crush and burned with this cap girl

I feel so incrediblly sad...I asked this cap girl a while ago on a date she agreed...and since then I never heared from her...I sent her an email today and told her how I feel and she told me she has a bf which is probably not true since I saw her profile somewhere that she's single....I couldn't understand this. she flirted with me so heavily and all that.....why would she do that if she's not interested.?...sob..sob...I feel so incredibly sad. ...I think about her every night. for months and she just rejected me like that...I feel like being played...and hurt so bad. why would anyone do that? so strange for a cap.

Wait, aries2006 😢

I don't understand the situation. She has a boyfriend? What happened again —?

i'm so sorry, aries 😢

describe heavy flirting?

some people are just flirts, however, she should have made it known that she wasnt available... somehow. i'll admit that i flirt a lot, all in good fun and those that i flirt with already know that im spoken for. and speaking of... even though i consider myself as in a relationship, i think every profile i have on the internet still says that i'm single. and that indicates absolutely nothing about my intentions or what i feel for the guy i'm seeing. and it doesnt even mean i'm still on the look out, cuz i'm not. the only thing it means is that im private about what exactly is going on in my deep personal life. the only reason i explain all this is because there are countless possible reasons for her actions that are her own and you shouldn't take anything that she has done personally. ya, it sucks 😢 i'm really sorry about that. the flirting part really irks me. it's something that can happen easily... flirting. and reading into flirting is tough and touchy... too much or too little can happen too easily. just like reading into anything else. people communicate quite a bit via signals and the unspoken, and not everyone communicates in the same way. this is one of many difficulties in any kind of relationship. it's a good thing that you told her how you feel because now you know where things stand. albeit not where you had hoped things would. just don't stress about it, hon. it seems like you did what you could and you were yourself. you didnt catch this girl, but keep it up and when you do(cap or not), stay true to yourself and you'll have something genuine... look forward to that and don't be sad 🙂

hey Creepypants and cappysweetie, thnaks for you support...hugz..my heart is now broken into a million pieces. The whole is like this. I help this girl with school work and we had very good conversation, I does a lot of things for her and helping her. I flirted with her in email and in person, she even flirted back and it was sooo real, even my sixth sense tells me that she likes me for real. and she even gave me a ride back home everytime and be nice to me. I thought it was a good time to ask her out so i did last time I was with her. The thing that hurts me the most is that she agreed when I asked her out and seemed happy, I was so happy and waited for her for a month and she never gets back to me.. I told her how i feel today in email like you guys suggested but she said she can't go out with me becasue her bf..sob..sob...I don;t know if she's telling the truth or not...just feel so hurt...why would she flirt with me and being so real about it when in fact she doesn't even want to go ut with me...I spent coutless nights thinking about her....this is soo bad...😢

OH NO! 😢 😢 😢

😢 if you feel she wasnt honest with you, then you dont want that in your life.

correction... if she wasnt honest with you... etc.

not 'if you feel she wasnt'

yeah jack and creepypants. I have a gut feeling that she's lying to me, the reason that I hurt the most is becasue that, I know she knows that I like her and she still shows that she's reception of my feelings...so I totally beleived her..and ask her out...and then boom...she did this...if she doesn't want to date me she should not gave me the feeling that she likes me too. I just don't know if I can trust anybody anymore especially after this. everything was so real..then suddenly crashed and burned.

Thank you guys soooo much for all your emotional support, I really appreciate this. you guys made me feel less terrible, and I feel some ppl actually understand me and listen to my problems thank you!!!!

absolutely anytime, aries.

just dont punish yourself and everyone else that wants to get close to you and vice versa because of this situation. forget her. i know it hurts. just let it hurt. you'll feel better with everyday that goes by. there are sooooo many others out there who are worth your while and it's no lie that you'll come across those that aren't just to reach the good ones. don't change who you are and you'll find the girl that deserves you.

hey, Creepypants.....you are so creepy amazing beautiful.. I understand what u mean. this is the first time i've hurt this bad. you seem really mature about this....have you had similar experience that happened to you.??....

well... i've been through heartache. loved and lost and happy knowing i can love again. 🙂

...you should be too, aries. 🙂

I'm sorry to hear that, aries2006..

Just chin up and move on! There are lots of cute and sweet cappie girls waiting for you.. 😉

yeah, I think you made some really good points. but the thing is, she knows i wants more than friends with her and flirts me back and accepts of my feelings even when I ask her out. But we never officially went out becasue of she said she has a bf. what I feel so sad about it she totally pulled me through this and made me feel like she's really into me. If you don't want to go out with me you shold not flirt back and even agreed to go on a date then disappear...if you say " i will see if I have time" then I can understand when I relaized you're not interested.----I agree with us that I do feel insecure sometimes but only as normal, no more no less than most guys. I felt like being played and even cheated...like you went to a electronic store and you bought a sony and they gave you a JVC in a sony box and tell me I can't sell you sony since all I can get is a JVC...I really don't want to drag this on

hey, Jack I understand what you are saying but in terms of dating...you need to find the opportunity to ask a girl out. From what I experienced with her, she's giving me pretty much sure signs that she's into me so at the day, that time I had to ask her out since I didn't know she's just "playing" with me. So after i done that, I felt like I was" manapulated", even cheated into believing that she's into me. She has a bf..she should know better what she should be doing. I'm not tlaking about small flirting here, as an Aries we are very instinctive ppl so are the capricorns...they are even more instinctive and it seems many of them can make ppl beleive what they do. and that doesn't make feel that bad, what makes me feel really bad was the fact that I truely like her and and wants more than friend with her and she knows that but it turnz out she's a very good actress---both flirting and acting. The more attracted and the more feeling you put into a girl, the more you hurt when you found out she wasn't serious about you only acted that way.

yeah...this whole thing is pretty tough...I know young women like to flirt but this one show the interest flirt not just any flirt...so maybe I was just too unlucky to meet someone like her and got hurt/played