do I still have a chance to get her back

my 17 your old Capricorn girlfriend Broke up wit me just day before her birthday and mines is 6 days after hers we have been dating for six months i'm a 21 year old Aquarius and at the beginning of The relationship it seems like we had so much to talk about but I admit that I wasn't really trying to get to know her I was just trying to have sex wit her but she wanted to date me even after I said that I didn't want to .we where talking for about one month be4 I asked her out and she said yes she she said I love u first and even tho I didn't say it back that day I did say after I started to get feeling for her we dated for 3 month before I started to see a Change I in her seem like every thing was great in my eye especially when we work together but we didn't seem to have much to talk about I asked her if there was anything wrong and she said no she said that we had have a great relationship and that she loves me more now then she did the first time we met The only thing is she had to lie to her mom every time we wanted hang out she was going to go to college and then to the army and didn't know how it would work plus after seeing some of the girls that I went out with be 4 Her she started ask me do I think that I would be batter off wit someone my age or do u think I'm immature and I would all ways tell her the truth NO to me we worked just need to work on our talking but I guess that the lie was getting to her so she told her mom and her mom said that she didn't think that we should date and that she didn't need to be in a relationship right now to Focus on your career .... so my girl told me that she thinks that I'll be better off with someone else the next day call and asked her if she still think that and she said no I ask her if she still loves me like she all way has and she said yes I ask her if she would date me again and she said yes but she don't know if we would I ask her why she don't think that we would and she said I don't know I think we should just be friends what should I do is there any thing that i can do to get her back

it's only been three days and I have called every day since the breakup

Leave her be.

so like don't call anymore do u think that I still have a change to get back wit her

I think she still likes you, but it's hard when family is putting pressure on you. It depends on how much influence her mom has. Also, if she's going to go to college or the army, then she really doesn't need that tie back home. Her mom just wants what is best for her and someone her mom's age can step back and see the bigger picture.

From mom's point of view (yes, I'm a mom of people your ages), yall are young and there will be more relationships and more opportunity and it's hard for you guys to see the future right now. When I was 18, I dated a 21 year old and that relationship wasn't "the one". Not saying anything against yall, sometimes at your age, you do find that relationship that is "the one". People change as we mature and mom is probably thinking yall will change and grow apart. She just doesn't want her daughter to get so caught up in the moment, she can't take advantage of the future.

Sorry for saying all that. I know I don't know yall or your relationship. Just trying to offer a point of view from the mom's angle.

I think in your situation, the mom has a lot of influence.

Keep in mind, that if this relationship is meant to be, it will last no matter what.

And, if you're just wanting in her pants, then it's not going to be. For it to last above and beyond all, it needs to be the love of all loves, bigger than life and totally devoted.

Also keep in mind I realize this is not what all you wanted to hear. My view is from an 18 year old who got accepted to an A-1 college, but followed a boy to a lesser school. Needless to say, the relationship didn't last. Have regretted that decision for 25 years now.

thanks in a way I did need to hear da the whole reason for me choosing her was that I'm new to relationships as well as she is and thought that we would be able to grow together from the ground up and since we already had a thing. together I thought that it could only grow

It can. Just going to be a difficult course with her mom influencing her. Just make sure she goes to college/army and fulfills her plans.