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He knows I like him.....But I sooo wanted to open up more...but I just listened.

just be careful, us guys were dooshbags..especially if he's good looking.

Ummmm...he is NOT the best looking..and yes I KNOW that guys can be douche bags

That was ambiguous?

Seems plain as day to me... am I crazy? or does anyone else agree with me?

softy... you are making me feel like I'm losing it right now 😛

I told him there was no one else....But he did NOT say he wanted me to be his woman....thats what i'm getting at...

Sorry to make you feel as your losing it Creepy Pants.....

From reading what you put out there. In male speak that means i want you to be my woman. That's pretty direct from my point of view kind of pouring out his heart style . Hmmm well thats how i see it. I think most men here would agree.

Hes not going to grab his club and drag you back to his cave. Put yourself out there for him he did for you! sounds like he really was thinking heavily before he got to talking to you.

Soft this guy is crazy for you. Caps usually don't say what they feel. Take a chance and I hope it works out.

I dont know why he would feel the need to string me along. I havent asked for anything or put any stipulations on our relationship..one reason is the distance.. I dont want to pin him to a date Cappy go lightly. Dont want to push him. I'd rather it be his idea.

@Eric...I hope your right. I just felt like he was kinda of beating around the bush. I guess some things have to be spelled out for me..lol.... I would have loved to hear him say "I'm crazy about you".

@Madalena...Oh let me clarify what I said...I told him that I wasn't SLEEPING with anyone else. I didnt mean to say I said I wasn't seeing anybody else..didnt mean to write that. I agree with you. Soo you get where I am coming from.

I do have patience....I've FELT this..But this is the first time he VERBALLy has said anything..and it sounded like he was being safe....I'll give him more time. He is moving forward without the help of me...and thats how I prefer it. Hopefully the next time I see him he will be more direct.He is very very affectionate. He makes me feel good (:

I'm just going to be cool about it. When I see him again...he'll "Go there" again. everytime i've seen him lately he has opened up more then the LAST time. So when he does I'll open up more the the I "Like you".

Thanks Cappy great advice~I dont put evrything on here.but I will tell you that I have told him that I do not have to put up with his inconsistency among other things he knows I have my own life and that other men call me and I have options...I thinkk this may have been where the conversation stemmed from. I did in so many words tell him that I will not be here waiting for him. I was truthful that there wasn't anyone else sexually, but I definitely left the door open regarding me dating. I'm nobody's fool. Ye she is th eonly one I care deeply for. I am incapable of loving more then one person. He knows him and I good together. But he is JUSTstarting to open up about his FEELINGS, so I am going to be patient for a bit, make sure he feels comfortable, and hopefully he will come more direct soon. I dont believe in pushing a man, its better when they can't take it anymore. In my heart, I could be wrong, but I believe he is moving closer. So I am going to give him a chance.

Believe it ir not Men can be cautious about their feelings as well. Its not unheard of. But like I said, he will have to eventually man up, or I will have to let go. But for now. I'm feeling patient.

Thanks Cappy for the good advice. We havent even been seeing each other a year yet. I have to actually think about how much time I am going to give him. Not ready to make that decesion yet,,But umm, yeah,,it WILL NOT be six months. I will not be that generous.....

In all honesty and fairness...I just realized how much I care for him..so a committment has not been on my agenda. I'm just realizing that he is someone I could ACTUALLY see myself with..and with him only. I'm a commitent phobe myself. Venus in Gemini. The reason I said he is being cautious is because there have been a few occasions in the PAST when he tried to get closer and question our relationship and I blew him off in so many words. Actually I just didnt take him serious...Because I have bad habit of pushing someone away when they try to get close. So I have issues.

And think I've said this before...but there has only been one other man that has made me feel like him...and I ruined it. He was a Scorpio..Once he asked me what I tought about me and him...and I told him I didnt think ANYTHING of us...when I really loved him with all my heart. I shot him down several times...and It took me a long time to get over it. Not all men are direct and how they approach women nor are they all the same. You have to treat people as individuals.. Certain situations can taint people and make them afraid. I know because I am so afraid of love myself and have chosen not to deal with it then risk being hurt..and i the end I was hurt anyway...so me being more OPEN and Patient is something new for me this time. If it does not work..I will be fine.

Yes.I do Cappy. I am trying to be different though. I've told him that I like him...and thats it. But I feel way more then like. Just dont know in which way to express it or the time since its foreign to me.

Dont have the balls for it...when he was teeling me everything I said in my original post...I couldnt even open my eyes..I just held my eye's low. I'm telling you..I am so emotionally retarded.

I'm just going to forget about it until he comes back..just gonna put in on the back burner. I dont know why I cant stop thinking about him. I'm just going to relax.

LOL..Thanks Cappy....Ima think about it.

I am a Cancer with moon in Aries and Venus in Gemini...His moon is in Pisces..Venus In Aquarius as well..