How can I capture the female gemini?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by banini on Friday, December 8, 2006 and has 26 replies.

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@banini
20 Years

She is a friend of another comedian I know, and this is how we met.
Next, she added me on myspace!
We talked in myspace messages.
She would say how she wanted to come out and see me at a show, but always flaked.
Still we talked.
Then I asked for her number, and she gave it to me, but I was sick and said I would call her when I was feeling better.
I did, and she was at work and called me back to see who had called her, and then said she would call me again when she got off work. She didn't.
Then we had like two more message exchanges on myspace, which were pleasant, but now those have stopped, and no calls still.

What have I done wrong, if anything?

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@banini
20 Years

Well thats what I meant was, how do I let her come to me without scaring her off. I tend to scare away the air signs.

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@banini
20 Years

I've got the make her laugh part down. Every other message I get back from her has LOL in it at least once.

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@banini
20 Years

I actually write funky music, and I have a seperate myspace profile for that, which she also added. πŸ™‚ But why didn't she ever call me again? How long must I wait?

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@JuiCy*
20 Years1,000+ Posts

kris ... a fun loving, down for any adventure with you, crazy bedroom activities most likely alot lol lots of smiling and laughing, mild drama, someone who will be your bestfriend and put you first! that is what you get!

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@love4ever
19 Years

banini,

If she liked you she will definitely persue you, she'll make excuses, she'll play
little games to get your attention, she'll make plans and have you involved somehow, but she will come after you. If she does not, give her some space and time, if nothing changes then move on. But yes, definitey make her curious.

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@Fierce Dravidian
20 Years1,000+ Posts

I've noticed that Gemini brunettes tend to be of the frenzied and frenetic types haven't noticed that with blondes so with those brunette ones you gotta have a lot of energy to keep up with them, infact they might be more than a tad bit too much, you have to find someone more sanguinous and mellowed out.

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@sweetest_gemini
19 YearsGemini

How can I capture the female gemini?

Get a camera and capture her..or just call her, after all you are the guy, she is probably waiting for your call too. She wouldn't mind in the least bit, nor will she be bothered by your call.

I agree with geminifox. Be intelligent and witty. capture her brain! We rule the mind and tend to fall in love with the mind and everything else follows.

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@sweetest_gemini
19 YearsGemini

...you have nothing to lose calling her. If she doesn't like you, she will forget that you even called..she'l be like "who just called me...?...ah forget it..next!

lol joke!

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@sweetest_gemini
19 YearsGemini

yes..juicy and gemfox, people don't realize that we are loyal, once they pinned us down. maybe because few people get that far, everyone fall out in the test.

gemini's are hard to pin down but nce caught, they are very loyal and sometimes a bit possesive too.

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@banini
20 Years

But I already called her, and then she said she would call me later, and she didn't. So I guess that means she's not interested...

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@banini
20 Years

I don't know when hers is. Sometime between May 21st and June 20th in 1984, haha. And mine is Friday, 11:11pm, August 13th 1982. Friday the 13th AND I have the same bday as Alfred Hitchcock. Thrilling isn't it.

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@sweetest_gemini
19 YearsGemini

i agree with emerald gem, give her a couple of chances. Gem or not some girls liked to be pursued, either as a game(for most gems) or as a test of how much you like them. If still you get air for an answer, then fick with her! there's so many flowers out there. πŸ™‚

But...most gems though would like to pursue a guy. I hope i am not confusing.

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@sweetest_gemini
19 YearsGemini

atlantic myst...can u check our compatilibity too..thanks, my new libra guy. I am still in the process of disecting this guy.

his chart:

Sun Libra
Moon Gemini
Mercury Scorpio
Venus Libra
Mars Leo
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Virgo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Virgo
Asc node Virgo

my chart:

Sun is in 04 Degrees Gemini
Rising Sign is in 27 Degrees Virgo
Moon is in 17 Degrees Cancer
Mercury is in 14 Degrees Gemini
Venus is in 24 Degrees Aries
Mars is in 01 Degrees Libra
Jupiter is in 01 Degrees Scorpio
Saturn is in 15 Degrees Libra
Uranus is in 02 Degrees Sagittarius
Neptune is in 26 Degrees Sagittarius
Pluto is in 24 Degrees Libra
N. Node is in 13 Degrees Cancer

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@1_fine_gem
19 Years

moon in gemini he's like a gemini so more like you i guess, you might be alike in many ways..like your both witty and tend to analyze things too much..and both air signs! you can just imagine the mental rapport

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@banini
20 Years

Back to my issue... I believe I've figured out why she didn't call me. When I called her she asked me what I was doing later and I said I wasn't doing anything. Is that a bad thing to say?