Cancer Males....weird...

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by ariesgurls06 on Tuesday, July 18, 2006 and has 10 replies.

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@ariesgurls06
20 Years

I know.. The aries + cancer match doesn't work. But its the conquering I'm worring about, lol.

I met a Cancer and I have feelings for him. He seems very standoffish... I don't know. He acts very interested. But calls me every other day.. Is this a Cancer trait, or is he involved?

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@bobby25
21 Years

ariesgirl,

Cancers are all clingly for awhile,and trust me,if you spend more time with him,chances are that you might get attached with him as well,but beware,he might ditch you and walk away like nothing happened,he may also call you "just a friend" after you have given yourself to him,so please,dont give yourself too easily to him,this water sign is very hard to understand and they will never appericiate whatever you do for them.

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@Bollyhips
20 Years

ariesgirl,

I understand your pain. I , too am in love with a moody Cancerian. He flirts with me, then he doesn't. He gives too many mixed signals. Even yesterday he said that he went on a date with this girl and that it went well. He said that he would go on another date with her. i just smiled at him and said, "that's good." Today, I gave him the cold shoulder. He was wondering why. Duh!!!! He hurts my feeling and wonders why I ignore him. I would say, give them a dose of what they give you. I am tired of this already!

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

..........so exactly what are you wanting?For him to rip your clothes off or somethin??......And what tis this "conquering" you speak of??Are you forgeting your dealin with another cardinal sign who may be planning a "conquer" themselves in a different way....on you!

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@Bollyhips
20 Years

Thanks thecontessina! I hope that it is a good sign. Sometimes it drives me mad that he plays these freakin' games. I sense that he likes me. Why is he doing this? I gave him many hints. I compliment him, tell him that he is the best, etc. He does the same for me too. He even complimented the shade of lipstick that I was wearing. I was shocked. That seems so personal. Tiamat, what "planned conquer" are we talking about? Please elaborate!

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@cancimini
20 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

MAAAAAN, I get the exact same feeling with aries-men, bobby 25 🙂 STRANGE!!

"Cancers are all clingly for awhile,and trust me,if you spend more time with him,chances are that you might get attached with him as well,but beware,he might ditch you and walk away like nothing happened,he may also call you "just a friend" after you have given yourself to him,so please,dont give yourself too easily to him,this water sign is very hard to understand and they will never appericiate whatever you do for them."

The aries I know can talk for hours about us making love and he calling me "his girl" and afterwards he states that he "just isn't in love and he doesn't care about me, he just wants to have me close to him" and then ... history repeats itself again and again and again.. Is he lying? Is he afraid? Maybe he really doesn't care? dunno..