gemini and capricorn .....is that even a possibili

I'm still in love with my ex....Mr cancer...my Mr cancer.

But somehow a gemini got hold of my new singledom.
Now he doesn't stop....He texts and calls all the time. I have to block his number. He's sweet and says sweet things....

He went right down to saying if he doesn't want u....I'll date u....like I'm a hand me down.

Mr gemini is so off putting.
And he thinks me been a cap is so exciting....

Like I have no clue but I'm pretty sure caps and Gemini's don't gel....ur opinions?

I want my cancer back....so gorgeous so sexy... such a turn on. ...

Posted by cappygirl11
I'm still in love with my ex....Mr cancer...my Mr cancer.

But somehow a gemini got hold of my new singledom.
Now he doesn't stop....He texts and calls all the time. I have to block his number. He's sweet and says sweet things....

He went right down to saying if he doesn't want u....I'll date u....like I'm a hand me down.

Mr gemini is so off putting.
And he thinks me been a cap is so exciting....

Like I have no clue but I'm pretty sure caps and Gemini's don't gel....ur opinions?

I want my cancer back....so gorgeous so sexy... such a turn on. ...

Cap/Gem doesn't work.

You need to get past the Cancer before you date anyone else.

My ex is also a Cancer. They have a powerful grip even after they are gone. I feel you.

There are too many core differences. Yeah, he's fun and exciting and will have you laughing a lot, but when it gets down to the nitty gritty, cap and gem don't jive well.

aww, I like capricorn & gemini together. I'm a fan of quincunxes.

Posted by GemShimmies
I'm married to one. Honestly there's times i think we're doomed, but if you love each other you make it work.

18 years. By the end, we absolutely hated each other.

Gemini female here. My capricorn and I are so in love, and so happy. We are excited to see one another at the end of the day. That may change in 10 years, or it may not. We are only in our mid 20s and we just moved in together after being together for a few years. I have hope for forever, as I know he does too. I don't have anything bad to say about our relationship. We genuinely care for one another. I wish everyone a love like this.

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Posted by myloveyourlove32
Gemini female here. My capricorn and I are so in love, and so happy. We are excited to see one another at the end of the day. That may change in 10 years, or it may not. We are only in our mid 20s and we just moved in together after being together for a few years. I have hope for forever, as I know he does too. I don't have anything bad to say about our relationship. We genuinely care for one another. I wish everyone a love like this.

what would you say our your biggest problems

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Our biggest problem would probably be not making enough time for one another. We both work two jobs and are on opposite schedules. But we aren't immature about it. We are both hard workers and are working towards our future together. It's extremely hard for me to think of a bigger problem then that. We get along great.

I don't plan on getting together with Mr gemini.

Also are they strange and weird....as in him saying ' ok try get back with ur ex if it don't work ill be with u' I mean really I feel like an unwanted item just bt that statement

Even the names look like a miss-match.

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Posted by truecap
There are too many core differences. Yeah, he's fun and exciting and will have you laughing a lot, but when it gets down to the nitty gritty, cap and gem don't jive well.

I know we've talked...but what core differences did you have?? I'm just curious 🙂

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Gemini needs spontaniety. Caps are planners.
Gemini needs emotions. Caps are stoic.
Caps need consistency. Geminis are not consistent.
Caps need stability. Gems are fly by the seat of your pants people.
Caps need reliability. Gems forget their promises.
Caps need financial security. Gems are buy what they want, when they want - some are financially challenged. (okay not all, I will admit)
Gems need constant change. Caps like the status quo.
Gems talk a lot. Caps like quiet.
Gems like drama. Caps prefer to be drama free.

Oh, there are good things like caps need laughter and gems provide that. Gems need stability, caps provide that.

And, not every cap is like that, just as not every gem is like that. It's just a generalization based on my experience.

@GG

Well, i was married for 18, a 20 year relationship in all. You can't tell squat from looking in from the outside. To the outside world, we looked happy, too.

I did base my opinions on my own experiences. Yes, mostly with my ex. HOWEVER, I do have family members, co workers, friends and aquantainces that are geminis and I see it in those relationships, too. Yet, I don't live with them. I'm not linked financially to them. I'm not trying to plan a future with them. So, we are able to maintain a stable friendship.

My opinion is caps and gems don't fair well in long term relationships. Oh, I'm not saying it's impossible. Sure, a relationship between the two can work. The other planets can make a huge difference in how two people get along.

GG, have you, yourself ever been in a long term relationship with a capricorn?

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Posted by GG
I realize that some of you are block heads (except for capinc - he's cool)

If we're using astrology to judge people then do it right. Don't just use it to exercise your demons. There is such a thing as developed and underdeveloped signs. If all you see and experience is the undeveloped kind then that sheds some light on who you are and what you attract.

op, I know a Gemini that's married to a Capricorn. They have a little girl and they're going on 10 years

What are the differences between a developed and underdeveloped Gemini?

A Gemini's life path is to master concentration. I'd say anything opposite of that is underdeveloped.

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A developed Cap ain't got no time to wait on you to figure out concentration.

^^^ good assumption

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Posted by truecap
GG, have you, yourself ever been in a long term relationship with a capricorn?

No, never! I've never even had one as a gf. I've had opportunities but I never closed.

You're obviously still hurt from your past relationship and I can't ignore that when I read your comments. Relationships are two sided, it's never one person fault. If you look really hard enough you'll see whatever it is you want to see, that's just how the mind works. So using your friends as an example means nothing to me.

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I was quite realistic and fair with my assessment. I realize there were things about me that didn't cut it for him. I was structured, controlling with money (someone had to be or the bills wouldn't get paid), I was too much of a planner, too much of an analyzer, too rigid with my emotions, he didn't feel appreciated and he didn't feel loved because I rarely expressed my emotions (he wanted words instead of actions). I did love him, but we had a hard time living together and agreeing on how things should be done. I'm very capable of looking at my own contribution to things. He wasn't a bad person, but we weren't well suited for each other. We were too opposite to complement one another.

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Posted by truecap
GG, have you, yourself ever been in a long term relationship with a capricorn?

No, never! I've never even had one as a gf. I've had opportunities but I never closed.

You're obviously still hurt from your past relationship and I can't ignore that when I read your comments. Relationships are two sided, it's never one person fault. If you look really hard enough you'll see whatever it is you want to see, that's just how the mind works. So using your friends as an example means nothing to me.

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And, if you've never been in a long term relationship with a capricorn, you have no business stating whether it is a good or bad combination, because you have no personal experience to base your opinions on. Observing other couples isn't the same thing as living it yourself.

Posted by GG
Truecap, I actually don't care about this argument. I dont want a Capricorn woman, never had the desire to be with one and i dont care if Gemini's are successfully dating caps or not.

When you make blanket statements and blind generalizations about a population I happen to be a part of then I feel obligated to speak up.

It's not difficult to see that you have a fair amount of emotions tired to this since you thought that other thread was made with you in mind. Fyi, it wasn't.

I am not the only one who makes blanket statements yet you called me out. I apologize for putting you on the defensive. But I do have a right to express my opinion based on my experience, which had nothing to do with emotions. If you recall, I was asked to provide more details.

For the record, I have nothing against Gemini. Just not a good match for me.

Posted by Arielle83
my mom is a gemini and my dad a capricorn. She's 6.5 yrs older than him and helped him out financially while he worked on his phd...she's more of an odd job person, very flexible and open. My dad has had the same career since he got his phd in physics....anyways...they do love each other and been married since '78...she had me when she was 37...i think her maturity attracted him to her. He was a baby after all when they met. As I grew up I saw his dominance and fought him on it being a cancer, but she always stood by him. One day she told him you're going to lose your family if you dont quit being a dictator...and he listened. Now they travel the world together, because my dad goes to Nato meetings all over and takes her with him...

I think her happy go lucky attitude calms his restricted ways...he's getting more goofy in his older age. I hope my marriage is half as good as theirs.

Caps age backwards.

Makes sense.

First thing I thought of when I saw the title of this thread:

Lol