Any Capricorns and Geminis in love?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Cappymappy on Friday, November 15, 2013 and has 10 replies.

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@Theatrum
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Well, the only successful love story I know including these two would be my grandparents. Female Cap, male Gem. He annoys her to no end but it's obvious that they love each other. Still using nicknames after many years.

I've also witnessed a successful friendship between a female Gem and a male Cap. They were best friends to my knowledge, seemed to communicate well. Other than these two scenarios, I've never even seen these two in the same room, hah 😛

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Friends yes. Relationships no.

Cap brings stability and rationality to a gem, where the gem brings fun and different perspectives to a cap.

Gem is too unstructured and has a tendency for lack of follow up which cap does not like. Cap is too rigid and controlling for a gem. Cap is a planner, gem is a fly by the seat of your pants type. Gem is typically not a good money manager and is too superficial for cap. Cap is too cold, non-emotional and not spontaneous enough for a gem.

Unless the other planets fall in line, this is not a good pairing. They do not usually understand each other. Takes a lot of work and a lot of open mindedness for both to make this a good pair.

Just my opinion. Was married to a gem for 18 years. It ended horribly.

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@deivaleonne
12 Years

It's rough but nothing is impossible. Takes a lot of patience, and a lot of communication. And a lot of understanding. Think of the person before the sign, or you'll get way too wrapped up in the complexities of it. Definitely don't be a controlling grump. If you can't handle their free spirit and need for space here and there, avoid anything deep. I'd never say it'll be a smooth ride.

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@truecap
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Maybe it's different for gem female/cap male. I know one couple who seems to be happy, but she's frustrated with the fact that he won't share how he feels about her after dating for a year. Otherwise, they are doing really good.

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@truecap
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Posted by Cappymappy
@truecap and no its not that its just everyone either bashes capricorns or Geminis and im not here for that

I was honest about the pros and cons in my relationship with my ex-husband. I wasn't trying to bash him and I tried to make the statements in a factual way that wasn't based on emotion.