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I was seeing a Capricorn man who was undoubtedly intrigue by me. After 3 months we started getting close and everything was fine. He would always ask me questions like he needed reassurance in my feelings towards him. When I would answer, he seem unconvinced and insecure about how I felt about him. I wanted him to open up and trust me so bad, I went overboard.

Then suddenly he became unavailable! He didn't tell me but I'm pretty much sure he was in a committed relationship when I meet him. Because everything changes significantly. We would still talk and see each other. Even his performance in bed changed. Before he would do anything to please me in bed.

Since I have changed my behavior he has been more responsive. He always return my calls now. He's not holding back sexually anymore. I have been shying away from him. We still continue to talk and he really want to see me. I want to see him also but I've been acting busy.

Every man I was ever involve with was(unavailable) at 1st. We didn't have a committed relationship until later. My question is would a Capricorn man continue to cheat on his woman with a girl he have no feelings for at all? If I decide to keep my distance from him would he just forget about me. Capricorn men who was in this situation what was your outcome!!!
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Thanks the woman in this forum is harsh and they act like they were never in this type of situation before. I'm sure if this can happen to me it can happen to anyone. I know men well because I grew up with a lot. I have tons of male friends. Anyway I spoke to my Capricorn friend today and we got a chance to really talk. We talk about a lot of things. One thing he said was interesting. He said I never had a man that can control me like he can. The funny thing is before he would show his feelings towards me. He wasn't too verbal but it was noticeable. I was able to tell he had a week spot for me. He was so stubborn I would make him mad on purpose just so I can apologize and watch him give in. One day I said I didn't want to talk to him anymore. That's when the tables turn. He started acting like he didn't care about me. I started saying to myself I know he really like me why is he acting like he don't all of sudden. I became the one who had a week spot for him and he's be in control every since. Before when he was showing his feelings I had more control over him.
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Capricorn and manipulation of feelings don't mix...They are very good at observing people and he may have noticed how you were consistently attempting to push his buttons to get him to express his emotions and because on some level that kind kind of behavior is controlling, it's like pulling a man's strings like he's a puppet he undoubtedly decided it was time to pull the reigns and gain control over you to stop this kind of manipulation from happening....

you don't have very many options, walking away can help you more than staying in an imbalanced relationship, the other option is to express how you feel about how things are in the relationship but it takes a level of inner confidence to express something without blaming him, I don't know given how you behaved with him in the past if your mature enough on an emotional/psychological level to do that but for the most part you can't be attached to the outcome, that's how a lot cap men keep control over women that don't want to leave, he know as long as a woman is uncertain and in doubt he can control the direction/outcome of the relationship/situation with any given woman/person...If you don't put up with it, leave him alone he will begin to shift and share the power with you but you have to show a level of maturity or he's going to treat you like a child.
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LOL I see you rubbing people the wrong way with your post....cap men usually won't leave his comfortable relationship for a bit of excitement, he's just not going to leave his woman for a fling because a woman likes him and wants to WIN over the other woman....Men in general (some) will keep you around to continue getting sex, attention, ego strokes but have no intentions of leaving their significant other....

So yes he may have these long conversations with you, he may drive hours to get some but inevitably it's just a fling for him and if he has to play a few head games and have long drawn out talks to get some sex, attention, one sided love he will do it, this kind of guy your having this fling with is the type that misleads and selfish, he draws you in only to push you out which is a way to keep you holding on in hopes of winning but the reality is you will never win, that's his secret, your not supposed to know you will never win or he would stop getting what he wants...sex, attention, one sided love, drama (the kind of drama that makes him feel important), the in and out, back and forth is his way of having his cake and eating it too....Stop letting this guy use you, find your self respect, tell him to jack off...dump him and maybe then he may make a choice but I have to agree with tasteofchaos...Why would you want a cheating ass man in your life, if he cheat on her with you he will cheat on you with someone else....dump the assclown, it will take you a few weeks to get over it but there is a man out their for you but you won't see him if your stuck in a dead end situation.
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If we see a manipulator NORMALLY we dont think thats cute....cuz we're not slow.....THIS insults us. NEVER INSULT A CAP. WE dont do it so dont you do it.



But as we get older we learn to turn insult to our advantage. YOU dont want this because you will be used or ignored. Think Pans Labyrinth. Think when the hell will he let me out or.........am I even in? Bad side of capmale is horrifying if crossed into. Not like other signs. Treat us with respect and show intelligence otherwise I feel my time is wasted. There is a timer in my head everyday and it counts seconds....not minutes or hours of a workday. seconds

Also as we get older, on the bright side, we learn to indulge your manipulative ways and give you what you want. Thats the bright side. But remember the above paragraph. Depends on how much value you have, whether the above paragraph happens. You wont know when its happening and if you assume then you know the old saying. So watch out for digging yourself too deep a hole or everything could end up being All your fault.


NOT SAYING ANYMORE OR JAMES TATE WILL F*&^% ^& K(*# me. this info seems like a lot but trust me it is not🙂

These are the basics. If you can do the basics or dont know them then you cant do anything. Ive given some basics.


Simple stuff....

1) RESPECT....bear in mind we are a FEMININE NEGATIVE SIGN. My own cap mom is super crucial. cap dad is ruthless and wise. You may run into me one day and guess what!?!? Keep these facts in mind🙂 Being a feminine negative sign should say certain things to you like, "Its highly probable he knows females because hes garnered empathy and observation." hmmm

2) DONT play no games bc we dont like to waste time. Mess with our time....we'll slow your roll quicker than catshyt.

3) Let us know what you want off the cuff. This way we can formulate a plan for your specific needs. We'll weigh it like a Libra.

4) RESPECT

5) Be straight up. B A G bout shyt.

Last but not least...you should listen to the womens advice here at Caputopia Island.
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Thanks I haven't been with him sexually in a couple months. Your right he don't deserve me. I had a long talk with him today. We ended up with a argument feels he can say things that will hurt a person feelings and when you say something to hurt him he can't take it.He remember every! I never talk 2 a man that remember everything good and bad. I was into him a lot more than he was into me. I should remember everything not him. He bought up things I said to him 8 months ago.He never forgive me. He use to always act like nothing hurt him. The only time I get him to show some emotions is when we argue. He don't like to argue anyway.I told him I was sorry. We both to arrogant to even continue with this. Capricorns act real mean and hard but deep inside they get hurt easily. Certain things we talk about today show me he was really hurt.He been protecting his feelings for no reason at all. I love him and I wouldn't do anything to hurt him. Sometimes he make me so mad and I have to let him have it. Then he don't want to talk to me. I ain't kisses his ass no more. For what he don't disrespect me at all. He just say mean things. I'm been started to move on.
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down on him and he wants me to so dam bad but I refuse to.
Posted by amethyst2002
Posted by venusianbull
Obviously not a Cap m'self, but get a damned grip woman. Another womans man is simply that. Think about that awhile. Let it marinate. Soak it all in. Especially when you go downtown.



She won't. She's been told this 57854 times by everyone in her other zillion threads. She wants to be told her actions are okay, so she keeps asking the same thing over and over.
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Yeah u might b right. I was making an attempt to move on. I got use 2 not answering when he call. I would call him back the next day. I was comfortable with not talking 2 him. Then we begin 2 talk approximately everyday for 2 weeks. That's when we meet up for lunch and he gave me the ring.
Posted by TasteOfChaos
She is a Leo... The chase will never stop!

Best way to get over someone... is to get onto top of someone else 😄

Just make sure he is AVAILABLE FIRST!!!

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Madam, whether or not you go down on him is not the point. The point is he is someone elses. That alone, right there, should be a clear sign for "Hands OFF".
I really don't understand that mentality. Not one bit. Enter into a ( and the following word is quite laughable ) "relationship" with a cheater and d'ya really think, even for one INSTANCE that he wouldn't do the same thing to you?
I don't care if flames dance off his fingertips and rockets shoot out his damned ass, someone elses man means "NOT YOURS". Good grief. With all the single men on the planet, why zero in on someone guaranteed for drama, bullshit and headaches? THAT coupled with being accountable for the destruction of two peoples relationship. And if you count children into the mix, more people yet in the aftermath. D'ya not give a fiddlers fuck about anyone but yourSELF?
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Why do you even post messages here!!! Im not trying to be smart but post message on other people topic not mine. If you have something negative to say I don't mind but your the one that was calling me a lair. Certain things you said may have been the truth but you was too far off on most of what I know is true.
blockquote>Posted by amethyst2002
Posted by faith $ golphin
Thanks the woman in this forum is harsh and they act like they were never in this type of situation before.



Translation- "They don't tell me what I want to hear."

You're going to get the same answers from the men as you did the women, just like you did in the other ten posts about this guy. Just an FYI.
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Why do you even post messages here!!! Im not trying to be smart but post message on other people topic not mine. If you have something negative to say I don't mind but your the one that was calling me a lair. Certain things you said may have been the truth but you was too far off on most of what I know is true.
blockquote>Posted by amethyst2002
Posted by faith $ golphin
Thanks the woman in this forum is harsh and they act like they were never in this type of situation before.



Translation- "They don't tell me what I want to hear."

You're going to get the same answers from the men as you did the women, just like you did in the other ten posts about this guy. Just an FYI.
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You was so helpful I wish I could have got some feedback from you 8 months ago. When he 1st told me his b day I said your a capricorn!!! He said don't believe anything you heard because it's not true and he didn't believe in signs anyway.



Posted by SuperCap
If we see a manipulator NORMALLY we dont think thats cute....cuz we're not slow.....THIS insults us. NEVER INSULT A CAP. WE dont do it so dont you do it.



But as we get older we learn to turn insult to our advantage. YOU dont want this because you will be used or ignored. Think Pans Labyrinth. Think when the hell will he let me out or.........am I even in? Bad side of capmale is horrifying if crossed into. Not like other signs. Treat us with respect and show intelligence otherwise I feel my time is wasted. There is a timer in my head everyday and it counts seconds....not minutes or hours of a workday. seconds

Also as we get older, on the bright side, we learn to indulge your manipulative ways and give you what you want. Thats the bright side. But remember the above paragraph. Depends on how much value you have, whether the above paragraph happens. You wont know when its happening and if you assume then you know the old saying. So watch out for digging yourself too deep a hole or everything could end up being All your fault.


NOT SAYING ANYMORE OR JAMES TATE WILL F*&^% ^& K(*# me. this info seems like a lot but trust me it is not🙂

These are the basics. If you can do the basics or dont know them then you cant do anything. Ive given some basics.


Simple stuff....

1) RESPECT....bear in mind we are a FEMININE NEGATIVE SIGN. My own cap mom is super crucial. cap dad is ruthless and wise. You may run into me one day and guess what!?!? Keep these facts in mind🙂 Being a feminine negative sign should say certain things to you like, "Its highly probable he knows females because hes garnered empathy and observation." hmmm

2) DONT play no games bc we dont like to waste time. Mess with our time....we'll slow your roll quicker than catshyt.

3) Let us know what you want off the cuff. This way we can formulate a plan for your specific needs. We'll weigh it like a Libra.

4) RESPECT

5) Be straight up. B A G bout shyt.

Last but not least...you should listen to the womens advice here at Caputopia Island.

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Thanks for the advice. I'm slowly moving on but I'm gonna get educated about Capricorn men because I never had this type of problem in my whole entire life. I also never dated a Capricorn man, not to mention whose is 4 years younger than me. We were doing very well at 1st. I made a lot of major mistakes with this man and I paid the price also. When I 1st started talking to him he said he been single for 2 years after a long term relationship. He said his girlfriend took him to dinner one night and told him she didn't want to be in a relationship no more and he was devastated.

I'm all but certain he was available at 1st; unless he was just distancing himself from her and it would have been very noticeable. To tell you the truth I don't really know if he has a girlfriend. This girlfriend thing came out when I was driving him completely crazy! Everything was fine until I was upset one day and he didn't have anything to do with my issue. I got mad at him because I was calling to ask advice on an issue and he act like he was busy. I said some mean things and I said I didn't ever want to talk to him again and go be with your old girlfriend.

I realize that I was wrong because he never knew what I was calling about anyway. I suddenly call and apologize and he was upset and didn't want to talk to me. I should have just called him the next day or two once he was calm down. I started calling him constantly trying to get him to forgive me. He was still talking to me but he would never say he forgive me. He said since I disrespected him he didn't have any more respect for me. After I saw he was never going to forgive me I became a real pain. I'm taking about sending him 100 texts and calling him 100 xs not to be exaggerating. I was still saying awful things when he wouldn't talk to me.

That's when he said he had a girlfriend and if I call him back she was going to answer the phone. I continue to call and no women ever answer the phone. Then I finally stop calling for 2 weeks. The next time I spoke to him he was breathless and he asked who was calling as if he didn't know it was me. I said are you busy and he didn't answer then I asked was he busy again and he said yes. I said ok and hung up. He called me back 2 am and ask why I called him. I said you wait until 2 am to ask me that! I said I'm sorry I called and it won't happen no more. —He asked me do I really love him and why I was I acting like that.?? Anyway I wanted to let you
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Posted by jamaicancancer
@ faithgolphin HUH—? you have to be realistic a bit. Cap men rarely leave their bonafide for the one on the side, just like that. Given: something is not right at home and thats why he stepping out on his wife or girlfriend. People cheat because they not satisfied in the relation even though its really a selfish thing to do to your partner.

With that being said you KNOWINGLY, 1 more time, KNOWINGLY, got with an attached man, Expect emotional turmoil, lies, cheating, and all that good stuff you KNOWINGLY signed up for it.

Ummm what was that about a ring? He gave you a ring?

Who knows, some situations end up where the husband leave wife for other woman......It happens quite often. Its just reality. I am not trying to spark any hope but that can possibly be an alternative outcome. But that process is full of deceit, lies, selfishness, and looks morally damaging when it comes to judgement day.

With you being a Leo, I just wonder if you're more intrigued with taking him away from his woman, WINNING, rather than having a relationship with him, which you very well mite want but WINNING is oh so sweeter, conquering him. You Lioness are so funny, nice, charming, competitive, and slick like a serpent.

If you play with fire you will get burned girl.

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Thanks Jamaican cancer. This was some excellent advice. Please read my last comment because people seem to think I went into a relationship with this man knowing he was unavailable. That's far from the truth! I would not have become sexually active with a man I knew was in another relationship. I have too much dignity for that. After I have sex I become attached to the person and it's a slow and long process for me to get out. That's my downfall!
This situation will be extremely hard because he was everything I look for in a man. He's like a homie love of friend. I'm making an effort now to stop dealing with him.
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Posted by faith $ golphin
You was so helpful I wish I could have got some feedback from you 8 months ago. When he 1st told me his b day I said your a capricorn!!! He said don't believe anything you heard because it's not true and he didn't believe in signs anyway.



Posted by SuperCap
If we see a manipulator NORMALLY we dont think thats cute....cuz we're not slow.....THIS insults us. NEVER INSULT A CAP. WE dont do it so dont you do it.



But as we get older we learn to turn insult to our advantage. YOU dont want this because you will be used or ignored. Think Pans Labyrinth. Think when the hell will he let me out or.........am I even in? Bad side of capmale is horrifying if crossed into. Not like other signs. Treat us with respect and show intelligence otherwise I feel my time is wasted. There is a timer in my head everyday and it counts seconds....not minutes or hours of a workday. seconds

Also as we get older, on the bright side, we learn to indulge your manipulative ways and give you what you want. Thats the bright side. But remember the above paragraph. Depends on how much value you have, whether the above paragraph happens. You wont know when its happening and if you assume then you know the old saying. So watch out for digging yourself too deep a hole or everything could end up being All your fault.


NOT SAYING ANYMORE OR JAMES TATE WILL F*&^% ^& K(*# me. this info seems like a lot but trust me it is not🙂

These are the basics. If you can do the basics or dont know them then you cant do anything. Ive given some basics.


Simple stuff....

1) RESPECT....bear in mind we are a FEMININE NEGATIVE SIGN. My own cap mom is super crucial. cap dad is ruthless and wise. You may run into me one day and guess what!?!? Keep these facts in mind🙂 Being a feminine negative sign should say certain things to you like, "Its highly probable he knows females because hes garnered empathy and observation." hmmm

2) DONT play no games bc we dont like to waste time. Mess with our time....we'll slow your roll quicker than catshyt.

3) Let us know what you want off the cuff. This way we can formulate a plan for your specific needs. We'll weigh it like a Libra.

4) RESPECT

5) Be straight up. B A G bout shyt.

Last but not least...you should listen to the womens advice here at
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Thanks you seem to really know exactly how Capricorn men are because every thing you said was the truth. How to I counter act to get some type of grip on this situation. I was getting real close until yesterday we had it out. I'm not having sex with him but we continue to talk on the phone. I'm not
going to be communicating with him daily. He's a little mad so he won't be calling me as much unless I call him. I got a lot of work to do next week so I won't have any time to waste on him. Give me advice on what to do if I'm still communicating by phone with him?
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Posted by faith $ golphin
I didn't go down on him and he wants me to so dam bad but I refuse to.
Posted by amethyst2002
Posted by venusianbull
Obviously not a Cap m'self, but get a damned grip woman. Another womans man is simply that. Think about that awhile. Let it marinate. Soak it all in. Especially when you go downtown.



She won't. She's been told this 57854 times by everyone in her other zillion threads. She wants to be told her actions are okay, so she keeps asking the same thing over and over.

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Posted by faith $ golphin
I didn't go down on him and he wants me to so dam bad but I refuse to.
Posted by amethyst2002
Posted by venusianbull
Obviously not a Cap m'self, but get a damned grip woman. Another womans man is simply that. Think about that awhile. Let it marinate. Soak it all in. Especially when you go downtown.



She won't. She's been told this 57854 times by everyone in her other zillion threads. She wants to be told her actions are okay, so she keeps asking the same thing over and over.

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