Striking
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Do Cap Men make these kind of mistakes..
He sounds like a lamer. Why would he waste his time on that flaky ex?
Yes, to your question. He sounds exactly like two Caps I know.
I think your advice is good. Whatever he decides to do, I can pretty much guarantee it will be stupid though, but that's on him. He screwed up, big time. He should have never had someone he was still in love with so close, and he shouldn't have strung a woman along knowing his heart was with someone else. How do you NOT tell your "friend" you are engaged to someone else? He was still working on her. Just messy, messy, messy.
I think your advice is good. Whatever he decides to do, I can pretty much guarantee it will be stupid though, but that's on him. He screwed up, big time. He should have never had someone he was still in love with so close, and he shouldn't have strung a woman along knowing his heart was with someone else. How do you NOT tell your "friend" you are engaged to someone else? He was still working on her. Just messy, messy, messy.
"He sounds like a lamer. Why would he waste his time on that flaky ex?"
Cap4life: I know you think its as easy as that, but sometimes everything is not within
our control..Sometimes some situations are meant to be dealt with at a later time in life.
I don't really know what he should do, but I do know this if he starts his new marriage off
with lies and knowing he still loves this ex girl of his this marriage will end in turmoil.
He can still marry his fiance but not now if its meant to be with them it will happen..I feel for
him.
Cap4life: I know you think its as easy as that, but sometimes everything is not within
our control..Sometimes some situations are meant to be dealt with at a later time in life.
I don't really know what he should do, but I do know this if he starts his new marriage off
with lies and knowing he still loves this ex girl of his this marriage will end in turmoil.
He can still marry his fiance but not now if its meant to be with them it will happen..I feel for
him.
You said. He has been trying to get with her for YEARS. She keeps dating other people. Now she realizes she is in love with him. What happens if he leaves his fiancee. Marries this girl. Than she realizes she cant anymore? All i am saying is. I could NEVER be with someone that wishy washy. Your either in. Or out. There is no in-between!
Well he never said she did what she did intentionally..I think it was a timing thing with them. cause uh he has been married before too. I am not placing blame on anyone persa. I am just amazed that he would marry another woman and says he
loves someone else. This is why marriages end up flat. Start it off right atleast. This is how you get that "its complicated" stuff. As a friend I want him to do the right thing. I understand he may have some reservations bc things
never geled with him and the ex, but dont decieve the fiance having her think that you love her and only her. WRONG!!
As his friend all I can do is encourage him to do the best thing.
loves someone else. This is why marriages end up flat. Start it off right atleast. This is how you get that "its complicated" stuff. As a friend I want him to do the right thing. I understand he may have some reservations bc things
never geled with him and the ex, but dont decieve the fiance having her think that you love her and only her. WRONG!!
As his friend all I can do is encourage him to do the best thing.
BTW I am too dating a Cap man and uh, I am just trying to figure out is this ya'll way of handling things..Cause if so!!!
I think he should postpone the wedding until he figures this out!
Posted by Striking
BTW I am too dating a Cap man and uh, I am just trying to figure out is this ya'll way of handling things..Cause if so!!!
Is what are way of handling things? Sorry. I am direct. I know what i want and what i don't want. Of course. I stay away from sticky situations like that. If i were in love with someone else. I sure as hell would not play games with another. It is WRONG. 2 Things could make me leave my woman. A) She cheats and B) She tells me she doesn't want to be with me anymore.
^^^^^^ Well thats good to know atleast..
Mercury, Venus and Mars in Cap here.
From my experience, Caps usually don't rush when making decisions. They think about the consequences before jumping in with both feet. The thing is they tend to procrastinate a lot when they are not being pressured. Making a decision means taking a risk and risk doesn't come easy to them because of their fear of failure. They won't set themselves for failure. They have to know the consequences before taking a step forward. However they won't accept any responsibility if they know they can't handle it in the long run.
"Success makes a decision right" is what my Cap uncle told me one day. He was married to my aunt for 26 years, until she died 3 years ago. My mom always tells me he never really loved her and just married her because he had impregnated her even though he will never admit it. My uncle now lives alone and my cousins don't visit him. They are all successful professionals now and they are just too busy to care. Last month, we went to my uncle's place and he looked fine. He says he is happy for sons and daughters but now it was time to get on with his life.
That was just an experience but i hope it helps.
From my experience, Caps usually don't rush when making decisions. They think about the consequences before jumping in with both feet. The thing is they tend to procrastinate a lot when they are not being pressured. Making a decision means taking a risk and risk doesn't come easy to them because of their fear of failure. They won't set themselves for failure. They have to know the consequences before taking a step forward. However they won't accept any responsibility if they know they can't handle it in the long run.
"Success makes a decision right" is what my Cap uncle told me one day. He was married to my aunt for 26 years, until she died 3 years ago. My mom always tells me he never really loved her and just married her because he had impregnated her even though he will never admit it. My uncle now lives alone and my cousins don't visit him. They are all successful professionals now and they are just too busy to care. Last month, we went to my uncle's place and he looked fine. He says he is happy for sons and daughters but now it was time to get on with his life.
That was just an experience but i hope it helps.
My Cap friend gets himself into messy situations like this. I trust him, but I see what his problem is. I don't think his intentions are to hurt anyone, but he just doesn't know how to cut feelings off from previous relationships/interests in his past. He'll physically move on, but those darn emotions still linger.
Cowpuncher: I love you, you delivered on this..I totally hear you!!
Inana04: I agree..
Inana04: I agree..
CapMusic: WOW!!! Will all the real Cap's stand up!!! lol
I mean that in a good way too Capmusic..
Posted by ElusiveSoul
Budding in here for a min??_. what it appears to be ( to me at least ) there is more and less evolved individuals of each and every sign !!!
To go and claim ALL caps are direct, honest, loving and caring is BS, same as it would be to say ALL pisces are so damn emo and in their fricken heads, incapable to distinguish reality from fiction ( not the case??_far from it)??_.
-I never said ALL Caps are direct. I said "I AM DIRECT"-
Anyhooo??_..a lot of caps can, and will harbor feelings to which they will never let the other person know where exactly the opposition stands coz that gives them the advantage as if everything in life is about winning ??_.
-Caps like to win. But were not into games with people's heart. You are wrong there-
As of pisces and caps thing??_.both sides intuitively know that we are best BS artist out of the whole zodiac if we CHOSE to go that rout! Piscian disadvantage is that our emotions run just a little bit deeper then caps??_..thus when we get love hurt, our disappearing act occurs??_etc etc etc
-I Dont think that Pisces women have deeper emotions than Caps. I think that they drama queen them better because they need sympathy from every person they run into to feel better.Always playing the martyr.-
Also??_.every pisces is on —high alert?? around caps even with fam. members , coz we know your capabilities, but then again, fish is not so innocent as they seem to come across themselves??_..
HOWEVER??_. Statistics have shown that fish and cap seem to endure the longest as couples??_.just the matter of finding the right one I guess!!!
-I Doubt that. My ex was a pisces. She cheated on me after nagging me to take a second job. Than blamed me for working too many hours. Again. Martyrs-
I DO BELIEVE and feel in my heart??_.when cap and fish commit to someone??_..WE COMMIT??_..
Me as a half a** fish will never commit to someone if my heart was in a different place??_I may date, experience life etc etc??_.but I WILL NOT get MARRIED (ever) till that man comes my way !!!
-DO NOT Put Pisces in the category as faithful. I know too many Pisces women that are not. Friends.Family members. And ex's. They are anything but. No matter what you read. They are too much drama to meld with a laid back Cap-
This has nothing to do with Cap and a Pisces woman..or vice versa..This was strickly about how a cap man handles certian things. I am Pisces and I love Cap men and vice versa. This was a shock to me though, bc I have always known them to be stand up type guys. I am striaght up and thats what I was use to getting. But friends tell each other when they not right
and this wasnt right. But thanks to all for your input..
and this wasnt right. But thanks to all for your input..
I got you Cowpuncher..
"If someone can't be trusted with the big commitments, they sure as hell can't be trusted with the lesser ones in life."
WORD!!
"If someone can't be trusted with the big commitments, they sure as hell can't be trusted with the lesser ones in life."
WORD!!
Like i said before. If i were in love with someone else. I wouldnt even be with anyone else. I was sigle for 2 years before i met my woman now. Because i was not READY to be with anyone. Mentally. Emotionally. OR Sexually. I Stayed alone and away from women for 2 years. Thats right. Just me and my hand. I dont get how someone could even start something with someone knowing they are in love with someone else. Lamer.
Striking- No pun intended toward you. My ex Pisces of 2 years burned me so bad. I just hate hearing "Faithful" and "Pisces" in any sentance. I am going to court in August to get custody of our daughter. She is not a very good woman or mother. Anyways. Sorry if i came off strong. I thought about it. I shouldn't of.
Posted by Cap4Life
Striking- No pun intended toward you. My ex Pisces of 2 years burned me so bad. I just hate hearing "Faithful" and "Pisces" in any sentance. I am going to court in August to get custody of our daughter. She is not a very good woman or mother. Anyways. Sorry if i came off strong. I thought about it. I shouldn't of.
My Cap friend ex-wife is a Pisces. I think he has full custody of their son now. I told him to go back to her(he cheated before they married, he confessed, then she started) and he did, but that was a mistake. She said she would change, he moved back and she was still doing her dirt. I don't think he's going down that road again either lol, but he was in the wrong too so...
Cap4life: no worries, I could tell from you tone that you had or was dealing with something. We all are. And for the record not all Cap men are bad and not all Pisces women a bad..the mature upstream Pisces can be rather sweet and uplifting..
I Have a Pisces daughter. So let's hope so. Her bday is March,7 🙂
Awww she will be adorable...
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