Confused, I feel my Cappy has strong feelings 4 me (Page 2)

Posted by snowball543
Faith — I am not a constant on this site so I'm not familiar with your prior posts or this particular man, so I will only speak on your original post. Caps are very simple, while still being very complex and once you get past the veneer of politeness you can see into their hearts through their actions.

—Capricorn friend call me 3 am and ask me do I love him.?? Every cap I know has done this (including myself for one of two reasons)

1. They are really thinking about someone else but that person in unattainable and they are feeling insecure and need an ego boost or a distraction, so they call the one person (anyone will do really) that will provide this.
2. They truly, truly do love you (but you will know this from the consistency of their actions in your life) and are feeling vulnerable and insecure and need you to make them feel safe again (an annoying and endearing quality at the same time).

—Then I asked him if he love me and he hesitated and ask me was I ready to meet his family.?? Could or could not mean anything. I met my ex cappy??s family early on HOWEVER I knew it was significant when he wanted me to actually sit down and talk with his mother (we had spoken casually in passing but never really TALKED). Ironically, I am the same way, I have had guys meet my family including my extended family (grandmother, great aunts, ect) and I KNEW they meant NOTHING to me. However, I only allow my father to meet those I am TRULY serious about (as of yet he has met only one of my male friends my ex fianc? the cappy), he will meet my new beau next week and I'm pretty sure THIS guy is THE one).

—When he was dropping me off, I look at him and said you do really like me and he smiles. I said don't you! Then he looked at my hand and said dam who bought you that.?? OH MY GOODNESS, I literally laughed out loud when I read this because I have done this myself many, many times!!! When I know someone cares for me waaay more than I care about them OR I simply don't want to hurt their feelings but am —just not that into them,?? I do this. This way you??re not actually lying to them and they can continue to believe what they want without you being the bad guy. Usually its quite easy to distract people when we are uncomfortable with the topic and by the time they realize what we've done they are not around us to confront us, so it doesn't

Posted by snowball543
Faith — I am not a constant on this site so I'm not familiar with your prior posts or this particular man, so I will only speak on your original post. Caps are very simple, while still being very complex and once you get past the veneer of politeness you can see into their hearts through their actions.

—Capricorn friend call me 3 am and ask me do I love him.?? Every cap I know has done this (including myself for one of two reasons)

1. They are really thinking about someone else but that person in unattainable and they are feeling insecure and need an ego boost or a distraction, so they call the one person (anyone will do really) that will provide this.
2. They truly, truly do love you (but you will know this from the consistency of their actions in your life) and are feeling vulnerable and insecure and need you to make them feel safe again (an annoying and endearing quality at the same time).

—Then I asked him if he love me and he hesitated and ask me was I ready to meet his family.?? Could or could not mean anything. I met my ex cappy??s family early on HOWEVER I knew it was significant when he wanted me to actually sit down and talk with his mother (we had spoken casually in passing but never really TALKED). Ironically, I am the same way, I have had guys meet my family including my extended family (grandmother, great aunts, ect) and I KNEW they meant NOTHING to me. However, I only allow my father to meet those I am TRULY serious about (as of yet he has met only one of my male friends my ex fianc? the cappy), he will meet my new beau next week and I'm pretty sure THIS guy is THE one).

—When he was dropping me off, I look at him and said you do really like me and he smiles. I said don't you! Then he looked at my hand and said dam who bought you that.?? OH MY GOODNESS, I literally laughed out loud when I read this because I have done this myself many, many times!!! When I know someone cares for me waaay more than I care about them OR I simply don't want to hurt their feelings but am —just not that into them,?? I do this. This way you??re not actually lying to them and they can continue to believe what they want without you being the bad guy. Usually its quite easy to distract people when we are uncomfortable with the topic and by the time they realize what we've done they are not around us to confront us, so it doesn't

Posted by CapGal
I rest my case with this woman. Not only is she delusional, but as the topic of the thread says "CONFUSED" like hell.....LOL. I was in no way refering to you being delusional about your social status or life overall, cuz I know nothing about you except what you have posted here. Your accomplishments and status have NOTHING to do with your relationships. Celebrities and other public figures face the same relationship challenges as the little man who sweeps the streets and therefor have to excercise the same judgements and common sense so as not to get used and abused by others. So please lady, get your head out the gutter and wise up. At the end of the day, you are just a simple human being with the need for love and not the confusion and guessing game that's causing you to post the zillion threads about a simple matter.

Posted by TasteOfChaos
He is just NOT that into you

Posted by faith $ golphin

Posted by TasteOfChaos
He is just NOT that into you

Why because he don't verbally express hisself. I'm not the only woman in this forum that has this problem so I guess their CAPPY'S dont like them also.

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