miss you, I'm sorry for all the crap I put you through.
This fool come to you with this non-sense and your excited, your self esteem is in the gutter if you happy over crumbs, got you jumping through hoops like a school girl on her first date and he don't want shit, he just love how simple minded your are over him....He will most likely bring you around the people that know he cheats, yes there are people in families that know a certain family member cheats and tolerate it....you are being a fool over this man, he just want some ass...I will say this thought...you must have the bomb booty b/c he cannot stop fucking with your head to get in your pants.
I had enough experience with men. This Capricorn was the 1st one I ever was involved with and he's just different.
Posted by tiki33
Oh of course it's the ego stroking SC, no doubt....He called at 3am most likely b/c the woman he deeply values kicked his ass to the curb or made him feel rejected like a loser so he needed a really high ego boost, he knew he could come to the one person that will love him no matter how shitty he treats her and she held true to form, oh I love you, I'm in love you with you....What a huge ego stroke that is for a man like him....then he threw her a crumb, he couldn't say I love you too, he said I will take you around my family....SMDH, I mean come on, this guy is lame as hell but somehow he got all up in through her head and heart and continually pull on her strings and she cannot for the life of her pull her self esteem out of the pits and ditch his ass...I'm sure there is someone that would love to treat her like a Queen and accept her treating him like a King but this guy is an emotional user.
5 years of neglect, OMG I know you had to be deprogrammed LOL, I have helped women in your situation and some of these women were completely brainwashed...It's no joke
Did you get to talk to his family? I guess the whole family knows he's a player and accepts it...Oh well
I use to always mess with him early in the relationship asking him do he love me after I made him mad. I knew he was into me then. There wasn't any doubt in my mind at that time. The 3 am call was a shocker because he use to always call me all times of the night and early in the morning before. He stopped calling me like that after we have a fall out. He would still call but not all times of the night like he did before. The late night calls was not booty calls remember he live 2 hours away.
Yes I do have the bomb but he didnt get a chance to experiencs that because I didnt' lay it down on him the way I really know how. I was always shy and nervous with him. He sure laid the bomb on me!!!
Yes I do have the bomb but he didnt get a chance to experiencs that because I didnt' lay it down on him the way I really know how. I was always shy and nervous with him. He sure laid the bomb on me!!!
I see your not going to listen to reason or use common sense....So why post about the guy.....This can't be real, I don't know any woman that's this naive especially at your age.
Is this a joke? o.O
Please, tell me this is a joke. Late night calls are not love, they are manipulation and ego-stroking. They are disrespect in action - a man who respects you will NOT call you in the middle of the night unexpectedly. He will call you during the day to ask you out, and as quickly as possible after finding out about the family gathering. But you have no boundaries anyway - and with no boundaries on what is and is not acceptable behavior, he will never respect you. He didn't want to go to the family gathering alone, and you were his (almost literal) last minute back up plan. He couldn't even say he likes you out loud, much less that he loves you? Well, he's not lying to you.. you're lying to your damn self. He had to point out some trinket, a bauble he bought you and give you a "look" that always melts you? I could almost understand you falling for his lines, if he was still seasoning his bullshit with sprinkles of words you hold onto. (Which he didn't need to continue as he was dropping you off anyway, it would have been wasted effort to him. He'd already used his sweet words to hook you in during a 3am phone call to ask you to a function only a few hours away. He won't need to pat your head again until he's lonely again and needing a quick fix of your constant availability and lack of self-respect.) Though I actually wouldn't believe those words OR let them go to my head like this. Actions, girl. Actions over time, consistency and follow-through. Respect and honor and cherishing you. And this man's actions say you are an option and not a priority. Clearly, you're a crumb-taker. Being someone's option is fine with you because it's all you know, especially with him. Crumbs of love are not love, no matter how pretty it's dressed up and presented to you.
I feel sad for you, and frustrated at a whole generation of men who treat women this way, and women who accept this kind of behavior. Sorry, I simply cannot force-feed myself the bullshit you seem so willing to swallow. 😱
Please, tell me this is a joke. Late night calls are not love, they are manipulation and ego-stroking. They are disrespect in action - a man who respects you will NOT call you in the middle of the night unexpectedly. He will call you during the day to ask you out, and as quickly as possible after finding out about the family gathering. But you have no boundaries anyway - and with no boundaries on what is and is not acceptable behavior, he will never respect you. He didn't want to go to the family gathering alone, and you were his (almost literal) last minute back up plan. He couldn't even say he likes you out loud, much less that he loves you? Well, he's not lying to you.. you're lying to your damn self. He had to point out some trinket, a bauble he bought you and give you a "look" that always melts you? I could almost understand you falling for his lines, if he was still seasoning his bullshit with sprinkles of words you hold onto. (Which he didn't need to continue as he was dropping you off anyway, it would have been wasted effort to him. He'd already used his sweet words to hook you in during a 3am phone call to ask you to a function only a few hours away. He won't need to pat your head again until he's lonely again and needing a quick fix of your constant availability and lack of self-respect.) Though I actually wouldn't believe those words OR let them go to my head like this. Actions, girl. Actions over time, consistency and follow-through. Respect and honor and cherishing you. And this man's actions say you are an option and not a priority. Clearly, you're a crumb-taker. Being someone's option is fine with you because it's all you know, especially with him. Crumbs of love are not love, no matter how pretty it's dressed up and presented to you.
I feel sad for you, and frustrated at a whole generation of men who treat women this way, and women who accept this kind of behavior. Sorry, I simply cannot force-feed myself the bullshit you seem so willing to swallow. 😱
Posted by faith $ golphin
Capricorn friend call me 3 am and ask me do I love him. I said I will always love you! Then he ask me was I in love with him & I said yes! Then I asked him if he love me and he hesitated and ask me was I ready to meet his family. He said his aunt was having a cookout and he was going past there for a couple hours and if I didn't have any plans I could go with him. I'm a little nervous but excited at the same time. I'm shock he ask me to come! I suppose to call him at 4pm. I will give you guys details later.
I'm confused; I try not to listen to most people in the forum because they seem like they don't have a clue about what's going on with my Capricorn friend but deep down I absorb every negative thing they say. For the haters that can't think logically enough to answer my questions don't reply. I don't mind if you answer my questions and then give your opinion.
My opinion is if you dont like what people have to say, stop putting your business out there. Other wise we can say whatever the hell we want. It is an open forum. But its obvious that you are insecure about this relationship, because you keep posting everything about it. Then you say that people are haters when they make comments. The problem is not him it is you. You become confused when you are not true to yourself and what you really want out of love and relationships. A wise person knows wise advice when they hear it. A fool never learns.
e the funny thing is I never been dumb or na??ve. I probably forgot more things than most of the people replying saying dumb stuff, ever knew. Throw the na??ve & dumb out the window. Maybe you guys never had the opportunity to have a relationship with the type of people I had relationship with. I'm not saying I'm better than anybody and I definitely not saying stars are not average people. I'm not arrogant but the caliber men I??ve dated was on a different plane than the average men that you guys thinks you have master dealing with. This is a totally different league! I'm around stars all the time because of the field I work in! If you have a ton of experience dating public figures and men behind the scenes of the entertainment business, music /films/TV sports, then maybe you can teach me something. If you have not experienced this on several occasions you cannot walk in my shoes.
Posted by scorpio_chicPosted by tiki33
5 years of neglect, OMG I know you had to be deprogrammed LOL, I have helped women in your situation and some of these women were completely brainwashed...It's no joke
Well it was 5 years on & off, and I was dating other people throughout those 5 years.. but he was that one guy that I couldn't get over and I was that DUMB chick (like Faith) that was always there waiting for him whenever he returned. It took me 5 years to figure that shit out!
The reason he was able to get into her head like that is because her self esteem was probably already low. I do feel bad for her in a way.. because as much as it makes sense to all of US that she's being used, she really don't get it. People think she's just playing dumb but it's sad because she is really clueless. Really sad that people gotta learn the hard way.click to expand
Posted by girl_in_black
LOL faith $ golphin! So you??re meeting with his family, ha? I say he might like you more then any of us realised at first. Idk about the rest of the caps, but I wouldn't bring home someone that I wasn't pretty serious about.
But I'm still confused about one thing, wich is the part where you mentione that he has a girlfriend. I guess he just made it up then?? Haha, he must have really wanted to get rid of you. And now all of a sudden - you??re meeting his folks. Now that's a very changeable cap, haha.
Still, I think it's horrible that you didn't give a damn about the possibility that he did have a girlfriend. Doesn't that mean anything to you? Typical leo, only cares about herself... Sigh...
To be honest with you, I think he was really feeling me for a while. The way he was acting seemed like he was in love with me. I did some annoying things after I knew he was into me. We never establish a boyfriend girlfriend relationship so I was pretty honest and open about everything. We both just got out of long term relationship so we were supposed to be taking everything slow. I took things for granite and didn't value the friendship we had. I mess up and I use to always apologize and he would forgive me. One day I reacted ridiculous and said something that must have really hurt his feelings. I also said I wasn't talking to him anymore and go be with his girlfriend. Before this he has never mentioned a girlfriend to me. Every time I got mad I would say that!!! He never forgave me! He didn't want to talk me no more. He started being mean and would hung up the phone on me. He said if I keep calling he was going to let his girlfriend answer the phone. I panic, instead of giving him some time to miss me. He would have been fine if I didn't bug out like that. I sure because he would still talk to me when he was mad for hours sometimes if he wasn't busy.
Okay is it me or does faith's story seem similar to other women stories on this board or am I just being paranoid? Are you intentionally writing like your 12 years old? Could you find another Cap board to post on cuz you give leo women a bad name, my mom is a leo to the core and she was never this delusional over men.
Posted by CapGal
Lay it on sista...drop it like its hot, that includes returning that "licking" favour. You get an awesome feeling when a tough guy shuddders then melt in ya mouth! Your cap may just fall totally in louve with ya.
No! I good I'm not doing any of that to him. He don't deserve that and I'm been selfish so far. I didn't go down on him and I probably will never do that. If he becomes my man then maybe he can get that special treatment but I don't see that happening no time soon.
Posted by amethyst2002
Nah, she's always written her posts like an illiterate box turtle.
Big head I normally do it from my cell phone and you cannot see the whole entire screen. I have people with doctor??s degree that look like they can't spell typing on a cell phone. Try responding to 40 people day and reviewing important texts before sending them. When I get on the internet from my cell I don't review a lot of times because I don't have time.
I might be totally wrong here about CAP men BUT...
I seriously DO NOT see a girlfriend around faith's CAP man.
I mean.... I've experienced with my guy... he said things that he didn't mean....and I knew it right off...
each and every time I used to tell him, DO SAY THINGS THAT YOU DO NOT MEAN!
he has his ways of getting back. He thinks it's funny. He even admitted to me of what he said to previous gf...
so sorry guys.... I still don't see he has a girl friend. He made it up to test faith... then he got annoyed when he saw her with that guy at the games....
my cap used to play similar games with me... it's the type... the really insecure one... or lets say the one who is not quite 'mature', but he's trying
not that I agree with his ways. I didn't agree with mine either and that is why (although my heart deeply yearns for him) I have no sympathy for such BS, because I cannot trust him. He can test me as much as he wants...
for me it's over! again... it's like loving someone knowing that regardless what you do... it will never be to his satisfaction... tiring that is
faith... take care of yourself girl. See how things go
it's your life!
I seriously DO NOT see a girlfriend around faith's CAP man.
I mean.... I've experienced with my guy... he said things that he didn't mean....and I knew it right off...
each and every time I used to tell him, DO SAY THINGS THAT YOU DO NOT MEAN!
he has his ways of getting back. He thinks it's funny. He even admitted to me of what he said to previous gf...
so sorry guys.... I still don't see he has a girl friend. He made it up to test faith... then he got annoyed when he saw her with that guy at the games....
my cap used to play similar games with me... it's the type... the really insecure one... or lets say the one who is not quite 'mature', but he's trying
not that I agree with his ways. I didn't agree with mine either and that is why (although my heart deeply yearns for him) I have no sympathy for such BS, because I cannot trust him. He can test me as much as he wants...
for me it's over! again... it's like loving someone knowing that regardless what you do... it will never be to his satisfaction... tiring that is
faith... take care of yourself girl. See how things go
it's your life!
DO SAY THINGS THAT YOU DO NOT MEAN!
*DON'T SAY THINGS, YOU DON'T MEAN..
*DON'T SAY THINGS, YOU DON'T MEAN..
Posted by scorpio_chicPosted by tiki33
5 years of neglect, OMG I know you had to be deprogrammed LOL, I have helped women in your situation and some of these women were completely brainwashed...It's no joke
Well it was 5 years on & off, and I was dating other people throughout those 5 years.. but he was that one guy that I couldn't get over and I was that DUMB chick (like Faith) that was always there waiting for him whenever he returned. It took me 5 years to figure that shit out!
The reason he was able to get into her head like that is because her self esteem was probably already low. I do feel bad for her in a way.. because as much as it makes sense to all of US that she's being used, she really don't get it. People think she's just playing dumb but it's sad because she is really clueless. Really sad that people gotta learn the hard way.click to expand
Dam Scorp it took you 5 long years and you think I'm na??ve. I never had low self esteem in my life. I had a 3.6 when I graduated from college. I was always popular so low self esteem don't fit in my criteria. Let's just say I was dick whipped & tongue whipped, because that's more like it. This Capricorn put his thing down on me that's all to it. Before we ever had sex we were talking on the phone and he said, —don't tell me your 1 of those gorgeous women that never had a real orgasm. — I was thinking??_ I know he sexy as hell and I can tell he was going to be good in bed but what the hell is he talking about!!! I have plenty of orgasms. The 1st time he made love to me I was mesmerize. The 2nd time I was like dam he good!!! The 3rd time it was so good I wanted to cry!!!
Scorp_chick didn't call you naive, faith. She was just telling you her story as an example.
Nice that you are having your good times with your capricorn man... just hold your horses here... and be rather more respectful to people. you seem to rub people the wrong way... I sure didn't want to respond to your posting the very first time. Reading your posts though, I realized you don't mean to be nasty... it's your little screen on your phone that you don't seem to have control over in editing
happens to me too sometimes...
Nice that you are having your good times with your capricorn man... just hold your horses here... and be rather more respectful to people. you seem to rub people the wrong way... I sure didn't want to respond to your posting the very first time. Reading your posts though, I realized you don't mean to be nasty... it's your little screen on your phone that you don't seem to have control over in editing
happens to me too sometimes...
I really don't think it matters if he has a girlfriend or not, it's clear he's stringing her along and it's about sex so I don't really believe faith needs advice about this man...seems she's fine with his crumbs, as long as she's happy well nothing else including what we say here matters...she's dick whipped and can't see the forest from the trees....she like it I love it....IMO
Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
I might be totally wrong here about CAP men BUT...
I seriously DO NOT see a girlfriend around faith's CAP man.
I mean.... I've experienced with my guy... he said things that he didn't mean....and I knew it right off...
each and every time I used to tell him, DO SAY THINGS THAT YOU DO NOT MEAN!
he has his ways of getting back. He thinks it's funny. He even admitted to me of what he said to previous gf...
so sorry guys.... I still don't see he has a girl friend. He made it up to test faith... then he got annoyed when he saw her with that guy at the games....
my cap used to play similar games with me... it's the type... the really insecure one... or lets say the one who is not quite 'mature', but he's trying
not that I agree with his ways. I didn't agree with mine either and that is why (although my heart deeply yearns for him) I have no sympathy for such BS, because I cannot trust him. He can test me as much as he wants...
for me it's over! again... it's like loving someone knowing that regardless what you do... it will never be to his satisfaction... tiring that is
faith... take care of yourself girl. See how things go
it's your life!
I say things I don't mean all the time! I deal with some rich, arrogant, and stuck up people all day long and sometimes you must bring them down to earth. My Capricorn is very arrogant!!! I'm not ruling anything out with him. It's possible he didn't have a girlfriend and was trying to get to know me better. Maybe after we had some fallout he went back to the long term girl he had. I don't know but I haven't seen any indications of him having a girlfriend. I also think the way the relationship was going I had more control and he felt himself moving to quickly. I haven't been with him sexually, close to 3 months now. I only saw him 3 times within this time. He was hinting for me to come visit him last week. I always tell him I miss him. I am moving on, well at least trying.
he is not into you
that's what it basically comes down to, faith
he is not into YOU
he is probably trying to fool himself or others (family members)
any man who wants you, will be around... not on text... not 3 times in the past 3 months... not on facebook.. HE will want you by his side more often than what there is now
am telling this also to myself because I have enough examples around me and in my life experience to know who truly cares and those who do not as much...
that's what it basically comes down to, faith
he is not into YOU
he is probably trying to fool himself or others (family members)
any man who wants you, will be around... not on text... not 3 times in the past 3 months... not on facebook.. HE will want you by his side more often than what there is now
am telling this also to myself because I have enough examples around me and in my life experience to know who truly cares and those who do not as much...
The funny thing is he could be insecure because he doesn't look anything like he use to look 7 years ago. He gained a lot of weight. I didn't know who he was when he 1st tried to talk to me. After he said his name I had to take a 2nd look and I said wow I didn't know that was you because you gained a lot of weight and you look totally different. You know a Leo say exactly what she feel. He started calling and at 1st I wasn't into him until I saw how confident and sexy he was. He always bring that up to me that, saying I didn't like him at first.
blockquote>Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
DO SAY THINGS THAT YOU DO NOT MEAN!
*DON'T SAY THINGS, YOU DON'T MEAN..
blockquote>Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
DO SAY THINGS THAT YOU DO NOT MEAN!
*DON'T SAY THINGS, YOU DON'T MEAN..
I may regret what I just wrote, because I don't like hurting people's feelings... besides... I may not know 100% ... am just going by the *tested*... we all mean well .. you are the one to deal with whatever may come out of this in the end
Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
Scorp_chick didn't call you naive, faith. She was just telling you her story as an example.
Nice that you are having your good times with your capricorn man... just hold your horses here... and be rather more respectful to people. you seem to rub people the wrong way... I sure didn't want to respond to your posting the very first time. Reading your posts though, I realized you don't mean to be nasty... it's your little screen on your phone that you don't seem to have control over in editing
happens to me too sometimes...
Well sorry if I offended anyone! People have been saying nasty things to me but I'm strong and confident and I will keep on roaring back!!! I just wish they just answer the questions because I'm thinking about writing a book maybe on the complex Capricorn man,I don't know but that was a thought. Off course I will have an editing!!!
Posted by faith $ golphinPosted by FUMRedFairy_tales
Scorp_chick didn't call you naive, faith. She was just telling you her story as an example.
Nice that you are having your good times with your capricorn man... just hold your horses here... and be rather more respectful to people. you seem to rub people the wrong way... I sure didn't want to respond to your posting the very first time. Reading your posts though, I realized you don't mean to be nasty... it's your little screen on your phone that you don't seem to have control over in editing
happens to me too sometimes...
Well sorry if I offended anyone! People have been saying nasty things to me but I'm strong and confident and I will keep on roaring back!!! I just wish they just answer the questions because I'm thinking about writing a book maybe on the complex Capricorn man,I don't know but that was a thought. Off course I will have an editing!!!click to expand
LOL... good sense of humour! 😄
Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
he is not into you
that's what it basically comes down to, faith
he is not into YOU
he is probably trying to fool himself or others (family members)
any man who wants you, will be around... not on text... not 3 times in the past 3 months... not on facebook.. HE will want you by his side more often than what there is now
am telling this also to myself because I have enough examples around me and in my life experience to know who truly cares and those who do not as much...
He's been trying to see me a lot. I??ve been turning him down a lot also. I saw him at a track meet and talk to him briefly. He ask me to treat him to lunch and he gave the ring. I went to the cookout with him. I can be spending time with him I just choose not to. I told you people I'm really trying to move on. If I go to visit him I'm sure we will have sex and then I will have to start the healing process all over again. I might not be able to hold out any longer. I'm going to bed I got a lot of work to do tomorrow!!!
Posted by tiki33
Did you get to talk to his family? I guess the whole family knows he's a player and accepts it...Oh well
When we go there he just introduces me to everyone. I spoke briefly to his mom and daughter. We ate and then started playing cards with his cousins and their girlfriends. We weren't there that long maybe a little over 1 hr and then we left.
Posted by amethyst2002
If you were so strong and confident, you wouldn't be asking for advice on an astrology forum about what's right in front of you smacking you in the face.
Whatever your deal is, you're getting the SAME answer for every one of the 45783 threads you've started, dear. HE'S A DOUCHE. He's stringing you along. If you truly had any respect for yourself, or any of the confidence that you claim you have, you wouldn't be allowing this to happen. But you are. And you don't seem to be wanting to do anything about it. Just want to beg for someone to tell you that we're all wrong and your situation is just peachy. It's not.
My asshat Cap friend that I was having issues with? Recently sorta tested the waters with him in the sense of talking to him more than ignoring him. Guess what finally came of it? He wanted sex. That's all it's about once they manipulate the situation and get it from you. Never mind that the tard screwed up our friendship because he can't keep it in his pants. Never mind that he seems to think I've forgotten all that stuff and would even be willing enough to even want to sleep with him again.
Cue the behavior I saw before. Doesn't really get in touch too often on his own. The last two times I talked to him, I initiated convo, and it turned into him talking about us hooking up. Unlike you, I see his bs a mile away and am having fun thinking of different ways to tell him no. I'm okay with being civil, but he's crazy if he thinks I'd be willing to sleep with him.
Point is that while it appeared that my friend wanted to make amends, it ultimately led to one thing- sex. With you, that's what this situation is about. He know he has you and can manipulate you to keep you around for sex/whatever he wants. If he was truly into you, there would NOT be this much grey area and this much drama. Guys who are into you DO NOT DO THIS.
I'm younger than you and can see that. Why can't you?
But like Tiki said, if you really wanted everyone's advice, you'd actually listen to it. You just want someone to justify your actions and your situation. I already know what kind of response you're going to give, so whatever. Have fun and get used to the same "negative," responses for your next 5738 posts about this guy.
You are the same douch bag female that could have been dating the same man. You are pathetic go get a life and stay out of mine. You wish you could be me!!! But you??re not!!! You dam dike!!! I don't even read but the 1st line of anything you write. Get a life and pretend you??re me and maybe you will feel better!!!
Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
he is not into you
that's what it basically comes down to, faith
he is not into YOU
he is probably trying to fool himself or others (family members)
any man who wants you, will be around... not on text... not 3 times in the past 3 months... not on facebook.. HE will want you by his side more often than what there is now
am telling this also to myself because I have enough examples around me and in my life experience to know who truly cares and those who do not as much...
Faith is confusing PHYSICAL ATTRACTION with EMOTIONAL attraction, she feel b/c he is into her on a physical and maybe even mental level that means something...it doesn't mean what she think it means....It's a no brainer he's a attracted to her but not in the way that says I want to marry you, be with you in a committed longterm relationship. Maybe for her that's completely okay, leo's do love that ego stroking and tend to misinterpret love, real attraction, the kind that makes a man let it all go when really in her case it's most likely shallow emotional stuff, the dick is good, the pussy is good, I like him a lot type stuff, she's a leo, I can see her being attracted to that...I'm not saying all leo's are like this but I haven't met one yet that doesn't misinterpret the attention they receive as love.
LOL@Have fun and get used to the same "negative," responses for your next 5738 posts about this guy.
Wouldn't it be easier to amass a control group of Capricorn men and have them fill out questionnaires to amass information for a book?
OH HAI CAP! Step this way sir, coffee to your left, croissants to the right. If you'll just fill this out and sign it in blood, we'd appreciate it.
OH HAI CAP! Step this way sir, coffee to your left, croissants to the right. If you'll just fill this out and sign it in blood, we'd appreciate it.
Not to my knowledge! Need the crack team of Sherlock and Watson to bust this case wide open. Thread sifters extraordinaire.
He's been trying to see me a lot. I??ve been turning him down a lot also. I saw him at a track meet and talk to him briefly. He ask me to treat him to lunch and he gave the ring. I went to the cookout with him. I can be spending time with him I just choose not to. I told you people I'm really trying to move on. If I go to visit him I'm sure we will have sex and then I will have to start the healing process all over again. I might not be able to hold out any longer. I'm going to bed I got a lot of work to do tomorrow!!!
YUP!
usually it turns out to become the same story all over again.
I'm in the healing process and believe me... as much as I thought it will be easy to get over him, it is Not!
The first time around was easier.
The second time around, it is not as easy.
The first time around, I didn't want to patch up with another guy right after. I just wanted to get over him and keep dignity as well as not play around with another man's life/love. I moved on.
The second time around, I don't want to patch up with another guy again, because that is what I used to do in the past. I still feel loyalty for this guy... but I will get over it.
The problem this time is... and I tested myself... I was into HIM, waaay before we were physical again and waaaay before we united again. I tried keeping him off me for 8 straight months. But as I said, he tricked me one day.... I didn't know it was all planned. I thought it was a co-incidence.
I used to think a woman gets attached after being physical with a guy, but this time... it had NOTHING to do with physical. It is pure and innocent love I feel for him, as if we know each other for centuries including previous lives.
GIRL CRAP!! We are blessed with dreaming away.... dream away girl!... dream away, while the guy hits and runs past hills before you even get your mind to thinking of what happened.
This time, I wanted to let things be... just without worries... allow whatever way things developed... but there has been a point of warning signals for me, my intuition almost never proves me wrong. This time around, I have no proof that I did the right thing... but something inside me tells
STAY AWAY from him! NOW is NOT the time! .... but that's my story. I don't know what YOUR intuition tells you.
Perhaps we are just poisened with bad memories, giving us a hard time to break through a barrier...
Perhaps
Posted by venusianbull
Wouldn't it be easier to amass a control group of Capricorn men and have them fill out questionnaires to amass information for a book?
OH HAI CAP! Step this way sir, coffee to your left, croissants to the right. If you'll just fill this out and sign it in blood, we'd appreciate it.
LOL @Venusian 😄
Posted by Lancer
People are mean to you because you just don't get it . you are being clearly fooled here and the loser is clearly playing to your feelings of " that special woman" and is also lulling your ego . Infact at theis point its not even a leo thing , it seems like you are just "blinded by love" so you can't reason in any way except that he finds you "special" or "strong feelings for you" . Listen if you crave romance there is a better way to feed your addiction , this illusion is probably not the best way to go .
oh and amethyst 2002.......... shut the hell up ! seriously you are starting to annoy me with your unneccesary rudeness , go show your arien fighting spirit somewhere else . we are all irritated by her but that doesnt mean we have to get so so personal .
Ok thanks!!! Amethyst I hope you read this also!!!
Posted by CapGal
Faith is very delusional, thinking she is god's gift to men. She speaks of her beauty, strength and charm ever so often, one wonders if she is trying to convince herself that she is all that. As a result of the delusion she cannot comprehend, let alone accept the fact that a guy can only be interested in her for the sex. So she gives a little and hold back hoping the guy will see the virtue in her and move the relationship from a FWB to something more.
But Faith, if you feel so strongly about this guy and the situation, why not just ask the guy right out how he feels about you? You keep talking about the ring he gave you, but did he ask you to marry him or tell you it's a symbol of his commitment to you? Come on, you are old enough to understand that a man buying you a piece of gold represents NOTHING more than the fact that he has enough money to throw around. Men are not fools; they know just what to do to get a woman hooked. If you are materialistic, they will BUY you. If you are naive, they will fill your ear with sweet nonsense. However, if you are strong woman who stands for what she believes in, they will have no choice but to leave you the hell alone after a few unsuccessful trials to get into your panties.
I see nothing wrong in having a fling with a guy you like and if that's the case with this guy, why not go all out and make it memorable and stop short-changing yourself! If you want more and he does not, then leave it alone, or accept it for what it is. Its harder said than done, especially when you really like someone, or worse if you have fallen in love, but you will only be at piece with yourself when you have accepted the cold hard truth!
There's nothing about me delusional. I?? m not fabricating anything about me, if anything I'm holding back because my the life I live you guys won't believe.
Posted by CapGal
Faith is very delusional, thinking she is god's gift to men. She speaks of her beauty, strength and charm ever so often, one wonders if she is trying to convince herself that she is all that. As a result of the delusion she cannot comprehend, let alone accept the fact that a guy can only be interested in her for the sex. So she gives a little and hold back hoping the guy will see the virtue in her and move the relationship from a FWB to something more.
But Faith, if you feel so strongly about this guy and the situation, why not just ask the guy right out how he feels about you? You keep talking about the ring he gave you, but did he ask you to marry him or tell you it's a symbol of his commitment to you? Come on, you are old enough to understand that a man buying you a piece of gold represents NOTHING more than the fact that he has enough money to throw around. Men are not fools; they know just what to do to get a woman hooked. If you are materialistic, they will BUY you. If you are naive, they will fill your ear with sweet nonsense. However, if you are strong woman who stands for what she believes in, they will have no choice but to leave you the hell alone after a few unsuccessful trials to get into your panties.
I see nothing wrong in having a fling with a guy you like and if that's the case with this guy, why not go all out and make it memorable and stop short-changing yourself! If you want more and he does not, then leave it alone, or accept it for what it is. Its harder said than done, especially when you really like someone, or worse if you have fallen in love, but you will only be at piece with yourself when you have accepted the cold hard truth!
I'm not delusional at all and I'm incredibly down to earth person. I'm not materialistic but I was fortunate enough to accomplish having classy things. That was a gift from God because I didn't always have. I??ve been to the top and back to the bottom. I can live with and I can live without! I'm not drop dead gorgeous but I'm attractive enough. I'm a rather unique person and most individual??s love to have me as a friend.
I date men who are successful or at least in the right vicinity of becoming successful. This is not by preference it just seem those are the ones that will be a challenge for me. I??ve dated unsuccessful men but they have a tendency to be yes men. I cannot under any circumstance tolerate a yes man. Every man I ever was in love with & had a committed relationship with was extremely challenging. The difference is I??ve never had Capricorn man and this was truthfully learning experience.
may come off a little arrogant because if I was to reveal everything you guys wouldn't believe me. You already think I'm delusional and I haven't revealed hardly anything. If I was to tell you all the public figures I turned down you all would really think I was wacko! My Capricorn man has dated at least 1 platinum singer and 2 movies stars that you guys would know of. That was when he was younger!!!!
Now who smart enough to believe me? I'm ready for the ignorant dumb people who don't? LOL
I date men who are successful or at least in the right vicinity of becoming successful. This is not by preference it just seem those are the ones that will be a challenge for me. I??ve dated unsuccessful men but they have a tendency to be yes men. I cannot under any circumstance tolerate a yes man. Every man I ever was in love with & had a committed relationship with was extremely challenging. The difference is I??ve never had Capricorn man and this was truthfully learning experience.
may come off a little arrogant because if I was to reveal everything you guys wouldn't believe me. You already think I'm delusional and I haven't revealed hardly anything. If I was to tell you all the public figures I turned down you all would really think I was wacko! My Capricorn man has dated at least 1 platinum singer and 2 movies stars that you guys would know of. That was when he was younger!!!!
Now who smart enough to believe me? I'm ready for the ignorant dumb people who don't? LOL
Posted by faith $ golphin
I'm not delusional at all and I'm incredibly down to earth person. I'm not materialistic but I was fortunate enough to accomplish having classy things. That was a gift from God because I didn't always have. I??ve been to the top and back to the bottom. I can live with and I can live without! I'm not drop dead gorgeous but I'm attractive enough. I'm a rather unique person and most individual??s love to have me as a friend.
I date men who are successful or at least in the right vicinity of becoming successful. This is not by preference it just seem those are the ones that will be a challenge for me. I??ve dated unsuccessful men but they have a tendency to be yes men. I cannot under any circumstance tolerate a yes man. Every man I ever was in love with & had a committed relationship with was extremely challenging. The difference is I??ve never had Capricorn man and this was truthfully learning experience.
may come off a little arrogant because if I was to reveal everything you guys wouldn't believe me. You already think I'm delusional and I haven't revealed hardly anything. If I was to tell you all the public figures I turned down you all would really think I was wacko! My Capricorn man has dated at least 1 platinum singer and 2 movies stars that you guys would know of. That was when he was younger!!!!
Now who smart enough to believe me? I'm ready for the ignorant dumb people who don't? LOL
I believe you, but unless you are like Mother Theresa or something , I would never be impressed by your status or his. Celebrities (Movie stars, entertainers, politicians, and sports figures) are bought and sold everyday by the highest bidder. Like cattle at an auction (Btw, I am using the nice analogy). lol I mean who cares.
Faith — I am not a constant on this site so I'm not familiar with your prior posts or this particular man, so I will only speak on your original post. Caps are very simple, while still being very complex and once you get past the veneer of politeness you can see into their hearts through their actions.
—Capricorn friend call me 3 am and ask me do I love him.?? Every cap I know has done this (including myself for one of two reasons)
1. They are really thinking about someone else but that person in unattainable and they are feeling insecure and need an ego boost or a distraction, so they call the one person (anyone will do really) that will provide this.
2. They truly, truly do love you (but you will know this from the consistency of their actions in your life) and are feeling vulnerable and insecure and need you to make them feel safe again (an annoying and endearing quality at the same time).
—Then I asked him if he love me and he hesitated and ask me was I ready to meet his family.?? Could or could not mean anything. I met my ex cappy??s family early on HOWEVER I knew it was significant when he wanted me to actually sit down and talk with his mother (we had spoken casually in passing but never really TALKED). Ironically, I am the same way, I have had guys meet my family including my extended family (grandmother, great aunts, ect) and I KNEW they meant NOTHING to me. However, I only allow my father to meet those I am TRULY serious about (as of yet he has met only one of my male friends my ex fianc? the cappy), he will meet my new beau next week and I'm pretty sure THIS guy is THE one).
—When he was dropping me off, I look at him and said you do really like me and he smiles. I said don't you! Then he looked at my hand and said dam who bought you that.?? OH MY GOODNESS, I literally laughed out loud when I read this because I have done this myself many, many times!!! When I know someone cares for me waaay more than I care about them OR I simply don't want to hurt their feelings but am —just not that into them,?? I do this. This way you??re not actually lying to them and they can continue to believe what they want without you being the bad guy. Usually its quite easy to distract people when we are uncomfortable with the topic and by the time they realize what we've done they are not around us to confront us, so it doesn't matter.
—Capricorn friend call me 3 am and ask me do I love him.?? Every cap I know has done this (including myself for one of two reasons)
1. They are really thinking about someone else but that person in unattainable and they are feeling insecure and need an ego boost or a distraction, so they call the one person (anyone will do really) that will provide this.
2. They truly, truly do love you (but you will know this from the consistency of their actions in your life) and are feeling vulnerable and insecure and need you to make them feel safe again (an annoying and endearing quality at the same time).
—Then I asked him if he love me and he hesitated and ask me was I ready to meet his family.?? Could or could not mean anything. I met my ex cappy??s family early on HOWEVER I knew it was significant when he wanted me to actually sit down and talk with his mother (we had spoken casually in passing but never really TALKED). Ironically, I am the same way, I have had guys meet my family including my extended family (grandmother, great aunts, ect) and I KNEW they meant NOTHING to me. However, I only allow my father to meet those I am TRULY serious about (as of yet he has met only one of my male friends my ex fianc? the cappy), he will meet my new beau next week and I'm pretty sure THIS guy is THE one).
—When he was dropping me off, I look at him and said you do really like me and he smiles. I said don't you! Then he looked at my hand and said dam who bought you that.?? OH MY GOODNESS, I literally laughed out loud when I read this because I have done this myself many, many times!!! When I know someone cares for me waaay more than I care about them OR I simply don't want to hurt their feelings but am —just not that into them,?? I do this. This way you??re not actually lying to them and they can continue to believe what they want without you being the bad guy. Usually its quite easy to distract people when we are uncomfortable with the topic and by the time they realize what we've done they are not around us to confront us, so it doesn't matter.
I??ve noticed that men who like me tend to over analyze every gesture and comment and truth be told I'm not thinking about them in return all that much. I think you??re doing the same thing with this guy. HOWEVER, and I think this is the reason your getting so much slack .. IF A CAP IS INTO YOU, there are NO games, NO doubts, NO questions. We will climb the highest, run the farthest, slay the evil dragons WHATEVER it takes to get the one we love. If not for anything else, for our pride at the very least. We like a challenge and are bored by those who are too accessible. Instead of saying —do really like me,?? ask him outright HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT ME? and do not allow him to side track you, he will respect you more for it.
Good luck
PS — Despite how you may feel about it, you have gotten some very good advice here, take heed to what applies and ignore the rest.
Good luck
PS — Despite how you may feel about it, you have gotten some very good advice here, take heed to what applies and ignore the rest.
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Posted by amethyst2002Posted by Lancer
oh and amethyst 2002.......... shut the hell up ! seriously you are starting to annoy me with your unneccesary rudeness , go show your arien fighting spirit somewhere else . we are all irritated by her but that doesnt mean we have to get so so personal .
Yes, because she's clearly innocent of this, herself. *rolls eyes* With her repetitive posts AND PMs to you about the guy, her slinging immature insults about sexuality, and accusing me of insane bullshit (like dating the same guy she's dating), you'd be annoyed with the chick, too. I'm not saying I'm perfectly innocent, but don't go around accusing of others getting personal when this chick has been doing it to others, as well.
But I bet you didn't know that. Way to encourage the troll. But whatever floats your boat. Your double standard is noted. 🙂click to expand
Posted by amethyst2002Posted by Lancer
oh and amethyst 2002.......... shut the hell up ! seriously you are starting to annoy me with your unneccesary rudeness , go show your arien fighting spirit somewhere else . we are all irritated by her but that doesnt mean we have to get so so personal .
Yes, because she's clearly innocent of this, herself. *rolls eyes* With her repetitive posts AND PMs to you about the guy, her slinging immature insults about sexuality, and accusing me of insane bullshit (like dating the same guy she's dating), you'd be annoyed with the chick, too. I'm not saying I'm perfectly innocent, but don't go around accusing of others getting personal when this chick has been doing it to others, as well.
But I bet you didn't know that. Way to encourage the troll. But whatever floats your boat. Your double standard is noted. 🙂click to expand
If I accuse anyone other than amethyst I apologize. I'm just getting familiar with this forum so I clearly made a mistake.
I'm aware stars are average people. I just wanted to inform you guys what type of man I was actually dealing with.
Posted by CapGal
I rest my case with this woman. Not only is she delusional, but as the topic of the thread says "CONFUSED" like hell.....LOL. I was in no way refering to you being delusional about your social status or life overall, cuz I know nothing about you except what you have posted here. Your accomplishments and status have NOTHING to do with your relationships. Celebrities and other public figures face the same relationship challenges as the little man who sweeps the streets and therefor have to excercise the same judgements and common sense so as not to get used and abused by others. So please lady, get your head out the gutter and wise up. At the end of the day, you are just a simple human being with the need for love and not the confusion and guessing game that's causing you to post the zillion threads about a simple matter.
I never said they don't face the same challenge. There's a more than slight difference between dating a average man then dating someone public figure. They are more caution about falling for a woman than a typical man. They have more options,and definitely have more things to occupied there time. Yes there's always and exception!
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