Hate Capricorn

Well right meow. Simply because one of you guys hurt my feelings really bad... I deleted his number from my phone just so I wouldn't have the urge to call him. Which sucks because we were best friends ): I miss him. Do you guys ever get overwhelmed with feelings and just cut someone off? I never knew what happened to him and honestly trying to ask him didn't work and just made him mad. Honestly by that point I was so upset I didn't even want to talk to him the way he cut things off...

Want some whine with that cheese? Want an open book so you can shut it?

Capricorns can be really spineless cowards when it comes to emotions. They hide how they feel, harbor their emotions, then blow up and act like total douchebags and leave you in the dark with no communication. It's borderline abusive. I suggest you give some very deep thought as to whether or not you want to pursue this Capricorn. Capricorns can be very toxic to Pisces. Especially with how emotionally mute and cold they can be. I recently fell out with a Capricorn who had the audacity to question whether or not i had money (and i always do because of the two of us i was the working one) when i asked if i could see him. He was very manipulative, fake, and a pathological liar. Now im not saying all Capricorn are like this, but im going to tell you like, believe it or not, *I* had to tell *MYSELF * i see how this person is treating me now, is he really someone i want to keep in my life. Once again, Capricorn are very immature with how they deal with emotions. Be careful and love thy self.

^^Pffftttttt hahahahaaha. Sure next thing you're going to me is Aries don't know how to keep it down low and Scorpio doesn't know how to keep it in their pants. lol 😆

Posted by Feistypisces777
Well right meow. Simply because one of you guys hurt my feelings really bad... I deleted his number from my phone just so I wouldn't have the urge to call him. Which sucks because we were best friends ): I miss him. Do you guys ever get overwhelmed with feelings and just cut someone off? I never knew what happened to him and honestly trying to ask him didn't work and just made him mad. Honestly by that point I was so upset I didn't even want to talk to him the way he cut things off...

You probably tried asking a bit too soon. You should both have taken a little breathing room and try again later.

How long ago was this?

Do I get emotionally overwhelmed sometimes? Hmmmm hardly, but I can get obsessive which is just as bad. If someone is hurt it doesn't matter if you try coming in from different angles to solve the problem. They just need time.
Most likely response is probably completely shutting down. When that happens no amount of coaxing, and especially not pressure, will work.

@pv I don't really know what a "classic Pisces move" is. I don't even go into rages, I'm just very passive, which he told me one time drove him insane because the majority of girls he dated just went into a frenzy whenever there was a disagreement. ditto with Virgo, my passive behavior (not aggressive though) drives them crazy and some have acted physically towards me I think because of that.
Anyway, things ended strangely and I don't wish to go into detail as to what happened because it's very personal to me, but

In the entire ordeal, there was no yelling, name-calling or aggressiveness at all. It was just a "break up" where I let him go his own way. This happened 2 months ago and although I haven't spoken to him since, it makes me feel very upset to think I can't talk to him like I used to. ):

@magenta-azure: is there a meaning behind your username? And also, you hit it right on the money! He blew up, And without an explanation, it was over.

Posted by Sn1p3r187
^^Pffftttttt hahahahaaha. Sure next thing you're going to me is Aries don't know how to keep it down low and Scorpio doesn't know how to keep it in their pants. lol 😆

Basically.

@tigercap yes you're right. I probably did ask too soon. Just wish things would have worked out. Cappy's are one of my favorite signs. They're sooo funny, and they make me feel so happy. I just wish I could have done the same for him. Thanks for your insight.

I made a heart and apparently it translated to heart eyes lol.

Posted by Magenta_Azure
Capricorns can be really spineless cowards when it comes to emotions. They hide how they feel, harbor their emotions, then blow up and act like total douchebags and leave you in the dark with no communication. It's TOTALLY and COMPLETELY abusive.

Fixed it. I don't think the "borderline" is correctly used here 😄

^^Did somebody say HAIRLINE!? 😄

Posted by Magenta_Azure
Capricorns can be really spineless cowards when it comes to emotions. They hide how they feel, harbor their emotions, then blow up and act like total douchebags and leave you in the dark with no communication. It's borderline abusive. I suggest you give some very deep thought as to whether or not you want to pursue this Capricorn. Capricorns can be very toxic to Pisces. Especially with how emotionally mute and cold they can be. I recently fell out with a Capricorn who had the audacity to question whether or not i had money (and i always do because of the two of us i was the working one) when i asked if i could see him. He was very manipulative, fake, and a pathological liar. Now im not saying all Capricorn are like this, but im going to tell you like, believe it or not, *I* had to tell *MYSELF * i see how this person is treating me now, is he really someone i want to keep in my life. Once again, Capricorn are very immature with how they deal with emotions. Be careful and love thy self.

that sounds like a horrible person/man who is ONLY in for money. My Cappy uncles are NOT like that at all. My one capricorn uncle who lost his wife this year to cancer, (she never worked and she was a DOMESTIC housewife who took care of him and his children, the house, ect. Sure they were never rich, but they had everything they need,especially nurturing and love!!) and he worked hard for the family. Even owned his own business twice in his life. One was our family's restaurant business and bakery. And one he did on his own. He NEVER asked for a woman to work or make money, only asked for her to be LOYAL, loving, be there for him and the entire family. That's all he ever asked for.

My other uncle had it harder as he chose a different type of wife, but ultimately in the end, he got evreything he needed despite all the hardships and sufferings. He owns a house in a foreign land, and has had businesses too, and tries to keep his family together. I don't know how it was with his ex wife, but she was the working type, career woman, not domestic type at all, (she was kind of money hungry) and he was working too, but the money was NOT enough because she had extravagant tastes. It's just how it is. Some women have Extravangant tastes. *shrug* they're out there. You can have super extravagant tastes but ONLY if you have the career/money to back it up with.

anyway, cut off.

You can have super extravagant tastes but ONLY if you have the career/money to back it up with. then you can be as extravangant if you want. But even super rich people are miserly at times so it depends!!!

sometimes, you can have the career money and buy super duper extravangant stuff like designer stuff, and then be broke and wait for the next paycheck, or you can be super duper rich and be miserly. the world has all kinds.

Feisty you said you broke up with him, I believe that is what you said. Why the change of heart? Did you really expect to break up with him and then resume communication later.

+1 Magenta...Dark Caps, the males that live in their dark energy border on being abusive assclowns.

Posted by Feistypisces777
In the entire ordeal, there was no yelling, name-calling or aggressiveness at all. It was just a "break up" where I let him go his own way. This happened 2 months ago and although I haven't spoken to him since, it makes me feel very upset to think I can't talk to him like I used to. ):

Sorry to hear that things didn't work out with your Cap.
While I don't think Cap guys like an overly aggressive girl, they don't like passive either. In my experience, Cap guys want a strong woman who is intelligent and classy. Never be afraid to tell a Cap what you want. They admire guts 🙂

Depending on their placements for Mars and Venus...I think it will show you how much they can go with emotions..? For example, my Cap/Aqua has Venus Pisces and Mars Aries, he really likes passion and affection...in private. Still a Cap Sun afterall.

Looking at his Mars should tell you his "fighting" style , do you know what it is?

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Posted by Magenta_Azure
Capricorns can be really spineless cowards when it comes to emotions. They hide how they feel, harbor their emotions, then blow up and act like total douchebags and leave you in the dark with no communication. It's TOTALLY and COMPLETELY abusive.

Fixed it. I don't think the "borderline" is correctly used here 😄

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Lol i was tryna be nice 😛

Posted by Feistypisces777
@magenta-azure: is there a meaning behind your username? And also, you hit it right on the money! He blew up, And without an explanation, it was over.

I like Magenta and I like Azure (blue). It should've been magenta_amethyst tho 😉 Im sorry that happened to you. I hope you go out and meet a bunch of amazing people that make you forget you ever cared about him. Karma is working up a storm for him. Alot of Capricorns go through hardship and struggle ive noticed. Find peace in knowing that.

Posted by stillwat3r

yes... i think caps should express themselves more though. what do you think?

Such a breath of fresh air to hear a Capricorn say that ! 🙂

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Posted by stillwat3r
But it's hard talking to a cap man. sometimes they think everyone is against them. It takes time.

They are..it's good motivation 😄. There are a lot of threads in a simiar vein here. Life isn't so rosy when Cap finally gets sick of the dramatic, crazy behavior and withdraws all the positive underpinnings that he silently built...and then walks away when he sees that the cyclical, self destructive behavior is unlikely to change.

yes... i think caps should express themselves more though. what do you think?

we should. but than again our power is within our silence. I love it when people have no clue what we're thinking about.

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How sadistic!