@HappyCapper!!My Capricorn came back!!!

He came back!!!Where you at HappyCapper?

I told you the last time we talked was on saturday and we end it with "wish you all the best", and that i'll change the number,then poof,silence and the noise of the wind in the desert all over again.

It's been 3 days,we didn't talked to each other,until now.
I should have changed this number yesterday,i still kept it.

Today he answered me,he said ok and that if i would like to give him the new number,if not it's up to me!

I only said "ok".

After saturday i didn't thought he'll come back or even say one more word to me.

Posted by stillwat3r
RushofMagic. That's what happened.

Lol not yet,don't jinx it!

Posted by champranger

Posted by RushOfMagic
I told you the last time we talked was on saturday and we end it with "wish you all the best", and that i'll change the number,then poof,silence and the noise of the wind in the desert all over again.

It's been 3 days,we didn't talked to each other,until now.
I should have changed this number yesterday,i still kept it.

Today he answered me,he said ok and that if i would like to give him the new number,if not it's up to me!

I only said "ok".

After saturday i didn't thought he'll come back or even say one more word to me.

What was the thing that you said in which he answered to?

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I didn't asked him nothing,i only let him know that i'll change the number!
We said goodbye saturday as in "take care even if we won't talk no more"
We didn't said we'll keep in touch as i stated in my previous thread.

Doesn't sound like he ever left.

Posted by champranger

Posted by RushOfMagic

Posted by champranger

Posted by RushOfMagic
I told you the last time we talked was on saturday and we end it with "wish you all the best", and that i'll change the number,then poof,silence and the noise of the wind in the desert all over again.

It's been 3 days,we didn't talked to each other,until now.
I should have changed this number yesterday,i still kept it.

Today he answered me,he said ok and that if i would like to give him the new number,if not it's up to me!

I only said "ok".

After saturday i didn't thought he'll come back or even say one more word to me.

What was the thing that you said in which he answered to?

I didn't asked him nothing,i only let him know that i'll change the number!
We said goodbye saturday as in "take care even if we won't talk no more"
We didn't said we'll keep in touch as i stated in my previous thread.

My main point in the last thread was although he was no angel, I think you jumped to conclusions without hearing him out first. Truthfully, I think he is only cutting ties because he believes you want to cut ties, especially since now, it looks like he's making a bit of effort to keep in contact.

IMO 🙂

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Yup.

Posted by tiki33
Doesn't sound like he ever left.

Yup to this too.

You say he came back. Did you see him? Did you make any arrangements? What happened?

Posted by HappyCapper
You say he came back. Did you see him? Did you make any arrangements? What happened?

No,i didn't made any move yet.

I'm still thinking about our discussion and about everything i may have done wrong so no.

I don't want to push nothing right now,i will give him the new number and start from there,slowly.

Posted by FrenchKpricorn
So you was thinking that he wouldn't come!

Pfff

Yes because i wasn't waiting!

Posted by RushOfMagic

Posted by HappyCapper
You say he came back. Did you see him? Did you make any arrangements? What happened?

No,i didn't made any move yet.

I'm still thinking about our discussion and about everything i may have done wrong so no.

I don't want to push nothing right now,i will give him the new number and start from there,slowly.

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This is not about focusing on punishing yourself for possible wrong doings. Look at your own actions, sure, but for the sake of learning something from them and what came out of them. Now is the time to to rectify the situation.

Oh, and another thing. Don't forget that one instance in which you're different is that he is patient and you are not. You keep asking yourself why he didn't do this or that - as I understand it, he is not wasting any time, but not rushing. This for him takes time, and he is okay with it. Let's see if your aries venus is. Sure, it's gonna be a challenge...but then, aries loves a challenge, right? 🙂

I don't care about "a challenge" HappyCapper,in fact one of the reasons that i admire him is that he doesn't rush things and he doesn't jump in a relationship.

From what you're telling me my aries venus wouldn't like that,right?

But i do like it,it must be the taurus that takes charge or maybe the capricorn.
Either way,i'm taking things slowly for both of us,he managed to let his ego aside after i gave him the horns so i think i'll manage to let mine too,we never had a problem with that before.

Our only biggest problem until now was who let's the other one choose the movies to watch.
I never argued with this man,there wasn't nothing to argue for,we are too relaxed and happy around each other to waste time with silly things.
I had plenty of time to think about all the pros and cons in these 2 weeks and him making an effort right now it just makes us stronger and making me realise that he has my back,i can depend on him.
Everyone can play the game who blames who but not many can pass the differences and build on our faults.
I'm proud of him,he's one of the good guys and i'm blessed to have him in my life.

I'll let you know how things go but for now i think i'll enjoy the peace after these 2 weeks.

THANK YOU for everything,you had the patience to get me through this for a week now and you were my main strong motivator here,you were the first to answer to my thread too and you made sure i'll follow through.

I know you tried also some tactics like making me believe that i should do something when i didn't even see the point,i do notice,i just don't say nothing.

That worked by the way!lol So THANK YOU again!

🙂

I meant that your venus in aries might get impatient...but then maybe not. 🙂

Np🙂

Yes, please keep me informed.

All the best to you both! 🙂