The opposite problem.

The other two times I've posted questions on this board, I've been confused about a distant and aloof Cap. But I ended up getting to know another Cap, who is exactly the same age (both born on Christmas of the same year) and very quickly, he has become really clingy. I'm not one to run away from commitment but I've literally known him a month and he said he loves me.
Once I broke the touch barrier, he never moves away from me. I feel very special and completely loved. I trust him and he and I have a lot in common. However, is this normal?
It's just so odd to me, after all this time, working on trying to being one friend out of his shell and getting very little (though he is very sweet to me) and then to have someone completely new walk in and just lay himself at my feet.
What is it with you people? You are simultaneously my most loved AND most hated sign!

My capricorn bf is the same way 🙂 he's amazing and consistent. He's open and affection. Almost to the point that I worry it will stop, and maybe it will. It's been two months of the best thing I may have ever experienced though!

*affectionate

Posted by capinc
Give it a month.

That's my concern. All relationship dynamics change over time. I'm just curious how much will change. I've seen it on this website almost daily where cap men basically change overnight. I'm not needy or clingy in anyway (even being a leo) and he's become my best friend along with being my bf. I guess it's best not to overthink everything.

Beware of anything that comes too quickly, or too soon. It may not be real. It may be the IDEA of the relationship instead of just you for yourself.

Now, that said, once a cap determines you're the one (and it should take at least a little while so we can observe you and your consistency, loyalty, character, etc in order to decide that), we will be that affectionate and do anything in the world for you.

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Posted by xxoommmxxoo
it's a hard job but someone has so do it 🙂 I don't think caps are really concerned with who does and doesn't like them. Maybe that's what bothers people so much? It wastes precious time and life is too short. I'll do anything for my friends and those that I love....those people accept me for me, without judgement, flaws, mistakes and all.

I do think that the fact that we don't really need approval from others does tend to bother people. In my experience, I feel like because I'm also like that some people want to try and get a rise or a reaction out of me and they hate that I'm secure with myself and that I stay composed. I've noticed that a lot.

Exactly! It irritates people that we are so calm under fire and unaffected by what people think. Someone could be jumping up and down in front of me and would just kind of look at them lol

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That's funny. Especially because he claims I'm the one with the emotionless face. 🙂

Posted by truecap
Beware of anything that comes too quickly, or too soon. It may not be real. It may be the IDEA of the relationship instead of just you for yourself.

Now, that said, once a cap determines you're the one (and it should take at least a little while so we can observe you and your consistency, loyalty, character, etc in order to decide that), we will be that affectionate and do anything in the world for you.

Thank you Truecap. This is great insight (as usual lol). As is everyone else's. Starting a new relationship is exciting but it also tends to drive people crazy and over think/analyze EVERYTHING 😄

Thanks guys. I'm not overthinking, I don't think. He just kind of started by being really shy and standoffish. But then he did this complete 180 and said he loved me kind of recently. It just kind of seemed really fast.
Thanks Truecap. Something to think about.

CAPRICORNS ARE DIFFERENT WE ARE DIFFERENT TO OTHERS AND TO OUR OWN KIND.
WE ARE THE ONLY SIGN THAT NEEDS NO ONE, I READ THE BOARDS AND THINK (EXCEPT CAPS) GET A FUCKING LIFE PEOPLE. COME ON YOU SAY MY B/F IS CLINGY THEN GET A NEW ONE. IF YOU CAN'T HANDLE A CAP THEN STAY AWAY FROM US FIND HAPPYNESS WITH A VIRGO (HA HA HA ) A LITTLE JOKE THERE LIKE ANYONE COULD. TAKE US FOR WHAT WE ARE AND LIVE WITH IT OR DON'T.ITS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE