Do Water signs really connect deeply with us?

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Posted by Sn1p3r187
Someone once said this that they tend to bring out our emotional sides and have the freedom to tell how we truly feel. You think this is true? The only one I ever felt truly comfortable with was a Cancer.



working on this double Cap lady female friend right now and have seen some smiles and giggles here and there from her. She has quite the poker face though.. so still trying to figure out what is under neath the surface..I must admit that it does take patience and time... no problemo though.
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Someone once said this that they tend to bring out our emotional sides and have the freedom to tell how we truly feel. You think this is true? The only one I ever felt truly comfortable with was a Cancer.



working on this double Cap lady female friend right now and have seen some smiles and giggles here and there from her. She has quite the poker face though.. so still trying to figure out what is under neath the surface..I must admit that it does take patience and time... no problemo though.
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Patience is the key man. I think that if doesn't put out within a certain time, then it isn't worth it.
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Someone once said this that they tend to bring out our emotional sides and have the freedom to tell how we truly feel. You think this is true? The only one I ever felt truly comfortable with was a Cancer.



working on this double Cap lady female friend right now and have seen some smiles and giggles here and there from her. She has quite the poker face though.. so still trying to figure out what is under neath the surface..I must admit that it does take patience and time... no problemo though.

Patience is the key man. I think that if doesn't put out within a certain time, then it isn't worth it.
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LOL! So much for the deep connection!
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Someone once said this that they tend to bring out our emotional sides and have the freedom to tell how we truly feel. You think this is true? The only one I ever felt truly comfortable with was a Cancer.



working on this double Cap lady female friend right now and have seen some smiles and giggles here and there from her. She has quite the poker face though.. so still trying to figure out what is under neath the surface..I must admit that it does take patience and time... no problemo though.

Patience is the key man. I think that if doesn't put out within a certain time, then it isn't worth it.

LOL! So much for the deep connection!
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Deep connection? I was just giving him advice, though I can reason with him being with a woman who gives a poker face. Women like that who won't let you in in a certain amount of time aren't worth it. I just really didn't bother women who had a poker face though. Tried it, didn't work.
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^ and yet you keep trying.




ahhh no asshole, i dated a capricorn for 2 years, in fact my most smooth relationship ever, i broke up with him, made some excuse, like he was cheating or something, till this day he attempts to talk to me, he wanted to marry me.

so no I don' t keep you trying, Cancers are good for Capricorns, we give you guys a heart, but you do nothing for us, except bore us to tears.
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Not true, depends on the Cap, his moon, and his Venus. It all depends on the Cap. I would at least give my all in a relationship and I would never cheat. Nor do I make excuses.
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how does one connect deeply with a cardboard?



That's not really fair. Not all Capricorns are the same.
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You're talking to a very stubborn Cancer who refuses to believe Caps are different. I say just her be and not pay attention to her since she won't listen to reason. Damn, and I thought we were the cardboards and brick walls, I guess I was they were wrong.
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Someone once said this that they tend to bring out our emotional sides and have the freedom to tell how we truly feel. You think this is true? The only one I ever felt truly comfortable with was a Cancer.



working on this double Cap lady female friend right now and have seen some smiles and giggles here and there from her. She has quite the poker face though.. so still trying to figure out what is under neath the surface..I must admit that it does take patience and time... no problemo though.

Patience is the key man. I think that if doesn't put out within a certain time, then it isn't worth it.

LOL! So much for the deep connection!

Deep connection? I was just giving him advice, though I can reason with him being with a woman who gives a poker face. Women like that who won't let you in in a certain amount of time aren't worth it. I just really didn't bother women who had a poker face though. Tried it, didn't work.



I think scorpios enjoy the mystery, that's why they like to try and see how far they can delve.
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I don't know if I'd say that we open up to all water signs, but I don't have much experience with water sign men.

I've only tried to date 1 cancer, couldn't stand him.

I've tried 2 Pisces, one lasted a few weeks, the other 8 or 9 months. I found them easy to talk to, but never let my guard down because they didn't and I simply didn't spend enough time with them.

Dating a scorp now, only one I ever dated. He has healed my heart. I am more open with him than ive ever been with anyone but he is also open with me.

I have been very open with Leo men in the past and one Taurus man who I had like a "best friendship" with.

Basically I can be open if someone is completely genuine and honest with me, that's what gains my trust.
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I don't know if I'd say that we open up to all water signs, but I don't have much experience with water sign men.

I've only tried to date 1 cancer, couldn't stand him.

I've tried 2 Pisces, one lasted a few weeks, the other 8 or 9 months. I found them easy to talk to, but never let my guard down because they didn't and I simply didn't spend enough time with them.

Dating a scorp now, only one I ever dated. He has healed my heart. I am more open with him than ive ever been with anyone but he is also open with me.

I have been very open with Leo men in the past and one Taurus man who I had like a "best friendship" with.

Basically I can be open if someone is completely genuine and honest with me, that's what gains my trust.

Scorps tend to do that. lol
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I've seen it where Capricorns can connect deeply to us (water signs) but ( water signs) can't connect deeply to them... they seem to find it somewhere in them to feel something, or gain an emotional connection while it just doesn't click that way for us. They can't give us what we need, the emotional connection and depth seems to be more of a possibility of connection, love, and longevity with Virgo and Taurus. Usually in the Scorpio/Capricorn or Cancer/Capricorn Capricorn seems to be the only one in love, or invested many times they're more effected by the relationship than say the water sign... can't speak for Pisces I haven't seen/ heard/ or experienced that one much. In the end the relationship is more beenficial for the Cap than fill in the blank water sign.
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Okay. You asked, so I will venture into your forum for this one.

Strictly my opinion, but Cappies are the best Earth sign option for the Fish, followed closely by Taurus and at a distance by Virgo.

There has to be some compromise, here, because all the Earth signs look uber-practical to us. And I am sure we look spacey and somewhat undependable to you.

I think that for Capricorn and Pisces to "work" he has to be at least somewhat grounded and she has to be a bit "spiritual." If he's a flake, no go. If she's a mercenary, no go. Both have to be strong, because neither can abide a weak or inconstant partner.

But if you hit the balance, she can be a steadying and focusing influence, and he can take her out of herself. I am very fortunate in many respects because of my Taurus ascendant (thank God). I trade well with Earth sign women. Always have.

If there is a "deep connection," I sense that it would be one of intimate partnership, "You and me against the World," not a water sign type of deep connection.

The Cappie has to learn to trust her Fish; the Pisces has to earn her trust.

Told like the truth. Trust seems to be a issue among us. But that just means we are very cautious and take things one step at a time. And, tell me about those "You and me against the World" type of relationships. And do they tend to last?
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^ and yet you keep trying.




ahhh no asshole, i dated a capricorn for 2 years, in fact my most smooth relationship ever, i broke up with him, made some excuse, like he was cheating or something, till this day he attempts to talk to me, he wanted to marry me.

so no I don' t keep you trying, Cancers are good for Capricorns, we give you guys a heart, but you do nothing for us, except bore us to tears.
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really? oh...
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I'm a Libra (Sag moon, Sag rising, Scorpio Venus), and my best guyfriend in the world is a Cap. I have no Capricorn in my chart, which is interesting to me. We call each other "twin" because even though we live 800 miles away from each other, we have an intuitive connection to each other, know what the other is thinking before anything is said, and share things with each other that we find very hard to share with anybody else. Even though I'm an air sign, we both "get" each other. Deep loyalty, frankness, and a fierce love of true friendship are the qualities I love most about him.
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^ and yet you keep trying.




ahhh no asshole, i dated a capricorn for 2 years, in fact my most smooth relationship ever, i broke up with him, made some excuse, like he was cheating or something, till this day he attempts to talk to me, he wanted to marry me.

so no I don' t keep you trying, Cancers are good for Capricorns, we give you guys a heart, but you do nothing for us, except bore us to tears.
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You dated cardboard for two years??!!?? OH MY! How did you stand it?







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how does one connect deeply with a cardboard?



That's not really fair. Not all Capricorns are the same.

You're talking to a very stubborn Cancer who refuses to believe Caps are different. I say just her be and not pay attention to her since she won't listen to reason. Damn, and I thought we were the cardboards and brick walls, I guess I was they were wrong.
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Lol!
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LoL. Capricorns are NOT cardboards LoL. Water signs would not be attracted if that were the case. You will not get a pull from a wall...trust, just like earth, there is water(emotions) underneath.

If you didn't get what you need out of a Cap, then maybe it was not the Caps desire to give you what you needed. Sometimes emotions are buried so deeply within that when they are pulled we are even amazed. It can be about self discovery. That's also when we can become self centered, and it's not so much about YOU but more about how you make us feel. We are not as curious as Virgo imho, who tend to know folks like the back of their hand, or even Taurus. Caps are the Father remember? Coming in assuming we already know everything, so that could be why there isn't as much of a connect on your end.

My Virgo sis can be a headache at times, but I'm grateful for her because she gives me a different perspective. She is logical, but she never assumes, so her curiosity along with her knowledge of people and their actions make tend to be much more correct that what I THINK I know about folks.

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Okay. You asked, so I will venture into your forum for this one.

Strictly my opinion, but Cappies are the best Earth sign option for the Fish, followed closely by Taurus and at a distance by Virgo.

There has to be some compromise, here, because all the Earth signs look uber-practical to us. And I am sure we look spacey and somewhat undependable to you.

I think that for Capricorn and Pisces to "work" he has to be at least somewhat grounded and she has to be a bit "spiritual." If he's a flake, no go. If she's a mercenary, no go. Both have to be strong, because neither can abide a weak or inconstant partner.

But if you hit the balance, she can be a steadying and focusing influence, and he can take her out of herself. I am very fortunate in many respects because of my Taurus ascendant (thank God). I trade well with Earth sign women. Always have.

If there is a "deep connection," I sense that it would be one of intimate partnership, "You and me against the World," not a water sign type of deep connection.

The Cappie has to learn to trust her Fish; the Pisces has to earn her trust.



I have a pisces cousin who I am on the same page with. We think alike. We have the attitudes and just really seem to complement each other. It's a nice balance. He likes to swim in more dangerous and exciting waters than I do, eh, but maybe its because he's 10 years younger and male. lol!
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I tend to connect with the Cancers easiest. There is a bond, instant comfortable relationship, like coming home to mom. However, if they get all whiny and needy and dramatic and judgemental, then I will start backing away. If I sense anything judgemental at all, I will close up.

Scorpios are great!! If you can get them to listen and stop focusing on their own drama, cynicism, and revenge. You spend more time convincing them that no, someone's not out to get you, than you do on getting a chance to open up. But I don't have much experience with scorpios, so maybe I'm biased on the few I know.

Pisces are a hit or miss for me. I have a harder time trusting pisces than any other water sign. It's because in the past, I had several different pisces women friends I thought I could trust, but when they swam away, I wasn't sure whether they kept the secrets or used them to bond with someone else and I had another one stab me in the back and sabatoge me. My experience was they are your trustworthy friend until they're not. Like they bond with you over a common enemy, then all of a sudden they swim to different waters and you're left wondering if they're using information they got from you to bond with another person. The men, I tend to feel more comfortable with.
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Hm, I'm always on the go! Never home. Really, my house is a mess because we are never there. But I have mars in sag that makes me want to wander.

My parents are both Cancers and they hardly ever leave the house. They really love being there. They always are entertaining.




Your parents sound like me and my hubby. LOL

we hardly ever leave home. We're supposed to go on vacation this week, just somewhere affordable/CHEAP and decided it's even cheaper to stay home, not to mention it's more comfortable and relaxing, catching up on fun stuff. So much to do at home. lmao!! it's only mother in law who gets us off our butts to go somewhere. Or one of our close relatives or his best friends to push us to get off our butts.

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Well, I'm very, very social. Always inviting people over for a quick get-together, always wanting to go where people are, always wanting to see and be seen. I don't mind staying home either.

And I might indulge my SO's interest and learn about it. I also have my own and he patiently indulges mine.

No, I'm not adventurous as in being a risk taker, but I do like to experience things I've never done before. Jump out of a perfectly good airplane, no way. Try snow skiing (I've never been), sure, why not?

And I'm not very trendy in clothing at all. I'd rather spend good money on quality classics that will last for seasons than buy the trendiest outfits out there.

I'll buy an expensive item, because it will last. Not that I have to have the best, but because I want the quality the more expensive items have.

Are you basing your capricorn knowledge on the few you know? We're not as stuffy as you think we are. Maybe we're more stable and practical in our thinking, but we are a lot more fun than you give us credit for.
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Clueless lol..... What have you heard repeatedly while being on these boards?? That YOU dont listen!! I havent read your reinvention thread, but Im sure thats about Cancers being rigid in their own way. How adventurous are Cancers? Please bump a thread where someone is praising a Cancers sponteneity(sp?) LOL. Cancer is the sign of homebodys lol.

Really, you could have a point about Caps but you speak as if Cancers are different. 9 times out of 10 you are your brother boo lmao.
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Just about every cap I meet is charming and hilarious. I can't understand being compared to cardboard.



I don't know if cancers appreciate our kind of humor.



My brother is one of the funniest if not the funniest person I know. He's a Capricorn. Hilarious.

What I mean by boring is that you are so rigid in your thoughts (you don't listen to people, well maybe my brother just doesn't listen to me), and many times, you are not adventorous. You're like turtles. You stay home all the time (maybe due to your depressed natures), you don't like to seek different things, but i notice you FOLLOW your loved one's interests, but what are yours?

You don't like to do social events (unless it's what you really want to do, there's no getting you to do anything because it's proper, or to make others happy, you're selfish, I notice the same trait with Virgos). All you care about is STATUS.

BORING. BORINg. BORING.

I see now why Virgos and Caps work.
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So leave us to our misery and go hang out with the kewl signs.

Seriously we know you hate us. OK we get it. Now let us work on our own problems and you go help the people who you like.

At this point your just picking on us Virgos and Caps and not really helping the situations.

How about enough with the 'I had this real problem with _____ and I think they are ____ .' posts and just hang out in the Cancer forum.
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Hm, I'm always on the go! Never home. Really, my house is a mess because we are never there. But I have mars in sag that makes me want to wander.

My parents are both Cancers and they hardly ever leave the house. They really love being there. They always are entertaining.




Your parents sound like me and my hubby. LOL

we hardly ever leave home. We're supposed to go on vacation this week, just somewhere affordable/CHEAP and decided it's even cheaper to stay home, not to mention it's more comfortable and relaxing, catching up on fun stuff. So much to do at home. lmao!! it's only mother in law who gets us off our butts to go somewhere. Or one of our close relatives or his best friends to push us to get off our butts.

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My ex is like this too. We always used to stay in the house. I ended up going places by myself.
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Hm, I'm always on the go! Never home. Really, my house is a mess because we are never there. But I have mars in sag that makes me want to wander.

My parents are both Cancers and they hardly ever leave the house. They really love being there. They always are entertaining.




Your parents sound like me and my hubby. LOL

we hardly ever leave home. We're supposed to go on vacation this week, just somewhere affordable/CHEAP and decided it's even cheaper to stay home, not to mention it's more comfortable and relaxing, catching up on fun stuff. So much to do at home. lmao!! it's only mother in law who gets us off our butts to go somewhere. Or one of our close relatives or his best friends to push us to get off our butts.



My ex is like this too. We always used to stay in the house. I ended up going places by myself.
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my husband has mars in sag like you though. So it's weird. He's supposed to be outgoing. But would rather stay in. But i like it like that though because i like it at home. I guess it's more than having a sag in mars.
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Clueless lol..... What have you heard repeatedly while being on these boards?? That YOU dont listen!! I havent read your reinvention thread, but Im sure thats about Cancers being rigid in their own way. How adventurous are Cancers? Please bump a thread where someone is praising a Cancers sponteneity(sp?) LOL. Cancer is the sign of homebodys lol.

Really, you could have a point about Caps but you speak as if Cancers are different. 9 times out of 10 you are your brother boo lmao.

Finally bout time.
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Just about every cap I meet is charming and hilarious. I can't understand being compared to cardboard.



I don't know if cancers appreciate our kind of humor.



My brother is one of the funniest if not the funniest person I know. He's a Capricorn. Hilarious.

What I mean by boring is that you are so rigid in your thoughts (you don't listen to people, well maybe my brother just doesn't listen to me), and many times, you are not adventorous. You're like turtles. You stay home all the time (maybe due to your depressed natures), you don't like to seek different things, but i notice you FOLLOW your loved one's interests, but what are yours?

You don't like to do social events (unless it's what you really want to do, there's no getting you to do anything because it's proper, or to make others happy, you're selfish, I notice the same trait with Virgos). All you care about is STATUS.

BORING. BORINg. BORING.

I see now why Virgos and Caps work.



So leave us to our misery and go hang out with the kewl signs.

Seriously we know you hate us. OK we get it. Now let us work on our own problems and you go help the people who you like.

At this point your just picking on us Virgos and Caps and not really helping the situations.

How about enough with the 'I had this real problem with _____ and I think they are ____ .' posts and just hang out in the Cancer forum.
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Dude, she's a troll. You should either report it, or just ignore it. Personally, just ignore it.
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lol creepypants😉



i stopped making sense around 4pm today. it's been a long damn week (;



you work in the hospital right, you guys are hard workers!

anyways hope you have a relaxing weekend.
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i work at all of em! they're essentially my 'clients'

but yea... gracias hon, n back atcha!
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