Gentleman/A**Stomper thread

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CAAALLING AALL GENTLEMEN AND A**STOMPERS!!!🦇


My question to the GUYS is, "How Much of a GENTLEMAN do you know yourself to be?

Other question is..."How much s**t do you take bc of, being a gentleman?"


I think as guys we get along on higher average than the ladies.
The ladies know they can SAY ANYTHING they want.🦇🦇

Guys know that in a social atmosphere WE'RE NOT just gonna say ANYTHING we want bc that= fight=loss of fingers, loss of an ear, maybe a "nut", shot, stabbed, stomped, choked, fish-bowled, "roofed", or we find your family members and save you for last. All which = hospital or worse. I dont care how tough you think you are or how big you may bigup or if you watch MMA and Ultimate fighter. Beer bottles and buckshot will stop you dead in your tracks. And all of US GUYS know this. Especially here in the country. We'ere dumb to that down here.

This is guy to guy not guy to girl. why this gets 5 bats out of five. 🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇

I'm not gonna come outta my mouth the wrong way to anybody bc first of all I dont like confrontation. I like peace.
But I do confrontation very well. Best believe that.

Im the type of person that if it comes out of my mouth.....I simply MUST do it. Its just how I am. So thats why I watch my mouth alot. I dont wanna bind my hands behind my back with a sin.

So Gentlemen and a**stompers.....do you think that women don't get along as well as we do together bc they have no fear of getting that pretty face cut with a "hawk"? Bc WE would never do that to them nor lay a hand on'em. WE SHOULDN'T!!!

So men my other question to you is ARE U thankful that you have a code of ethics when dealing with each other?

I don't think women (and im not saying women are inferior in any sorta way)understand the brutality behind disrespect.🦇🦇🦇🦇🦇

Its very real and serious over here in man-world. Thank the LORD I'm 17 -0, black, white asian, hispanic, and from Grovener Park I go. Cuz I coulda been easily hospitalized or had permanent damage or an eye-socket knocked loose.

I'm not gonna say or treat anybody wrong on the boards JUST bc I'm veiled by anonymity.:/
Being able to get along on these boards can translate directly to how much better you can carry what you've learned from these boards into a REAL social atmosphere. We get this opportunity for FREE. Therefore DXP provides us not only with an invaluable tool for life enrichment but, also they provide a privilege.









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SO, if you're the type that is more interested in only figuring out how to piss people off, then you're not utilizing this vehicle to its full potential.
What you're essentially doing is only practicing bad manipulative button-pressing that you CAN'T carry out into the real world bc you're using DXP as a safe-haven.
You're not learning how to mesh with differences and ride that wave to becoming a better people person which is what we all would like to see happen with ourselves. WHO WANTS TO REMAIN AN OUTCAST AND NOT EVEN GET PAID FOR IT!!??🦇
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I'm not gonna come outta my mouth the wrong way to anybody bc first of all I dont like confrontation. I like peace.
But I do confrontation very well. Best believe that.


I don't like confrontation either -- I look at the ones that do are just major shit-starters. However, some people just gotta know their place when it comes to who you are. I mean, that might sound haughty but it's the truth. Who are you to just disrespect someone because you feel like it? I mean really? Do you NOT expect something in return for that?


Im the type of person that if it comes out of my mouth.....I simply MUST do it. Its just how I am. So thats why I watch my mouth alot. I dont wanna bind my hands behind my back with a sin.

A virgo once said I was too proactive for my own good ...


So Gentlemen and a**stompers.....do you think that women don't get along as well as we do together bc they have no fear of getting that pretty face cut with a "hawk"? Bc WE would never do that to them nor lay a hand on'em. WE SHOULDN'T!!!

So men my other question to you is ARE U thankful that you have a code of ethics when dealing with each other?

I don't think women (and im not saying women are inferior in any sorta way)understand the brutality behind disrespect.

Its very real and serious over here in man-world. Thank the LORD I'm 17 -0, black, white asian, hispanic, and from Grovener Park I go. Cuz I coulda been easily hospitalized or had permanent damage or an eye-socket knocked loose.




Some women push alot of buttons with men because they *feel* they can get away with it. There's so many issues and complexities with the opposite-sexes, I swear ..
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I'm not gonna say or treat anybody wrong on the boards JUST bc I'm veiled by anonymity.:/
Being able to get along on these boards can translate directly to how much better you can carry what you've learned from these boards into a REAL social atmosphere. We get this opportunity for FREE. Therefore DXP provides us not only with an invaluable tool for life enrichment but, also they provide a privilege.


I like how you looked at that 😄

Actually, the way I conduct myself here is pretty much how I do it offline. The only difference is that there a more people offline that online I take seriously. I also joke more online because I like the fun ^_^.

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Posted by SuperCap
SO, if you're the type that is more interested in only figuring out how to piss people off, then you're not utilizing this vehicle to its full potential.
What you're essentially doing is only practicing bad manipulative button-pressing that you CAN'T carry out into the real world bc you're using DXP as a safe-haven.
You're not learning how to mesh with differences and ride that wave to becoming a better people person which is what we all would like to see happen with ourselves. WHO WANTS TO REMAIN AN OUTCAST AND NOT EVEN GET PAID FOR IT!!??🦇



I feel the same way about people who stay on Facebook and MySpace all the times -- like the ones that check it at least 10 times a day :/

I have a serious love affair with Twitter but I don't check it 10 times a day 😉

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One of my coworkers was talking about how her boyfriend won't set a wedding date and she mentioned withholding sex until he would.



I never quite understood how withholding sex was ever a punishment for men. I've heard people say this before and it's just stupid. That means you don't get sex either, you idiot lol....talk about a lose/lose situation.



I know, right? The only situation where sex could possibly be withheld is if he pissed me off to the point where I just did NOT feel like it. Like, drive is down the tubes. Other than that, those bitches are crazy. It's also fucked to use sex as a bargaining chip. Not cool. If a guy withheld sex, omg the girl would be crushed, thinking she's not attractive enough. But SHE can do it. Eff that.



Yeah I agree. I love sex too much to withhold from a relationship unless like you said it will something that really really hurt me deep.

I'll even go as far as to say that I think sex could probably iron out certain issues or help you get past them, kinda like speak for you in another language lol (i.e. make-up sex). In any case, it shouldn't even get to that point - bargaining. Wtf is that...what happened to talking about what's going on?
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I've stopped the sex stuff when I simply didn't want to do it anymore -- I *heart* being an Aqua venus. We love it too but with a venus like that, we can hit it and quit it without much effort ^_^.
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Look how STRONG THESE WOMEN ARE!!🙂🙂

THANKS FOR THE RESPONSES:{[

Ya'll know what I think about each one of you so I'm not gonna respond post-for-post bc I'll be sitting down here forever🙂

@pigeon...guess it takes 29 years of age to think like we think HUH!?!lol Haven't gotten any responses from the men so maybe they're 28 and under or 30 and over. lol

@seavy...*waves* !!!!🦇🦇🦇


My gosh the women on the capboard keep this board afloat hands down.
If it weren't for ya'll I wouldn't have anywhere to post🙂
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"How Much of a GENTLEMAN do you know yourself to be?"

I let others pass is front of me to maintain the equibrium in a place, mainly with many ppl arround.
If you are in a hurry,
you are an old person and cant walk fast,
or you are a child not looking foward (I know chidren are supposed to play but not in a place that is supposed to walk, but I dont blame them)
be my guest, pass by me, even if I wait a while, I dont bother by this minimal insignicance.

Generally women are not like this at all, they are the ones that pass in front if they are in extreme hurry (they usually are).


"How much s**t do you take bc of, being a gentleman?"

Nothing comes to mind, it is nothing, but neverless I avoid places where I take s**t from others.

Note: Maybe I am a gentleman because I dont mind to be last, I associate being a gentleman by waiting, paticence, letting others go fisrt and caring for others. I dont belong to other types of gentleman.

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my cancer friend broke off our friendship because i really didnt know her....lol. who does that? later i texted and we are ok now i guess. but srsly...i think of myself as gentle and sweet. women...i fnd it wierd when they get hurt over small things. and yes im one of those guys who forgives but i dont forget. damn scorpio in my chart sorry lol. i have venus in aqua too...i srsly dont need a woman. but it would be nice to have one. haha. preferably strong willed...im always taken in by those girls who have problems...then i get hurt. because she either flips out or gets all paranoid. idk...i like helping others. im here when you need me. im a wall, a solace. but dont rely on me too much. i cannot be your spine for you. if you aint got no back bone your gonna fail. you have to have faith in yourself. if your a strong woman and i know you are and your hurting...id still try to be there. you may not need me but its alway nice to have someone thats there. i get along with females. but i think guys are alot less stress. alot less work so to speak. guys we think logically. i have no time for petty bullshit. i dont like being used or manipulated. lol. im too generous and kind for my own good.
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Posted by SuperCap
Look how STRONG THESE WOMEN ARE!!🙂🙂

THANKS FOR THE RESPONSES:{[

Ya'll know what I think about each one of you so I'm not gonna respond post-for-post bc I'll be sitting down here forever🙂

@pigeon...guess it takes 29 years of age to think like we think HUH!?!lol Haven't gotten any responses from the men so maybe they're 28 and under or 30 and over. lol

@seavy...*waves* !!!!🦇🦇🦇


My gosh the women on the capboard keep this board afloat hands down.
If it weren't for ya'll I wouldn't have anywhere to post🙂




I see that you like strong ladies 😉 Not the wanabe-strong ones but the real strong ones.

That's hot SC 😛