Do Capricorn's waste their time??

Do you all waste yout time on people you are not into? Are you all ones to lead on for your own purposes? I have some Cap female friends and LOVE LOVE them. I met a Cap guy and he is so distant and it drives me crazy. I would rather him reject me 100% because I hate wasting my time on nonsense. Please help me to understand Cap males.

do we waist time
what do you think i am doing right now
i only buy drinks for women who wear t shirts have big tits
and the shirt says i fuck on the first date.

@ilyb: I can't tell. He disappeared on me for a few days and I sent him a text telling him that I thought that I assume he wants to stop contact. I simply told him no big deal and to take care. He contacted me a day after I sent the text and acted as if nothing was wrong wanting to know what I was doing etc.(Personally, I think he was testing me to see if I would blow up on him.)

@M: This Cap gives me a run for my $ . I tell you that. I can't tell if he really likes me or my body.lol It's all good if he would just be upfront about his intentions. I guess I will find out sooner than later. I just don't want him to be playing games. I'd give a lot more respect to a person who says...a)not looking for a relationship b)i see you only as a friend c)I AM NOT INTERESTED.

lol... @james tate.. right on!!



And thanks you all.

Not when we want something!

Posted by Cancer87
@ilyb: I can't tell. He disappeared on me for a few days and I sent him a text telling him that I thought that I assume he wants to stop contact. I simply told him no big deal and to take care. He contacted me a day after I sent the text and acted as if nothing was wrong wanting to know what I was doing etc. (Personally, I think he was testing me to see if I would blow up on him.)

Who's testing who? OH, yeah, that would be YOU!

Posted by james tate
do we waist time
what do you think i am doing right now
i only buy drinks for women who wear t shirts have big tits
and the shirt says i fuck on the first date.

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We definitely are weird at times.

He's not going to test you by disappearing(that's him doing him and tending to whatever he wants at that time).
Nor will he test you to see your reaction.

What he will do, is test to see if you call after he disappeared, although its not the reason why he disappeared.

Its easy to get in moods where you don't feel like talking, but once your out of it you notice that so-and-so haven't called, and you start to wonder if they will. If they don't, no biggie, if they do you get the reaction he gave you which is picking up where he left off. He left it up to you to initiate the contact.

As far as wasting time, it can happen, but if you want straightforward answers you gotta ask him straightforward questions. I'd like to think he's be honest with you.

@lildol: Hi! That is so not the case. When I spoke with him after that he stated "he is not testing he just likes to see where people's head is". I felt like he was when he decided to contact me after disappearing not during the time he disappeared. At that time I was just confused on what was going on with him. When I told him "to take care" I meant that in the moment. There was no point in me trying to hound him and figure out what the issue was. If he wanted to talk, he would contact me again. Which he did...

@lnana04: Thanks for your words. I see what you mean now and I also understand the disappearing now as well. He is indeed a unique person. Hot and cold every week but if I get too distant, he will say something. In the case of him waiting to see if I would contact him, I did then I stopped and like you said once he was over it..he contacted me again. I have asked him straighforward questions and have yet to get a straightforward answer. He seems to be the "go with the flow" type. Who knows?

This is def not behavior I am used to. I just would like to know what is up with it. Thanks people!!

WE ARE SIMPLY A SHIVER LOOKING FOR A SPINE TO RUN UP.

well, this of course coming from a cancer who expects 100% attention, 100% of the time. we don't waste time with those we want to be with. maybe it is YOU who is weird.

@UsernameTaken>> That is a negative. I don't need 100% attention all the time. I do have a life outside of the person,I talk to thanks. In fact, I am usually the one in my own world. The guy was freaking weird not me. To answer my own question since he is gone now, yes some do waste their time. Once this was understood, I cut all contact.

They are hard to understand. I just posted this on another board. He loves his "alone" time. I love to be spoiled so I like attention. If I don't get attention when I want I feel like he is acting like Dr. jekyll one day and Mr. hyde the next.

It is really a "perception" due to my selfish needs but I let him have space. He will be the same way in your presence everyday. Someone stated when he "wants something" he is game. True fact. I don't know what to tell you Cancer87, all I can say is you will not receive constant affection from a Cap man. They are self sufficient meaning they have mutiple things to do other than cater to you (or me).

You wouldn't get to much more attention if you two lived together. You would should he want it from you on his time.

It's cool krobe. I quit contacting him. He called yesterday and I didn't answer. I sent him a text and told him Hi, I hope him and his son was doing well afterwards but I didn't return his call. He said we are all good and then I stopped texting again. I simply have lost interest. I am a black and white person and he kept me in the gray area too long for my taste so I will take my "L" gracefully and keep it pushing.