Can you convince a Capricorn

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by courtcourtv on Tuesday, June 7, 2016 and has 13 replies.

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@courtcourtv
10 Years

Do you think you can persuade a capricorn?

I want to persuade my cap to go on a road trip with me to pick up a friend who's 22 hours away.

I know he has to think extremely hard about it, as he will be stuck in the car with me for that long, with no space for his "bubble" (alone time).

When i was thinking about how i can persuade him to go, i stopped and thought, maybe capricorns cannot be persuaded by others.

How easily persuaded are you capricorns?

How can i persuade my capricorn?

MY cap likes pleasing me and knows i want him to go with me. But i told him, i do not want to force him to go. I want him to want to go.

I think some aspects of the road trip he will enjoy and i think it will really test our friendship.

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@courtcourtv
10 Years

Posted by ImTheRam
Posted by ElleDuMonde
LOL

they cannot be persuaded.

make a bullet point itinerary.....and include the road map.....let him thoroughly investigate the route first. 😛

I think my advice might work...lol

Just go straight to the troat !

😆

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I was a little confused about your message, but from how i read it, it sounded sexual?

That most likely would not help AT ALL as my cap hasnt even hugged me yet.

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@RumiL
10 Years5,000+ Posts

I agree with Elle. 😛

Also tell him about how traffic would be clear at what times, where parking wouldn't be a problem.. Show him your destination and route/shortcuts on google maps.

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@RumiL
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Also for example...if it's on Friday-Saturday tell him how he could cone back and look after stuff as well as take rest on Sunday. And you will cook on Sunday.

Persuasion using reality. 🙌

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@rakac
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You can persueade everyone , with capri's i find that making him think it's his idea is the best way, because it's like you get him to do thing you want him to do by thinking it's his idea, while it's rly manipulation, ofc it's not nice, but if you want it you do it, and to do it you have to know your capri real good, all people are different so might take different hiden hints and programing to make him think of this idea, but he already knows its yours so it might be wayy harder 😄

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10 Years

Posted by cheekyfaerie
Posted by ElleDuMonde
How much time do you have? Does he have a few days to think it through? They are not the spontaneous bunch, you know. I mean, on occasion, yes...but it has to be their idea.

Or we have to at least *feel* like it was our idea.

Make him feel helpful, but not make it sound like a chore. It's safer to have him there so you're not just a woman, alone on the road. It's practical to have two drivers. Do you have time to incorporate a mini vacation aspect into this? Talk to him about something he'd not mind getting to see or do on the way.

This is tricky though and I kinda think you're outta your mind. There's a huge risk somebody's gonna feel odd man out on the way home. It's not fair to him after helping you go all that way and it's not fair to your friend either.

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This person we are picking up is actually a mutual friend of ours. They knew each other before i came along.
We have gone out many places with the three of us. I do not feel like anyone will feel like a third wheel.

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Posted by cheekyfaerie
Not to be a dick, but by the time you factor in gas, missed work and all that good stuff, wouldn't it be more economical for them to fly?

We thought about that. We were thinking about having a small adventure. You only live once. It may be fun.