My cap sits quietly and waits for me to tell him to buzz off, than he will look at me and say 'Smart woman" lol.. If the guy wont leave me alone or shut up, he will stand up and ask him nicely, if he doesnt, he will beat their ass... (That came out of my Caps mouth just now fyi) lol
I wouldnt chit chat - she needs to bo out of the zone - way out. A look that states there is no way in hell - or a direct threat in the ladies room (hey just invite her you know we go to pee at the same time lol)
or ignore her start making out with him and slide a hand up his leg so he doesnt object and she dissapears from his memory instantly poof!!!! lol
Then again he should be the one to blow her off.
Ive never encountered this, but Id even go the the bar and a $ 50 says the bartender will send her a drink from some poor unsuspecting guy across the room lol!!!!
of course of shes too stupid a high heel to the instep under the table coupled by an oh so firendly smile and an eyebrow raise speaks volumes. Dont let up till she suddenly remembers she has to be somewhere.
I don't understand this really. I'm the type that would just sit there and observe him more than her, IF he's engaging a bit. Then I'd either tell or cut him off. If he's trying to ignore then I'd give her a look, but I can't see myself doing much more.
It's all tricky cause I don't like showing jealousy.
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(This question has been picked up and stolen from the Aquarius board. Thought it sounded like a good question.)
I personally use eye contact and sarcasm to put someone in their place.