He's Having A Baby

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Well, it happened. It took a little longer then I thought but it happened 😉

The Cancer man who thought he was the hottest piece a flesh to ever walk this planet will be a father soon 😉

He texted me a few days ago (I've been keeping my cell off lately) giving me the news. Yes, he's very flustered by it but he needed someone to talk to concerning the matter. LOL, I joked and asked him when was he going to sit a wedding date with the young lady ... be replied that he wasn't worried to get married -- lol, OOO evil me 😉 He has told me about this girl in the past (along with four others) this is the same girl that he spoke very ill about -- poor woman, if only she knew.

Now, I know this may sound really selfish ans self-centered but I'm really happy at the fact that it wasn't me 🙂 I sooooo could've been that girl who got "knocked up" by some dude who doesn't give a damn about her. Thanks to some great advice.

Sorry but I just glad it wasn't me *phew!!✨
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if not just let it go, but don't become another him !

Oh don't worry JD, I really don't see myself becoming like him at all my dear 🙂

Indeed, I have left him alone ... but getting him to leave me alone is the problem. He wants to be friends but I liked it better when we were distant -- I think he needs time to do some growing up.

Is not that I can't be friends with the guy (I could because I'm over him) but I don't want to be pulled into any of his drama. I

Once upon a time last year, one of his "bed-buddies" was looking for me because she thought I was his new "girlfriend". Ayeayeayeaye! I don't like that kind of stuff at all. But telling him we should keep our distance from each other is just like telling a Grizzly Bear NOT to eat fish.

He won't listen. And to think, last year he wanted me to leave him alone completely -- which I did. Now he won't leave me alone for whatever freaking reason ...
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He doesn't sound like a nice person at all.

You are right SB 😢 But he's been acting different lately ...

He is very mean to the other girls ... until he wants something from them. That's why I happy that I'm not the one getting a swollen belly.

I did everything what I stated I was going to do on this board. It's just now, he changing up .... and acting strange.
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I had a similar expeience with a cancer guy go to school with ..he is like the sexiest man alive..
I mean when he looks at me I get turned on --just plain white hot...and as bad as I wanted to give in I didnt, I had a feeling that is should just leave him alone...and it turns out hes a playboy with two kids he doesnt care 4.

And for some reason no matter how I resist he wont leave me alone
And god knows the man oozes sex appeal.
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And for some reason no matter how I resist he wont leave me alone
And god knows the man oozes sex appeal.

Well, this man isn't bad looking either but I need more substance and realness -- I actually need a "man", not an image. He give me an image in the beginning so now I look at him and I feel nothing like I use to. LOL! Thank goodness because I would be just as obsessive with him as these other women -- ewwwww!

Last year he wanted to stay away from me for a while because one of the girls (the now pragnent one) thought he was getting serious with me and not her ... Gee Weezzz :O


Cancerian Men don't leave you alone. They should though if you ignore them enough. But that doesn't work at times either.

Really SB ——?? Oh dear .......

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"I actually need a "man", not an image. He give me an image in the beginning so now I look at him and I feel nothing like I use to."

I admire how strong you are. I know a lot of women keep going back to men even though they know that they will hurt them again. Sometimes we get caught up in the "image" and hesitate to see the true man, but it looks like you realized things quickly !!!!