How much attention does a cap enjoy?

I've been enjoying a capricorns company for quite some time. I love being with him.

But sometimes I feel like I suffocate him due to the amount of times I ask to see him.

I am always the one asking if he'd like to go somewhere with me. But he always says yes if it's just him and I. Even if it's just to go pick up something quick, I'll pick him up so he can run the errand with me.

I know caps like "me time". But this cap rarely says no to me. He always asks " do you want me to go?" In which I always respond yes.

Should I slow down and give him space? I don't want to scare him away.

Posted by Shashkay
Nope you are doing just fine!

Thank you for answering so quickly.
So does this mean they like that much attention? I know they enjoy feeling adored, but cant there be too much?

Posted by courtcourtv
I've been enjoying a capricorns company for quite some time. I love being with him.

But sometimes I feel like I suffocate him due to the amount of times I ask to see him.

I am always the one asking if he'd like to go somewhere with me. But he always says yes if it's just him and I. Even if it's just to go pick up something quick, I'll pick him up so he can run the errand with me.

I know caps like "me time". But this cap rarely says no to me. He always asks " do you want me to go?" In which I always respond yes.

Should I slow down and give him space? I don't want to scare him away.

If he asks if you want him to go, then he wants to go.

Does he ever invite you to go somewhere with him?

I disagree with the ladies here to some degree.

I ask my girl all the time --- Do you want me to go?

I know she does, but that doesn't mean I want to.

I still go to oblige her, generally, because I know it makes her happy.

Well he must like making her happy, if you say that
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CapTenn (sorry)

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Posted by courtcourtv
I've been enjoying a capricorns company for quite some time. I love being with him.

But sometimes I feel like I suffocate him due to the amount of times I ask to see him.

I am always the one asking if he'd like to go somewhere with me. But he always says yes if it's just him and I. Even if it's just to go pick up something quick, I'll pick him up so he can run the errand with me.

I know caps like "me time". But this cap rarely says no to me. He always asks " do you want me to go?" In which I always respond yes.

Should I slow down and give him space? I don't want to scare him away.

If he asks if you want him to go, then he wants to go.

Does he ever invite you to go somewhere with him?

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Occasionally he will ask if I want to do something with him, but as he does not have tons to do, nor a car at the moment, I am usually the one asking.
So I guess very rarely will he ask me.

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Posted by CapTenn
I disagree with the ladies here to some degree.

I ask my girl all the time --- Do you want me to go?

I know she does, but that doesn't mean I want to.

I still go to oblige her, generally, because I know it makes her happy.

I'd have to agree with this, sometimes I do things or offer even though I don't really want to.

Imo errands seem a bit much, but trust your pisces intuition on this...maybe ask him every other time rather than every time for example.

I remember hanging with a friend one time and we went to the grocery store to get drinks, he asked if I was coming inside with him. I said no ho ahead because I was super tired and had just gotten off work. My point is I enjoyed him and spending time with him, I just didn't feel it necessary to run inside the store with him to grab 2 items.

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You make a great point.

The day with the errand:
I told him I wanted to steal him but I didn't have a good excuse besides the errand.
At first he said he wanted to be stolen.
Then he left the chat, came back and said he was sorry but decided not to go.

Later on in the day I saw him, asked him if he's sticking with his last reaction, and that is when he asked me if I wanted him to go.


I guess I should force space, since it seems like he wants to please me... But he may end up tiring himself from all this time spent with me.

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Posted by CapTenn
I disagree with the ladies here to some degree.

I ask my girl all the time --- Do you want me to go?

I know she does, but that doesn't mean I want to.

I still go to oblige her, generally, because I know it makes her happy.

I'd have to agree with this, sometimes I do things or offer even though I don't really want to.

Imo errands seem a bit much, but trust your pisces intuition on this...maybe ask him every other time rather than every time for example.

I remember hanging with a friend one time and we went to the grocery store to get drinks, he asked if I was coming inside with him. I said no ho ahead because I was super tired and had just gotten off work. My point is I enjoyed him and spending time with him, I just didn't feel it necessary to run inside the store with him to grab 2 items.

You make a great point.

The day with the errand:
I told him I wanted to steal him but I didn't have a good excuse besides the errand.
At first he said he wanted to be stolen.
Then he left the chat, came back and said he was sorry but decided not to go.

Later on in the day I saw him, asked him if he's sticking with his last reaction, and that is when he asked me if I wanted him to go.


I guess I should force space, since it seems like he wants to please me... But he may end up tiring himself from all this time spent with me.

Yes, just try to balance it. His interest is definitely there so I wouldn't worry about that part. Maybe focus on quality over quantity in the time you spend together.

So in that example, he wanted to spend time with you just maybe not running an errand. And you don't have to have an excuse besides wanting to spend time with him, so instead of running an errand with you maybe you could suggest a walk in the park, take it a step further and pack a lunch to take to the park if you want.

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Yes, that sounds cool, you don't have to always do something that costs a lot to have quality time together.
If the giving him space thing is on your mind a little just reassure him you love his company and spending time with him, but to tell you if he needs a little space now and again, I'm sure he will appreciate your thoughtfulness, and know that's all it is and your not trying to push him away, communication and reassurance Š

I agree with foreverlove and piscespoppy. great advice

We love attention especially from ppl we love and care about. If we start feeling suffocated then we will let you know