==CRAZY, NOSY, INSECURE CAPRICORN WOMAN==

Okay I am new here and I am usually on the Virgo and Gemini boards.
I am Gemini with Taurus rising and my husband is a Virgo with Gemini Rising. We have been together 12 years and have 2 kids. Our relationship can be rocky at times and when it is good, it is really good. Fast forward a couple of months ago, he and I (virgo husband) were having some issues, were arguing more at home and around the kids. One day I decided to check his phone bill, we have different wireless providers so I dont feel the need to check his anyways. Well one day I did cuz I transfered to his cell co. I needed access to the phone bill online. I see one number stand out from the rest I mean TEXTS of 100 times a day back and forth for about 2 weeks. So I get susupicious (GEMINI in me) I hit him up about it, I dont really care that he has women freinds and the ones that are friends do not call morning, noon and night and its always work related, xcept for this one number. So he tells me shes a friend, it is some white girl at work, and dont worry about it, shes not his type blah blah, my husband the virgo is caucasian and I am filipino, he told me she has blond her this and that thats not my type, anything to throw me off. but i know him, it isnt really his type. so i let it go a week, but my intuition tells me to call that number and see whats up, so I do 1 week later, capricorn answers the phone, i tell her why iam calling and why is she calling and textting my hubby all hours of the day noon and night! she then says, "HE is a good friend of mine, we are just friends, HE found a special place in my heart, I love him so dealy, again HE is my friend LOL" all the fake BS is coming out of her mouth, right away 20 minutes into the conversation ------> continue on the bottom ------>

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20 minutes into the conversation, and I mean I have never et this capricorn girl, I was just inquiring on why the HELL is she calling desperately all hours of the day and night and clearly she must not know hes married, right? well, she tells me she knows he has 2 kids, she knows that theres problems in the relationship, but she did not want him they are just friends, again flat lie! so we continue to talk, then she starts talking about her past relationships? LOL on how she was dating a cop who cheated on her so she knows how I feel, and how her mom is getting incarsorated for drug the next week, and how her grand parents raised her and they died 2 years ago!! Just crazy stuff LOL again, i was calling about my virgo husband. anyhow, while conversating on the phone, she tells me check it out he is textting me right now from his prepaid phone, then she tells me what it says, I mean all of it..like shes throwing it in my face! I said he told me your just friends and he doesnt text you anymore, she said we are just friends, but he texts me 100 times a day or more...so i get a little suspicious of this chick, (capricorn) you can tell she is PLAYING BOTH SIDES. my husband came home from work, of course, being a virgo and afraid of confrontations he denies her tells me shes stupid telling you all that, its not like that shes just cool people, well, fast forward 1 week later, she then calls me again and tells me its time to MEET in person... ok so I am thinking, why would you want to meet his wife? that crazy fatal attraction BS, if you are just friends, why initiate a meeting with me? LOL ok, so I go and meet with her, she then showsssss me all the texts, she shows me the texts on a CENTRO PALM phone, LOL I go along with it, I read the texts, I am furious!!! the texts do not make sense, yes it my husband telling her, hey i miss you, hey where are you come see me when your shift is done, hey I am leaving my wife, hey i care about you..just a bunch of BS....she deleted the HER texts in between his and hers LOL, I noticed that as they do not make sense.. ------> continue

oh boy ... I think you need to calm yourself, serious, if you do not, you can make things much worse.

LMAO! People crack me up on here, love it!

Alright, again you need to calm yourself and look at everything around you.

You said you were having problems in your marriage -- if you were not having trouble, would you feel this way about the girl?

When you say problems in your marriage, what do you mean exactly? Like whats wrong?

Sorry, I didn't mean to be rude or whatever...

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So, now I am totally pissed out, I told my husband to get the hell out of my house, I am filing for a divorce, I showed him where the door is, and how to open it, then the whole time he and i were fighting about what i seen and know, she was pillow talking him and making the situation worse!! I know because I would get random calls, and random texts from her, telling me, dont worry I dont want him.. I told him if you stay with your wife then make it work, if you leave then leave.. I am his friend and I want the BEST for him LOL ok again FAKE capricorn!! so fast forward another week, Halloween night, I have had it with this girl and him..for all I care they can be together already and I do not need this stupid love traingle, infatuation BS HE thinks he's in with her.. the night before halloween, she had called me and she was on the phone with me still when I walked into the house, and found my husband in my kitchen, so I lash out and while she was on the phone, and you can tell she is totally nosey and enjoying the drama, he asked who was on the phone, so i shoved the phone in his face and said, here talk to you girl! pack your clothes get the hell out of my house, NOOOWW!!! then confused virgo was like, ya right i dont even like her.. remember, virgos do not like confrontations, then he said, right in front of her, I only care of her cuz shes cool people thats all.. so you can feel the knive slicing her on her back, while she was on the phone with me, and my gemini self was furious as hell that day, because he had texted her and said he wanted to be with her and he cared for her, in front of me he said only because shes cool people, so that bruised her hopes and ego, he stormed out of the house, cuz i told him to leave its over!! i stay on the phone with her, lashing out and told her you better have a roof over his head because he no longer has one here, this girl was like, I DONT EVEN WANT HIM THIS AND THAT LOL..15 minutes later while still on the phone with her, he comes back, tells me he dont give a crap about her, he found many FLAWS he didnt like about her, she was clingy, needy and emotionaly messed up, also very dirty and he analyzed her already..now keep in mind she was still on the phone while he said all that, she was listening...--->continue

Well ...

My best friend is a Saggie and his girlfriend is a cancer. He and I talk at all hours of the night because we are friends and we confide in each other. Now, do I want him in a romanic way, no but do I love him, yes I do and he knows that.

But he's girlfriend (soon to be wife) hates me for whatever reason. They have trouble with their realtionship too. He was suppose to marry her but he has called it off twice I think.

I get blamed for that but I can't conrol what he does!!

The whole situation is sticky, but anyway, I know the situation because I'm sort of involved in one right now. I mean my friend has to talk to me in his car sometimes so she doesn't know that its me on his cell. Thats a terrible way to live ...

Hey sarasa,

There seems to be a problem here ...

ok anyways.. i got to the point where i do not care and its time to let go, i could not get mad anymore at the situation because it turned into a joke to me LOL HE WONT LEAVE AND SHES MAKING HIM LEAVE.. AND IM TELLING HIM TO LEAVE AND KICKED HIM OUT LOL...imagine that. so he makes his choice, gave me his sincerity.. he wants to make things work and hes sorry.. the problems in the marriage, was about money most of the time and he worked 2 jobs (stripclub) she was a cocktail waitress so she made good money.. so heres what virgo man finally admitted to me reason why he got involved with her is because at first she made him feel like there no issues in life and everything was perfect, ok i get it, virgo married 12 years, girls nice to him and he goes that way.ok fine.. in the end he said i checked my horoscope and said my best match was capricorn LOL she was cool and nice at first and she got psyco on me, she told me if you leave your wife i will pay her 1000.00 a month on child suport LOL and he said right there that turned me off knowing i am the provider.. and then she said if you stay fix it, if you leave give me COMMITMENT LOL so right there she just killed it with the virgo.. she got even more psyco she text banged he and i when things did not go her way, and then she came to work with long brown extension to look like me,.. HERES WHY I SAY SHE IS CRAZY!! this capricorn girl did not get what she wanted, shes clearly tainted from past relationshsips, she clearly found stability with my husband for like1 1/2 months LOL versus my 12 years with him sure we were having issues.. we worked thru it, will i recover from it? probably not.. i dont know.. in the end when nothing else worked, she came to work and filed sexual harassment on him, and he got fired... because it turned out the boss and her were friends a long time and he took her story.. ok thats psyco!! i would not get someone fired if they made it clear thtye didn want me... are you capricorn women scorned from the past, act like that? i have a cap friend at work, and shes hella sneaky too!! anyways, we had to change our numbers because shes still sending random texts to him... it reads " you said you cared about me, you said you wanted to leave her" LMAO..

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20 minutes into the conversation, and I mean I have never et this capricorn girl, I was just inquiring on why the HELL is she calling desperately all hours of the day and night and clearly she must not know hes married, right? well, she tells me she knows he has 2 kids, she knows that theres problems in the relationship, but she did not want him they are just friends, again flat lie! so we continue to talk, then she starts talking about her past relationships? LOL on how she was dating a cop who cheated on her so she knows how I feel, and how her mom is getting incarsorated for drug the next week, and how her grand parents raised her and they died 2 years ago!! Just crazy stuff LOL again, i was calling about my virgo husband. anyhow, while conversating on the phone, she tells me check it out he is textting me right now from his prepaid phone, then she tells me what it says, I mean all of it..like shes throwing it in my face! I said he told me your just friends and he doesnt text you anymore, she said we are just friends, but he texts me 100 times a day or more...so i get a little suspicious of this chick, (capricorn) you can tell she is PLAYING BOTH SIDES. my husband came home from work, of course, being a virgo and afraid of confrontations he denies her tells me shes stupid telling you all that, its not like that shes just cool people, well, fast forward 1 week later, she then calls me again and tells me its time to MEET in person... ok so I am thinking, why would you want to meet his wife? that crazy fatal attraction BS, if you are just friends, why initiate a meeting with me? LOL ok, so I go and meet with her, she then showsssss me all the texts, she shows me the texts on a CENTRO PALM phone, LOL I go along with it, I read the texts, I am furious!!! the texts do not make sense, yes it my husband telling her, hey i miss you, hey where are you come see me when your shift is done, hey I am leaving my wife, hey i care about you..just a bunch of BS....she deleted the HER texts in between his and hers LOL, I noticed that as they do not make sense.. ------> continue

Hmmm, okay ...

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So, now I am totally pissed out, I told my husband to get the hell out of my house, I am filing for a divorce, I showed him where the door is, and how to open it, then the whole time he and i were fighting about what i seen and know, she was pillow talking him and making the situation worse!! I know because I would get random calls, and random texts from her, telling me, dont worry I dont want him.. I told him if you stay with your wife then make it work, if you leave then leave.. I am his friend and I want the BEST for him LOL ok again FAKE capricorn!! so fast forward another week, Halloween night, I have had it with this girl and him..for all I care they can be together already and I do not need this stupid love traingle, infatuation BS HE thinks he's in with her.. the night before halloween, she had called me and she was on the phone with me still when I walked into the house, and found my husband in my kitchen, so I lash out and while she was on the phone, and you can tell she is totally nosey and enjoying the drama, he asked who was on the phone, so i shoved the phone in his face and said, here talk to you girl! pack your clothes get the hell out of my house, NOOOWW!!! then confused virgo was like, ya right i dont even like her.. remember, virgos do not like confrontations, then he said, right in front of her, I only care of her cuz shes cool people thats all.. so you can feel the knive slicing her on her back, while she was on the phone with me, and my gemini self was furious as hell that day, because he had texted her and said he wanted to be with her and he cared for her, in front of me he said only because shes cool people, so that bruised her hopes and ego, he stormed out of the house, cuz i told him to leave its over!! i stay on the phone with her, lashing out and told her you better have a roof over his head because he no longer has one here, this girl was like, I DONT EVEN WANT HIM THIS AND THAT LOL..15 minutes later while still on the phone with her, he comes back, tells me he dont give a crap about her, he found many FLAWS he didnt like about her, she was clingy, needy and emotionaly messed up, also very dirty and he analyzed her already..now keep in mind she was still on the phone while he said all that, she was listening...--->continue

Alright

In all honesty lvgem, you are blaming the wrong person. The real adult in this situation who has created all this drama is your husband.

I never understood why women are so quick to blame the "other" woman -- its like they are afraid to place blame on both parties so its easy to blame the girl because you don't have to look at her everday.

He KNEW he was married to you and the fact that he choose not to honor that makes him just as terrible (if not worse) then the capricorn girl he cheated on you with. She was stupid to go out with a married man, but some woman cling on to hope that the guyh will leave his wife. But he lied to her just like he lied to you ... and you're proud of that—

in the begining i told her .. you need to back off, you said you were just his friend right? because the texts were soooo many day and night, even when hes with me and the kids.. no respect at all.. she told me i am his friend i am not backing off if he wants me too then i will but he needs to tell me that? ok the wife asks you to backoff, but you want to be disrespectful? in the end my virgo told me the flat out truth, she really wanted to be with him and came on to him real strong and he said, it felt like she was doing it more to piss you off, she kept telling me to leave everyday.. and i am not leaving my family for just some girl i knew less than 2 months at work, ya we had fun at work i really liked her and i thought i did.. i did not know why you and i were still married, we had alot of issues, but then again, the day she told me to leave and i was haning out with her, you and the kids were in the back of my mind the whole time, i did not want to throw away 12 years.. and i am sorry.. he said i promise you it will not happen again, so far so good at home, me and him talked things thru and laid out everything on the table... and SHE CONTINUES TO HARASS!! and how do we know that? prior to us changing numbers, she was slandering him at work to other co-workers and they called my husband and said, that girl is crazy she is walking around at work, armed with her phone and old texts from you, and shes telling people how she really wanted to be with you and you and her are going to be together no matter what.. this and that... i dont know about that one... she was very nosey, called me all the time asking if i wanted to see texts he sent her LOL.. i dont know.. i am never that type of person... i dont pursue people that do not want me... now my fried here in vegas, she works at metro pcs and said theres a guy there (capricorn too) was real cool in the beginning and shes a sag and i guess he was under the impression she likes him, she doesnt... so he tried to get her fired and written up too... whats up with capricorns doing things like that if things dont go your way? i asked because I have cappy friend at work, although she is real nice to me... she is sort of sneaky like that too in a way....

Like I said, he lied to you both. If you choose to stay and trust someone who has alright cheated on you and wasn't upfront about it from the start, then you are responsible for all that happens from this point.

In all honesty lvgem, you are blaming the wrong person. The real adult in this situation who has created all this drama is your husband.

I never understood why women are so quick to blame the "other" woman -- its like they are afraid to place blame on both parties so its easy to blame the girl because you don't have to look at her everday.

He KNEW he was married to you and the fact that he choose not to honor that makes him just as terrible (if not worse) then the capricorn girl he cheated on you with. She was stupid to go out with a married man, but some woman cling on to hope that the guyh will leave his wife. But he lied to her just like he lied to you ... and you're proud of that—

dont get me wrong i do blame him more for it.. and he lost his job because of it.. trust me its thrown in his face.. i blame her because she made things worse!! even after i told her backoff, trust me hes not leaving LOL.. hes playing you, i know him..she snuck into his phone and stole his moms cell number and started hasrassing her too.. thats crazy! the BLAME IS ON HIM MORE because he let some low life, take money away from us... i mean he has a good job, the other one was part time but still! and I BLAME HER more because she created a bunch of drama, and even the time we did and were making things work? she did sneaky things to make it worse.. she played me and him against each other... she acted like she was my friend LOL (of course i played along for the info) then she turned around to him with everything, then round and round we go.. this is how simple it should have been... your married, not happy get out.. be with cappy and live a happy life right?? well not really, it was more i cared for cappy, but shes too weird and crazy for me, then it made me realize how much i love my wife whos filing for divorce because im a suckwad, now theres a cappy chick i cant get rid of... and still in the picture thru his friends...—? how do we get rid of her? LOL...i mean i love my husband and he obviously loves me too and everything we built together from nothing... were not perfect, things happen and this is a perfect example..my question is, whats up with you cappy people when it comes to rejection? married men or not?

Oh and one more thing ...

Of course he will say everything in his power to make you feel good because he doesn't want a divorce. A virgo will cheat as long as he wants until he gets caught -- the determining factor of why he won't walk away from you has everytihng to do with all that comes with marriage. He doesn't want his family broken apart, and he doesn't want to deal with everything that will come with a divorce ... this would mean that he would actully have to be a 'stand-up' guy for once and that would be terrible for him because he is use to doing things his way.

If you stay with him, its you call, no one telling you to leave because thats your decision. BUT, you are responsible for all that happens after the fact. The ball was in his court beccause he was making a fool out of the cap lover and the gem wife (you). Now that he's caught, the ball fell in your court. Instead of throwing it in the treaches where it belongs, you want to hold on to it for your own reasons. Like I said, as far as what happens, its all on you -- this includes any and all perceptions that your children will have as well. Just because children are young does not mean they do not catch on to things.

I knew my parents had a bad marriage at 5 years old, it didn't take to much developement to spot that, even though they tried to hide it, I knew.

Like I said, he lied to you both. If you choose to stay and trust someone who has alright cheated on you and wasn't upfront about it from the start, then you are responsible for all that happens from this

thats true cappysweetie....
I have been with him 12 years. Everything we have we built together from nothing, been with him since i was 17 and i am 30 now.. we love each other dearly.. we have a weird relationship that works for the both of us, might not work for other people.. i dont know its weird i cant explain.... it has never been an open marriage.. its always been me and him since day 1.. what he did, i might never forget... i am like that i hold a grudge. why i tried to make it work? sometimes i asked myself that... all my kids are so close to their dad, and the show must go on...do i trust him? NO.. and thats really big to me.. i have a pending divorce... it has not gone thru yet... his mom is helping me with the process..she is very apauled as well, that cappy caused so much with the family that my husband and his mom no longer have a realtionsip because of it, and hes a mommys boy.. where i go from here? i dont know... all i know is i am a good person and i have 2 kids to cater too..he wants to be with me? hes sorry? he will never do it again? he said he has everything he wants in life he just didnt see it...where he worked, it didnt help either at a strip club as a vip host.. so i guess cappy getting him fired and all this was meant to be right? i have prayed to go god he quit that job, he became a whole new person working there, always about money, but more about money afterwards.. its like my husband transformed into a new person i didnt know.. so i take it how it comes to me i guess.. he no longer works there and when he got home that night he got on his knees and said srry for all the things and heartache i caused you.. i thought thats what i wanted and i didnt..i just want my life back, you and my kids..i dont care for the money it almost made me lose my family.. the fame, the status he got suckered into the life.. and thats why i took him back because i know him, hes sincere..and things happen for a reason right?? ok, life lesson learned...but how do we get rid of this cappy girl? who still going out of her way to buy prepaid phones to call us, we blocked her # from att..and shes still texting "i dont lose" "im not a loser" its became more of a game to win him.and he he dont want her..she text him " you said we would be together" "

dont get me wrong i do blame him more for it.. and he lost his job because of it.. trust me its thrown in his face.. i blame her because she made things worse!!

No she didn't, she didn't make things anymore worse then they would have been if she would have just been the 'quiet little mistress' for years and years without you even knowing she was bedding your husband until that one day when you found panties left in his coat pocket, you know what I mean?

She did the typical thing really, she blow everything out of the water and as a result, he hurt him too because most virgos do not like losing face. Do you think she didn't know how much chaos she was creating by doing all of that stuff? Do you think she wasn't aware?

Being a cap myself on the Saggie cusp, I say she knew exactly what she was doing. She created alot of hell so he couldn't get a way with the stunt he was trying to pull.

Yep, thats all she did, she knew that things would come crashing down (being a capricorn, she understands trial and error instantly). Yep, she knew ... its like the old saying, "You hurt me, I will hurt you twice".

I have been with him 12 years. Everything we have we built together from nothing, been with him since i was 17 and i am 30 now.. we love each other dearly.. we have a weird relationship that works for the both of us, might not work for other people.. i dont know its weird i cant explain.... it has never been an open marriage.. its always been me and him since day 1.. what he did, i might never forget... i am like that i hold a grudge. why i tried to make it work? sometimes i asked myself that

Well, you've been with him for a long time lvgem, thats why my mom couldn't leave my dad because didn't know how really ...

I think that you shouldn't let the fact that he has been with you for so long tie you to him -- its enough that you have kids so that will keep you too on a certain level until they become adults themselves. I think thats a mistakes many make though, seriously -- they believe they can't get along with a person because they have always been together. Its true that if you don't watch it, you can easily lose yourself in a relationship.

... all my kids are so close to their dad, and the show must go on...do i trust him? NO.. and thats really big to me.. i have a pending divorce... it has not gone thru yet... his mom is helping me with the process..she is very apauled as well, that cappy caused so much with the family that my husband and his mom no longer have a realtionsip because of it, and hes a mommys boy.. where i go from here? i dont know... all i know is i am a good person and i have 2 kids to cater too..he wants to be with me? hes sorry? he will never do it again? he said he has everything he wants in life he just didnt see it...where he worked, it didnt help either at a strip club as a vip host.. so i guess cappy getting him fired and all this was meant to be right?

So you are divorcing him —? Well, I say good for you. As long as you keep things cool between the kids and him, you can go on and build a life for yourself.

That cappy women seems like the devil but in a way, she is a victim just like you are you see ... We as women look for love in all the wrong places until we learn better 🙂 He probably promised her the moon and the stars along with the entire universe --- just to have sex with her. So, I think its Karma that bit him in the ass for lying to you both and trying to get away with it. Like I said, that affair could have went on for years without you even knowing about it.

i think she wants to hear this: YES, ALL CAPRICORN WOMEN ARE THE DEVIL AND CRAZY AND

YOU, GEMINI WOMAN, ARE THE ONLY SANE ONE. LOL GEEZ US PETE!

i know she knew what she was doing..come on now.. she met with me, she forwarded texts to me, she called me... she stalked me at work, she called his MOTHER.. then she turned it around on him... HE would not make a decision to leave me, shes 40 years old! from what he tells me, she had 1 daughter and everything she had mentioned to him in the 1 1/2 month they were talking was more of her family back him and how broken and dysfucntional it was and how she was dating a cop, but he left her because she cheated... the other thing he told me that made him analyze his own life was ...he always compared me to everyone he thought was nice or pretty and no one compared because of the quality of realtionship he knows deep down i give him for 12 years.. and then she came along with the pillow talk and BS plus being cap and virgo compatible anyways that played a huge factor, she knew how to talk to him... well so she thought..i told him one night, when i met her she flat out said, i took some xanax on the way here i knew i needed to relax after seeing you, would you like some? i looked at her and said NO i dont do pills LOL whats wrogn with you!! i went him and i almost chopped his head off told his ass get the hell out already this is my home, shes so worth it then leave already me and the kids will be fine...anyways in the end he admitted when he was helping her move, her ex cop boyfriend came by to get his stuff and he told my husband straight up, good luck with that one, she cheated on me and shes a xanax and coke head addict...so he said i thought well shes still cool and being the virgo he was he thought he brought the best out of people.. no cuz she wont go away.. then just last week he said LOOK honey, i made a mistake, she was really nice and i thought i wanted to be with her, but she has issues i cant deal with that, i was already going to cut her off and you made it worse, you and her at each others throats so i was like cut her off??he said ya, i was on the verge of doing it and she kept confusing me telling me, you dont need your wife, i made more money, i can provide better, i will pay child support to her LOL and he said i couldnt handle it no more, she was suffocating me with her offers and i just lashed out one day and told her its over and next thing you know i am fired..so he had texted her back and said thanks for getting me fired, i do not care for that job what you did you just gave me more time to be with my wife and kids ===>

and thats why i took him back because i know him, hes sincere..and things happen for a reason right?? ok, life lesson learned...but how do we get rid of this cappy girl? who still going out of her way to buy prepaid phones to call us, we blocked her # from att..and shes still texting "i dont lose" "im not a loser" its became more of a game to win him.and he he dont want her..she text him " you said we would be together"

Oh, so you did take him back ... okay, well thats your decision. You understand your situation better then anyone on here, you know? But I will still say that you are just giving your husband a 'slap on the wrist'. From what I've read, it seems that he is equally as responsoble for bring all the craziness to your family because he participated, now one made him lie to you and cheat with her.

Cause and effect -- one small action can create huge consequences. Keep that in mind when you blame the girl (her sign doesn't matter) instead of looking at what he did more. Love in blinding, so I understand why you don't see it -- however, commonsense has to sink in at some point. When this will happen, I don't know, but if I were you, I really wouldn't be so upset with the other woman. At least she exposed your husband for what he really is, even if you don't see it now, you will see it eventually.

Oh and one last thing -- I'm sure he's a good father, but good father doesn't translate into good husband. Many women do seem to understand that 😄

Now I'm off to do laundry lol

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he said you gave me more time with them, and you made me realize how much i love my wife and needed to be home with them... so he said, and i was reading it, leave me alone, do not text or call... and i guess she doesnt get that—? shes still plotting it has been almost a month since all this happened...he and i have alot of things and issues we need to iron out and so far so good... and she will pop out every now and then.. just really weird things.. i mean do some people just get ITS OVER? 1ST OF ALL i would have not fallen in love or infatuated with a married man...and specially if he lied to me, then i found out directly from the wife— ok i would totally backoff and tell him to get lost..but this issue is different its like she craved my life, my husband always put me first when it came down to it, he provided really good, hes a good family man, and he bought me everything i want, hes real down to earth and very good person and he loves his children, best dad ive ever met just liek my dad, i come from a good home my mom and dad still together after 35 years... and im very traditional.. i love my family life.. and this girl craves for it, from what he tells me she flat out told him leave her and give me commitment, hello?? 1 1/2month? lol thats psyco! and every relationship she has failed, shes never been married, obviously tainted person. sucks to be her.. and i think thats why shes holding onto him with her dear life, he does not want her LOL. action speak louder than words to a virgo, i know that.. she told me straight up i know why you love him....and thats exactly why i fell for him..the nerve of that girl! she needs to fix her life obviously and get her own family..i did text her one last time and told her leave me alone, do not call or text i will file harassment at the police dept, leave my family alone and my mother in law, how it hurts my husband does not want you!! he tells you he does, but where is he now? leave us alone and will do the same or theres going to be some problems!! good luck with life and make sure you find your own!! should have not even texted that because she begged me to come out and meet with her so we can talk?? talk for what?? its over! i gave him plenty of opportunity to leave and he didnt.. i still tell his a $ $ to leave. till this day so now im leaving it alone...and giving him a chance... so she needs to backoff..but even in the end...we cant get rid of her... shes weird being

😉 @ hothouselillies

Like I said, she not unlike any other woman who wants to think the world of her mate because they do not want to face reality. The reality is a sign thing really, she needs to take a good look at things without the denial. But she needs to get rid of the denial first.

He lied to both his wife and the lover and yet his lies get him a slap on the wrist but the girl gets thrown under the bus ... because he lied to her. My goodness, lvgem, the whole point in your frustration over the cap girl was because he lied to you too.

i think she wants to hear this: YES, ALL CAPRICORN WOMEN ARE THE DEVIL AND CRAZY AND

YOU, GEMINI WOMAN, ARE THE ONLY SANE ONE. LOL GEEZ US PETE!

From what I expereince so far yes LOL anyways, us geminis are crazy too but not that crazy and clingy...1st of all.. i hate emotions... i do not express them.. so you will never see me cling to a man, ya i might be stupid and take them back but do we have a game plan? of course... i wouldnt cry and offer to pay someones child support to win them.. i dont buy peoples love..I dont know.. i have to much ego to even stoop that low...you know what im saying? n

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You give a man a change after he has laid down with another woman, doing god know what with her? In this day in time, thats not good. I know some people do not believe in separation and divorce but its constituted for a reason and it serves a purpose -- some people file papers for sill reasons but hey, what are you going to do?

To give a man a change after he has screwed and put his month on someone else seems a bit danger given all the stuff you can catch other there -- there are diseases that even condoms can proect against, but they will not be commericalized until 2010 because further research is being conducted.

Oh and from an astro point of view -- its not a good thing when a virgo is discovered to be a lair. Virgos are either too types -- the 'stand-up' kind or the 'low-down' kind.

A lying virgo is not to be trusted or counted upon because you don't know what else have hidden away.


That is all 🙂

Like I said, she not unlike any other woman who wants to think the world of her mate because they do not want to face reality. The reality is a sign thing really, she needs to take a good look at things without the denial. But she needs to get rid of the denial first.

He lied to both his wife and the lover and yet his lies get him a slap on the wrist but the girl gets thrown under the bus ... because he lied to her. My goodness, lvgem, the whole point in your frustration over the cap girl was because he lied to you too.

whos giving him a slap on the wrist? you know why even though i am mad, i am not as mad?? because years ago.. i started talking to another guy for about 2 weeks and he was cool.. i met him online my virgo found out about it, and he went psyco on the guy, that was the time i wanted out of my marriage...so i thought i did...so he always told me you hurt me this and that, problem is ok so i did...but i never went out of my way to tell him, i cared and wanted to be with him and leave my husabnd LOL.. or called their mother, or got them fired... the networking online went on 2 weeks.. im pissed because its pretty simple your going to tell cappy girl you care for her, and did not care for me which is bull weve been married 12 years, tell her the sweetest things to get down her pants? clearly he had no game, if i was going to cheat with no plans on leaving? my game will not be like that... i am gemini LOL.. well my virgo i know did developed a huge infatuations with the cappy girl because he did things that i noticed he would not do for me, just things i found out about while they were at work together..at the end of the day he wanted his cake and eat it too? but he cant, because i wont allow that.. he knows me, he tried to put a wool over my eyes andplay games LOL come one now i invented games! the virgo cannot put nothing pass me without getting causght and i think this timehe really learned his lesson.. he can do whatever he wants, i still have my divorce pending, we have alot of assets so they said could take awhile....so for the mean time will see what happens...trust me no one is slapping his wrist LOL i call the shots around here.. i have proof of infidelity if and when the divorce goes thru, he will pay and he knows that if he goes to her later on she can send me her $ 1000 child support too LOL..right now, i know that i sound frustrated i have been dealing with this BS for almost 2 months now. and this is where i vent..and thanks

You give a man a change after he has laid down with another woman, doing god know what with her? In this day in time, thats not good. I know some people do not believe in separation and divorce but its constituted for a reason and it serves a purpose -- some people file papers for sill reasons but hey, what are you going to do?

To give a man a change after he has screwed and put his month on someone else seems a bit danger given all the stuff you can catch other there -- there are diseases that even condoms can proect against, but they will not be commericalized until 2010 because further research is being conducted.

No he never had the chance to have sex with her... and she told me everything else and she was honest with everything, i asked her that and she told me NO because she wanted to make sure he left me first because he kept promising her he was leaving me and he didnt care about me, and he wanted to be with her and get a condo together... she told me he tried to have sex with me in the camera room at work but we didnt..all we did is kiss in his or mines car after our shift and we would talk for an hour...see he could not be like that with her going out wise because he only had wednesday off!! he works 4 days off and 4 days on 4am to 4pm at one job and 2 days a week at the other job...i dont trust him anyways LOL... you know why?? hes virgo with gemini rising! i have met a man before but never did i take it to that level it was strictly talking..and yes he found out about it and he was furious and he wanted to get me back said i broke his heart i was like, sure i did, it was networking!! LOL what you did with cappy was throw you life away so you thought, and start one with her, then you find out shes psyco in the head and you want me back? i told him.. will see how it goes...i hold all the cards and you know it...i mess around sometimes and laugh at him andi shouldnt..honestly i am not much hurt, i am in a way but in a way i really dont care i dont know im weird like that i have told him keep playing games virgo and screwing with my heart i wont get you back, but the minute i find a man who i like alot and i click with and can love me and dont cheat on me? iam goooonneeee so he started crying andi hate seeing him cry and i feel bad for him when deep down inside i know he caused all this commotion! i hate that about myself, so forgiving but never naive, cuz we always got a plan (gemin)

That cappy women seems like the devil but in a way, she is a victim just like you are you see ... We as women look for love in all the wrong places until we learn better He probably promised her the moon and the stars along with the entire universe --- just to have sex with her. So, I think its Karma that bit him in the ass for lying to you both and trying to get away with it. Like I said, that affair could have went on for years without you even knowing about it.

cappysweetie:
Its not that she was the devil...from what she tells me about her past, which i did not know about, she was just open i would talk to her about the things i need to know she would tell me, and then she would go on and on about her LIFE!!! and her failed realtionships! and i made it clear to her, you are NOT my friend! stop trying to be before you piss me off.. like your doing now and she was like, no i just want to be there for you and him iam here for you guys LOL i was like, come again? she was weird.. she was afraid of failure and rejection!! i know he promised her the star, moon you name it, he did!! thats what pisses me off... all too bang her and from what she told me she couldve but didnt because of what I stated on the other post about how she wanted to make sure they were together this and that...shes told me everything else to expose him, why would she not tell me that, she wanted him to leave so bad, she wanted for me to file a divorce and leave him, why would she not tell me if they had sex? he tells me no too he couldve but didnt..there was something about her he did not like that made him edgy..i guess too much analyzing. cappysweetie.. whats your email address? i would like for you to help me rfigure something out, i have a text she forwarded me from him the day he cut her off but i dont know how to upload it on the boards thanks...

Hear hear. You and the cappy are both victims here. She is probably a bigger victim than you. He has been telling her what she wants to hear and promised her a life together. I've had a married virguy try to charm me this year so I know what it's like and I've no intention of taking it further than harmless flirting because I don't believe in going with married men (and I'm a cappy!).

omg cappy wrench
right to the bone i remember i told her this on the phone, whats wrong with you—? why are you calling me at work you sound more butthurt than me and im the wife..let me be a friend and offer this advise to you despite of me hating him right now, and let me tell you this.... i told the cappy.. if he wants to be with you he can be with you he has million of opportunity to leave now that i opened that door for him and he makes good money and hes well together.. so why are you calling me and telling me all this crap? i dont care and i dont want to hear it.. have the virgo!! LOL and she cried on the phone said her heart hurts, she no longer wants him, she made it work with the ex cop who left her LOL and that she wants nothing to do with mine because hes a liar, so i said good... have a great life what else u want to tell me, your pregnant?? i mean jesus she dont stop and i really dont care because hes on my shit list anyways... and in the end he told me she played the part so well..she made it look to you she didnt want me, as soon as she got off the phone with you, mys husband said she would call and say ok i just got off the phone with your wife, she said she doesnt care and for you to leave already, so leave her and give me commitment right now LOLOL and my virgo said he would get quiet and just try to talk about something else...he said in his head why would i give her commitment, i am married still...so she would call me back and lay both sides and say, i have texts he texts me right now said he cares for me and wants me, so i would tell her, good and great forward it to me and i dont mean the ones from 2 weeks ago... ( i took his iphone away) and i was playing the part to see if she would lie and sure enough she forwards me texts from 2 weeks ago she forgot i read..she was trying her hardest to push me away from him because now the tables are turned he wanted to make things right with me and she was losing.. so she started doing psyco crazy vindictive things...but he and i compared notes and in the end she just looked real dumb, so did he, BAD

and what makes you think youll get 1,000 a month? already been looking into it? sounds
to me like you were the one who broke vows first and admitted it. thats qualifies as a non contested divorce! now you dog him because you know what it
is all about. you hanging on for one reason only..MONEY! THATS THE ONLY REASON
WOMEN IN YOUR SITUATION STAY


i never broke vows LOL re-read what you just wrote...cappy girl told my husband leave her and ill pay her whatever ill pay her 1000 a month he laugh...are you crazy?? i make more money than him!! 1000 is not enough...he will have to combine income with her and his to even get the percentages right, have i been looking into it?? hell ya because everything we have is mine except his guns and dirt bike collections....and yes he commited infiedlity i have proof...because cappy texted and email it all to me.. i never cheated on him, i said i was talking to some people online on myspce..i never tried to move in with anyone nor did i say i cared for anyone...like the route he took with cappy .cappy was the one offering him whatever it took for him to leave because she knows hes all about money...BUT I MAKE MORE MONEY THAN HIM SO NO I DONT NEED HIM but he will pay me for his kids...and yes, i would get full custody not joint! i wont allow that..i do not want my kids around that cappy girl once my husband admitted she was a coke addcit anyways, she had the odacity to offer me xanax! trust me i would win.. and what do you mean all women want money?? not this woman, i have my own money..ask my virgo

she's fallen in love with him. She will do anything because she is desperate to keep him. Don't you feel sorry for her? Your husband has dumped on both of you but she is the more vulnerable one here because you are clearly emotionally healthy and she is not.


OMG FINALLY I LOVE YOU CAPPY WRENCH!
LOL TRUST ME I AM VERY HEALTHY,LOOK AT THE MESS, I DONT EVEN CARE...SCREW HER..SHES STILL TRYING TO HURT US!!! OH YA DID I MENTION SOME STARNGER CAME KNOCKING ON MY DOOR AND WOULD NOT VERIFY WHO THEY WERE.. ME AND MY HUSBAND WERE TALKIGN ABOUT IT, I THINK SHE HAD SOMEONE FOLLOW ME HOMW ONE NIGHT AFTER WE MET AT COLDSTONES!! im telling you this girl is weird... me?? im the wie, he cheated on me and i had to talk to this girl like im her firend cuz she was all distraught and she said please be civil lets talk dont do anything stupid and i told her i would beat her at coldstones because were in public then she offered me xanax like im the crazy one LOL...trust me i am holding the cards.. i am a gemini LARGE AND IN CHARGE and virgo knows that ...i am really strong and i dont let nothing bring me down to the point of taking xanax and im not a homewrecker either

she has fallen in love with him she admitted that to me...omg how do you upload the texts on here LOL.... maybe i should upload it on the gemini board for a good laugh...anways, moral of the story? i dont trust him, sort of i do, it will take ALOT to even get me to trsut again and i MEAN alot of effort, the divorce is pending, i canst stop it, his mom paid for it already, the cappy wont go away..shes psyco! and shes older than us... and she has a daughter who i met shes 9 when i met with her, for her to move her daughter in with to a condo or wherver, and whenever she meets a man who offers her the moon and star? thats a no-no i have an 11 yr old and 4 yr old i would never subject them to different men..nor the ones who are married... i mean..you just dont build feelings towards a married man, thats rule #1 and after you meet the wife which you shouldnt, its time to pack up and leave...

she's fallen in love with him. She will do anything because she is desperate to keep him. Don't you feel sorry for her? Your husband has dumped on both of you but she is the more vulnerable one here because you are clearly emotionally healthy and she is not.


cappy wrench
so in other words, she tried everything even coming to work with long brown extensions, and when that did not entice him (she has real short platinum blond hair) she files sexual harassment on him at work... i would noever do that to anyone...fallen in love or not its not ehtical...thats call psyco

its not called sexual harrassment when cappy is willing...LOL i made sure i texted her that night and i wrote " what a crazy psyco b**tch you are, you fall into traps with a married man, who dont want you in the end, so you filed sexual harrasment on him? because your afraid of rejection and failure, LOL good one" i told her you can do whatever you want... say whatever.. honestly, he and i dont care... we have our own issues and we always pull thru them, sometimes love conquers all, i have something you will never give him, and he give me something you couldnt buy! your nothing to me, your just some crazy girl who came around 1 1/2 months ago, outside the gate and looking in like a desperate dog waiting to be petted!! get over it!!! leave us alone.. we dont care for you.. you dont even matter.. your a nobody your just some girl looking in waiting for an opportunity your never going to get" so stop calling or tetxting or filing a police report... right after i said that she went even more psyco and wont go away... what did she not understand about what i said?? i said WE DO NOT CARE FOR YOU.. I DONT...AND HE DONT..IF HE DID WE WOULD NOT HAVE THIS CONVO... HE AND I ARE FAMILY!! WE HAVE A LIFE. YOUR JUST THERE..WAITING..HUNGRY..SO GO AWAY.. YOU WANT HIM? THEN COME GET HIM.. OH YA, HE DONT WANT YOU LOL.... so it got to the point where i would say funny thing, serious thing, and she still dont go away LOL she needs jesus or confess her sins to a church or something..

He's obviously not in love with her. He was just stringing her along. She sounds like she has a history of bad situations and probably has deep seated self esteem issues.

cappywrench
she does because he told me he liked her in the beginning and did think about not wanting to be married because at the time we fought so bad and at each others throats and of course being a "new car smell" everyone wants to drive the new car LOL and when that smell fades away then what? my husabdn has never been infatuated before in his life.. so i know as gemini it felt good someone else paid attention to him, we both worked alot and had many routines...so comes cappy...but he told me, she did it all wrong, SHE BOUGHT HIS LOVE, she would spend 100 a night on food for him and his buddy at work at cheesecake factory, and he would try and pay her back she wouldnt, being that shes a cocktail waitress and worked at a strip club she and he made good money, he said she would whip out wads of cash to entice him, all that crazy things to get a virgo, so she thought she knew her game plan, then she became real clingy, emotional, crazy, weird, nosey and then wanted to meet with me, like she almost wants to be the one to make a decision for him to leave and speed things up for him, and he was really confused he wanted to leave but then again i know he didnt, it was just something new..so when he came back down from clound 9..i guess she was under the impression that within that short 1 1/2 months of their talking and fling, that he had set his mind to leaving his family and everything he worked for in life... and i think thats what she cant let go of..and he did tell me she had a history of cheating on people and could not last with anyone, she had relationship issues..of course, i have to hear a virgo tell me all this like im his friend..but i had to set my feeling aside so i can get him to open up and tell me whats really in his head and what happen to that..so i did..i had to sit there and listen to him tell me he did care for her but more of a friend, he did want to be with her, but she was crazy and possesed everything he was against..do you know how hard it was for me to listen?? and yet.. i had to keep my head up and still was the strong one in the end....but my main issues is.no matter what we do ..she doesnt go away..he doesnt call her or text...he doesnt see those people anymore since she got him fired.hes with me all the time, he calls and just the normal person i married,

one more thing cappy wrech
he did say he was NOT in love with her...LOVE is strong and too deep to him and that is something he only experiences with me and his beloved kids..he did admit he liked her, she was cool people and a friend and that he cared for her...but love? and trust me being a gemini you know we get to the bottom of things..he didnt...she DID...which is weird because like i said it was not even 2 months and she was that clingy! even in the end..she acts like he owes her something..ok hes stupid for doing what he did, but what can i do? i cant make someone not do what they want to do, obviously, they will do it regardless and all you can do is sit back and see where it will lead and to put up with or not..its just now HE AND I have to deal with this..emotionally hurt cappy that doesnt get it..and i have to hear my SAGGY friend (girl) this cap (man) is trying to get her fired too at work, he was under the impression the sag wants him..whats up with cappy getting people fired at work? or just trying to get rid of them in general when things dont go their way??

cappysweetie and cappywrech:

just before i go do my laundry too.. i want to say thanks for the comments...
appreciate it much..

one of the thigns my husand did mention is that...SHE WANTED HIM NOW AND WANTS A COMMITMENT NOW!!! so she forwarded me one of the older texts and it says: iam going to leave, and i told you i was leaving and be single, but that didnt seem fast enough for you? you want me to leave NOW.. i do care for you...


ok so fast forward now..that was the day he "cut" her off and he totally just went cold and let go of her, did a total 360 at home and catered to me because his ass was gone when i say its gone... thats the way iam...why would he tell her that the day he cut her off? like hes almost telling her nicely i do not want to be with you, but iam still leaving and be single and i did care for you? that was the night we worked things out.. he was still telling her he was leaving me when he wasnt and still getting her hopes up..whats up with virgo and confrontations? see my husabnd was never push and pull with me ever. i have read alot of it on the virgo boards..but the virgo im with was never liket that...

Oh ya to add to many of my ranting on here ...LOL

Dont get me wrong, I am not mad at the crazy cappy for telling me the truth, i told her before she went psyco, i appreciate her honesty, really i do. Becuase I got the truth from her and not him, he told the truth and all of the truth after he got busted...everyone on here is saying dont blame her. i dont...or dont be mad at her... iam...why? to me integrity means, when i tell the truth and i know i am being played like a fool, like he did to her....more her than me, cuz i know his gameplan and they dont work with me because im smart, its the fact that she told the truth ONLY to speed things up and stir crap up, hoping once i know the truth its totally over and he will leave, be with her and her child. and everyone lives a happy life....no i dont think so. she told the truth and then went psyco and stir up more stuff with everyone, his mom, his friends, with me and him... what i want to know since she would not go away till this day...what would it take for ca cappy woman to just say ok, its over hes a piece of $ hit good luck to both of them? instead shes still doing sneaky things behind our backs, we know because the people that work with her call my husband and tell him all her gameplan he has not spoken to her and cut her off about a month ago...and she was use to him talking to her everyday for a month, so she looses sleep over it? big dig! for her to text me i do not lose..ok, this is not a game... we have a family and a life to live.. and shes doing whatever she can to bring us apart, which we have dealt with harder situations in life before and nothing will bring us down unless we let that person.. he clearly stated he wants nothing to do with her and told her that to her face...SHE DOESNT GET IT..ANY ADVISE? so, please dont think i slapped his wrist or blamed her, not like that at all..i am aware of the situation, mine and his..thats totally private and different..how we will do things in the end will be mine and his decision, we have kids, a house a life.. assets...12 long years.. lesson learned of course a very hard one...but what will it take for us to get rid of her? ignoring her doesnt work, she texts and calls with block numbers... shes clearly insecure and tainted.................any suggestions??

Very true leoKitten.

A man cheats when he is not happy. I have had some friends date married men before. When the wife finds out. The man treats the mistress like crap in front of the wife but behind her back he's still lovey dovey with his mistress. My friend once even told some married guys whole family. He treated her like crap but when they were alone it was a different story. He wasn't mad at her like he pretended to be in front of his wife and family.




LVGemini,

You're a Gemini just like me. Don't be stupid. Your relationship isn't worth saving.

I don't believe in that forgive the cheating crap. Divorce him and find yourself a good loyal man that you will not have to worry about.


You said you were 17 when u both started. How old was he? That was high school puppy love. He probably didn't get to experience more since he got with you so young. That is why he is roaming and he will continue to do so like Leo Kitten said except this time he will be more careful.

He tells you he doesn't want her but trust me it's a different story behind your back.

You say you and him are a family like it's a great thing. It's actually quite sad that you have a family and he still did what he did.

He's probably around only for the kids. Sorry to say it.

It seems like you are in denial.

OH YA, HE DONT WANT YOU LOL....

Well I'm sure he didn't say that to her when he was fucking her.

I'm not reading past page one because I think I get the gist of it. It's not a battle I know well so I really can't share much.

However, I saw the movie The Duchess last night. Similar to this story except in the 18th century the wife (Duchess) couldn't do anything about the Duke having a mistress who lied to her in order to get in the house/castle and at the Duchess's death became the new Duchess. Wild...

All I can say is, never approach the other woman FIRST. Always your husband and you did. If it continued then YES you can contact the other woman IF you can't bring yourself to put some ultimatums on your husband. After approaching the other woman and you realize there is no respect for your marriage leave her alone. Deal with your husband from that point on. Sometimes you just have to put your foot down or up his butt. Either one will do.

I've heard that Caps & Virgs make a great couple. To an extent I have to agree. Never met a Cappy I couldn't marry. However, Taurus & Scorpio are suppose to be Cappies top choices too. So, with that said you Taurus rising accounts for something and his Gemini rising accounts too. Don't let that compatibility stuff creep too far in your head. Twelve years is no short time and everyone has rocky moments be it pebbles or boulders. If you can make it work then that's the bigger picture. Every marriage than can be saved should be given the opportunity. So, seek marriage counseling and attend individual sessions.

Best,

MsA

Ok I have been away and been working. What am I missing here? Or what are you guys missing here? Ok first of, theres no SISTERHOOD!! NO FRIENDSHIP! NO KISSY ASSY!! This vindictive capricorn whore texts me everyday, DIE B***tch already, so you guys would be friends with that psyco, low self esteem, no life 40 year old homewrecker? I dont think so.. All you act like, I am stupid and slapped his wrist.. LOL... Remember I didnt want his a $ $ she did.... She harasses ME, My mother in law even after all this crap... the right thing to do is tell the truth which I appreciate it much, she did tell the truth now its time to move on right? hes a scumbag for leading her on right? So why is she still wanting him till the end and causing commotion? So he made a mistake, I have made some too in life were human... Hes not a boyfriend of 1 month we been married 12 years and 2 kids.. I know hes a scumbag for what he did, HE WILL NEVER do that to me ever again, and I will not be in that situation ever again! If I ever find out that ever happens in his lifetime once with me, I AM GONE!!! FOR GOOD!!! Theres no marriage, but for gods sake, people can have second chances...marriages can have second chances... its trial and error right capricorns— I come on here to vent, not to be told to be friends with a psyco capricorn who till this day, tries her hardest and desperate enough to ruin our famly!! and hoestly, I dont have a low self esteem, so if someone told me they did not want me, not my lost! its that persons, so for you guys to say more power to her, for getting him fired? you guys have issues, 1st of, I will never take away from someone and screwe up their livelihood when they have kids because I was rejected!! I dont work like that!! She did that because she KNEW she can, she was screwing the boss at work before him, same boss who wrongfully terminated him. That same night, she told him come with me, I want you, I care for you, this and that come on 1 1/2 months and pysco like that already? LOL She said leave her and give me commitment, you know you dont ask for commitment you just get it, shes weird! he told her straight up I want to be with my wife and kids and he told her nicely, she went psyco! couldnt handle rejection and vindictive so she started stalking me and his mom like thats going to make him want her, so please dont tell me I hate her because she wants him or he wants her.. I never said that! I do not like her because she is disrespectful

She could not take NO for an answer! plain and simple, WE both explained to her, she came in the time in a matter of 1 month when he and i were heated and was going thru issues.. now, I wouldve just stayed his friend, which she claim thats all she was.. what she did was get fatal attraction!! and shes 40 yrs old and Im am 30 go figure whos more mature about the sitauation.. He couldve been with her, I kicked his a $ $ out!! I did it in front of her and made him make a choice..12 years or 1 1/2 month? Once your a $ $ is OUT your out for good no coming back, he and i had a talk and he clearly explained to me the strip club life where he worked played a big factor, he became someome else, he mirriored the people around him all about money and bitches and power!! (virgo remember) they are copy cats and followers, but the real virgo came out in the end and asked for my forgiveness and told me what he would never tell me, HONEY I AM SORRY I DIDNT REALIZE I HAVE EVERYTHING I WANT IN LIFE... SHE WAS COOL PEOPLE, I DID LIKE HER, BUT IT FELT WRONG BEING WITH HER!! YOU AND THE KIDS AND OUR LIFE IS IN THE BACK OF MY HEAD CONSTANTLY, I TOLD (CAPPY WOMAN) SHE NEEDS TO GIVE ME MORE TIME TO FIGURE OUT WHAT I REALLY WANTED TO DO, BUT ALL SHE DID WAS PRESSURE ME, THEN THE DRUG ABUSE CAME OUT, THEN ALL SHE TALKED ABOUT WAS BAD RELATIONSHIPS, SO RIGHT THERE I ANALAYZED HER AND KNEW SHE WASNT FOR ME!! SHE HAS RELATIONSHIP ISSUES AND I THOUGHT SHE WAS WHAT I WANTED, IT WAS JUST SOMETHING NEW WHO PAID ATTENTION TO ME, AND SHE CRIED TOO MUCH, SHE WAS CLINGY, SHE IS MAKING ME LEAVE NOW AND RUSHING ME, THEN THERES YOU AND THE KIDS WHO I LOVE WITH ALL MY HEART.. I AM SORRY LETS TRY AGAIN I WILL NEVER MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE, IT TOOK DOING THAT TO REALIZE WHAT I REALLY HAVE AND NO ONE COMPARES!! Now he and I laid everything out on the table, of course I am hurt, but hes my husband and not my boyfriend, I will and gave him a chance he knows not to mess it up... TRIAL AND ERROR RIGHT?Q

So who am I to judge? I do love him still and he loves me ... I dont like the decision he made even stringing her along, because all in all i knew he wasnt gonna leave.. in other words I put up with him talking to her and doing all that because in the end I told him.. she will never compare to the quality of life, love, loyalty I give you... and I know what you want in life, sorry to say she doesnt possese it of course it feels good to have someone new beside you... I understand the meaning of all that.. I am a gemini!! I have patience being I taurus rising and I knew if I prayed and left things alone it will tell its own story!! and it did.. now, for you guys to tell me, which i do appreciate.. i am wrong for hating her, i dont hate her because shes the other woman, i hate her because she is sending stranger to our house unannounced, shes textes me die bitch! she cussed out his mother and thats disrespectful, you capricorns dont see that? She is vindictive!! she wont stop!! its plain and simple.. ok, he told you this and that, now you know hes a liar why is he still getting texts of how much you want him? LOL thats classic psyco b**tch!! if hes a piece of $ hit like you say, so why do you want him.. what she did was show me the texts not because she wanted to be honest, its because he would not leave right away and he was really confused!! and I know that because he walked around the house like a zombie!! she showed it to me hoping I will file my divorce asap like i told her i would, when she showed me the texts, we fought, i kicked him out he did not want to leave, her plans backfired, then she asked to meet up with me, I said no, no reason, for what? thats gay!! OH LETS GO MEET AND COMPARE TEXTS lol thats gay as hell!! i told her you have done enough, thank you, i appreciate your honesty, now go away and let me deal with him, I AM HIS WIFFFFEE!! not you!! she wanted control so she stir more shit up! instead of just walking away, the minute i told her that she straight up called him and said give me commitment NOW lol thats 1 month into talking to him, so he cuts her off, NICELY!!! she cant take a rejection.. now shes even more weird its been 3 weeks since we spoke with her, theresnothing else to say, he doesnt want her, i dont want her LOL i dont wanna be her friend... for what? so i can choke her out? SHE IS FAKE!! SHE LIED TO ME ABOUT MANY OTHER THINGS!!! TO SPEED UP THE PROCESS OF ME LEAVING...CUZ HE WONT!!