how to approach this Capricorn girl,

I have meet a girl few months back,she is a capricorn.She is sweet,intelligent,smart,beautiful.....
Developed a rapport with her instantly.I feel magnetic attraction towards her and want to know her.The problem is we hardly get to meet.I want to call her up more often,be in regular touch with her but I dont know how she would take it.She never calls me up herself and if she calls its never personal.I too hardly call her.But Whenever i talk to her she is very friendly.I can count on my fingers how many times we have spoken to each other but when ever we have its been special.I really like her,dont know what to do.

Hello there es,

How did you meet this Capricorn girl? Do you work together or did you meet in a social setting like a party?

I?m a cap girl and if there is one thing I always like, it?s a man who?s up front about his interest... no hot cold games please! But I will admit you need to be very direct, trying to get us to read between the lines doesn?t always work, at least with me😄 no offense intended to you other cap girls out there!.

Has there ever been a hint that she is interested in you, the same way you are interested in her?? This is important, if a cap girl isnt interested and you walk up and declare your interest, she may not want anything more to do with. (i am guilty of this 😛)

What is your sign by the way es?

pdragon

You're going to have to just call her and suggest getting together. We don't like to chase men and want an ambitious go-getter. Take a risk. You can't gain anything if you don't try.

LOL @ GB..

GreatBull- you're full of bullshit... how will she give a nonverbal answer over the phone?? LOL

We like confident men. We are not chasers, either. I agree with pdgragon and that you have to be direct with her-hate playing mind games. Best of luck!

You cannot communicate nonverbally on the phone (i.e. through looks or body language...)

whatever you do don't be too direct! As Pdragon says, if she's not interested and you come straight and declare your interest, that'll backfire: I'd get scared and run away and I have cap friends who would do the same.
I would suggest you follow Greatbull's advice! and invite her to a movie (something funny and rather intellectual) or the museum...things like that get a cap girl going...
but be subtle and not too obvious. Just stop having meaningless phone conversation with her...i.e. call her with an invitation in mind.

by the way, am a cap too ...and quite typical

Im gonna tell you that capricorn girls aren't too much of the go after 'em type. Instead they're more seductive, and they like a man with persistence and pursuit. I'm not really sure if u think that she's in to you, but most likely she probally is if she s being sweet and friendly. Thats really the only way that Capricorns show their attraction, if not attracted then they would think you are wastin their time by talkin to them. So if you really want to pursue her then chances are is that she likes persistence and you have to tell her how u fell about her so it will bring her out of her shell and want to give a little emotion. i.e. Call her as often as it takes for a date (but not on some stalker shyt)

branh0913 said: Capricorn only respond to men who appear to have a lot of power, or tend to have the ability to control them.

I tend to be attracted to men who have an air of independance, who are self reliant and aernt desperate. I respect men in position of power, but i am not attracted to them in the slightest.

All i need to know is that a guy is willing to put in for the hard yards in future, that what i look for.

I think you should be assertive! Let your intentions be known...something like..."so how about I take you out to lunch/dinner"? Worse that can happen...she declines. Best thing..oh my gosh you have a date!! & don't take the girl to a movie on the first date. Nevermind her sign...(okay cap gals correct me if I am wrong) but personally I don't feel comfortable in a movie setting on the first date. You can't talk...and worse what if the movie sucks?
DO IT! GO for it!

GB.. Mega-bucks of course!!

What a silly question.. hahaha.. Joke, dude.. 😉

That's true that power attracts me a bit. But most of the men I've been attracted to have been just normal guys.. smart, with good sense of humor, charming..

Cap woman needs a strong man.

"internal or external?"

Definitely both.

Ok, GB.. I think I wasn't clear enough with my answer. I only answered to your last question.

Remember, this is just me.. I am attracted to powerful men a bit, I admit that. But that doesn't mean that powerful men only.. I also like normal men. And what is needed is a man who is strong inside, not outside. External power COULD attract me, but I'm not sure if I would like the person inside..

Am I already repeating myself..? lol

I haven't been following these conversations here lately, so GB, do you like someone who is a Cap? If so, then don't think about astrology, just think of her as a woman and try to make her interested in you in your own charming way.

Thanks so much for helping me.I spoke to her yesterday,for quite long.It was very nice speeking to her.I always feel so free and light when i talk to her.Something about her makes me feel that she is not as confident as she appears to be and very scared of falling in love,dont know thats because if she has been hurt in past.Dont know anything about her past but got to know that she is not seeing anyone at present.
Will ask her out during weekend.
Pdragon,we meet through work but we dont work together.I am a scorpion.

its amazing how men think women are all complicated and women think men are complicated... when truth is neither are...both men n women are simple...... i personally think whenver ur in a relationship u never understand the other person.. u dont have to be in a man/woman relationship for that... there are soooooo many misunderstandings and mind games in gay and lesbian relationships... its coz RELATIONSHIPS are complicated and not men or women......

I don't understand women, nor do I care to understand them.

LOL.. u sound soo much like this virgo family friend of ours.... hes been married to this awesome, fun cappie woman for like 29 years ... and the other day we all went out for dinner and he said the same thing branh0913...lol.. u virgos are the same 🙂

and well this capricorn is his second wife.. his first was a capricorn too... but this one is more compatible i guess 🙂

and when hes talkin' .. he sounds sooo much like ya branh0913 coz he thinks like u...and when his wife wants to watch a chick flick that he doesnt like.. he just goes into his room and starts reading a book or surfz the net....interestin people....

, because I am not a rocket scientist.

LMAO.. u dont have to be a rocket scientist to make ur mariage work... any job that keeps you away from home would do 😛

Pdragon,we meet through work but we dont work together.I am a scorpion.

Thats good, i know i always like the idea of meeting someone through work (safer place) and a scorpio too!... i currently have my eye on a scorpio that i came accross when i went out with some friends. So i ask you, what catches the scorpios eye? hehe

If you dont work together anymore... making the effort to keep in contact with her is a good move i feel. Shows that you do think about her.

Oh and branh0913: Capricorn women are the consumate attention whores. If you don't spend every concious our thinking about them, then they see it as neglect.

i agree with you, cause thats what im like... but just realise one thing... im thinking of that other person just as much (obsessively) during the day, if i wasnt interested in them, i want to be the furthest thing from that persons mind.

Capricorn only respond to men who appear to have a lot of power, or tend to have the ability to control them. If you aren't that man, they won't like you no matter what your approach is. You also have to have a good amount of leverage over them, or else they'll just view you as someone they can use.

*** gasps ***

Brandon, that is just a bunch of shyt. The nerve of you Mr.B! Once gain, you need to actually look for women who aren't attracted to you based on how much money you have.

For heaven sakes 😛

I would like to think I am a Capricorn woman expert. I know them better than they know themselves. If a anyone needs any advice on how to deal with the Capricorn women, just ask me.

NO WAY Brandon ... you have't had good experiences yet so you will be bias.

ES I am a Cap women and I'm not speaking for all Capricorns here, this is just what I think according to my experiences.I think the best way is to keep it cool and be a friend first, By keeping it cool I mean you can tell her that you like her, but just don't come on too strong, as she might be suspicious of your motives. I get always suspicious if a guy comes on too strongly, I did felt suspicious with this one guy (and with good reason). Anyways I think first you should be a friend to her, let her get to know you better, get to know her better, hang out with her if you want, go to movies and chat up with her and then you can ask her out. I find that most men I've had a crush on were normally people who were my great friends, people I felt really comfy talking too.

branh0913: Please don't speak for all of us Capricorn women, there are certainly exceptions to every rule. I knew this one guy who was very attractive, big flirt, umm bad boy type, cocky, had lots of social charisma and he was pretty popular. While this is a guy I would be attracted to short-term wise, I would never date a person like that or even consider having a relationship with him. For me its normally those calm, loyal, sincere and nice types who attract me, not POWER or status, as you say.