Jhene
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Fellow Caps i need your guidance
Sounds like you're both feeling a lot of anxiety around each other. When's the last time you actually had FUN together?
Posted by SpiceNSugarFully without something popping up later for an argument . A longtime really
Sounds like you're both feeling a lot of anxiety around each other. When's the last time you actually had FUN together?
Posted by JheneMay I suggest setting up a couple of FUN events? i.e. favorite haunts, a fair, or whatever you gals like to do. This creates an environment where you have some recent POSITIVE exchanges. Even if these exchanges are brief they can be helpful.Posted by SpiceNSugarFully without something popping up later for an argument . A longtime really
Sounds like you're both feeling a lot of anxiety around each other. When's the last time you actually had FUN together?click to expand
This may sound silly or maybe even too late, but give it a try a couple of times and see if it doesn't brighten the mood a bit.
P.S. I sort of agree with Foreverloveme, but I suggest you avoid saying emotional stuff by phone. I recommend trying written communication.
For example, if I'm really sad or upset about something, its hard for me to talk without whimpering or being overly emotional. Immediate TURN OFF to an earth sign (esp. to a Cap)! Thus, writing the words down lifts that additional layer of emotionality and makes for better communication in the long run.
For example, if I'm really sad or upset about something, its hard for me to talk without whimpering or being overly emotional. Immediate TURN OFF to an earth sign (esp. to a Cap)! Thus, writing the words down lifts that additional layer of emotionality and makes for better communication in the long run.
What do you want OP?
Deep down, do you think this relationship is salvagable?
Do you think you both are sticking around for the wrong reasons?
Sometimes, no matter what you do, nothing can make it feel right.
Deep down, do you think this relationship is salvagable?
Do you think you both are sticking around for the wrong reasons?
Sometimes, no matter what you do, nothing can make it feel right.
Posted by GreenteaThank you. I did write her a long letter and she gets me. I believe as she said so and was rather have and on the verge of tears after reading my letter . I do agree we need to have some fun times and I will plan for that. Im over the intense emotional bits as our lives ( work, goals etc) is stressing enough.
What do you want OP?
Deep down, do you think this relationship is salvagable?
Do you think you both are sticking around for the wrong reasons?
Sometimes, no matter what you do, nothing can make it feel right.
Posted by GreenteaI believe it is but it's not up to me alone. I trying to be present as possible and let the cards fall as they may. But my gut tells me its won't because I feel her sights not here anymore. Not that she's seeking someone but she has a lot to deal with internally
What do you want OP?
Deep down, do you think this relationship is salvagable?
Do you think you both are sticking around for the wrong reasons?
Sometimes, no matter what you do, nothing can make it feel right.
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