Mean Capricorn [vent]

You guys could be so cold sometimes. :-\
My Capricorn "friend", because I guess he is not anymore, tried to pursue a relationship with me and I told him that I had feelings for him but I just do not want a relationship right now. He asked me "So I don't even have a chance?" I said No. "You can't take the risk?" And I told him no. He kept asking and I told him no. I asked him if he was mad at me and he said No and continued to talk to me. So tell me why after a few days of seeing eachother he is IGNORING THE LIVING DAYLIGHTS OUT OF ME. I could feel that coldness and him staring at me. I don't know if he's mad or just shy to talk to me because it was an awkward moment [it was] That really hurt me. Bad.

I was going in a same place as him and usually he will hold the door for me and he slammed it in my face !!!

I would try to talk to him but I do not want to get blown off or I am going to be pissed and it will just ruin everything. This just isn't right.


I mean gosh, was the word "No" that bad? You cannot get everything you want in life.

Hmmm, He wasn't being mean ... just hurt for the most part. Contrary to popular belief we caps feel deeply about everything that has our attention. I probably would've has a similar attitude but I wouldn't "slammed the door in your face" (heavens no). I just wouldn;t speak to you for a while. Capricorns (much like taurus) detest the "I've been lead on ..." feeling and we cannot not stand feeling humiliated in anyway. I wonderful friendship/ relationship would end or become 'different because of these two factors. As a cap (who has dealt with a scorpion) he may feel that you knew he was developing feeling for you and as soon as he decided to let his guard down with you ... then everything becomes a disappointment. He definiately feels lead on, I don't know the whole story, but ... yeah sb's right, we can be colddddddddd as ice when we are hurt.

Lol @ slam the door on my face..sorry that was funny...He is probably sulking..throwing his toys out of the pram..yep me reckons it was the word no that did it..

"Lol @ slam the door on my face..sorry that was funny"

LOL I think that was funny too.. How bad day you are having if that's the funniest thing for today? I guess I should go to bed for the rest of the day. But nice to laugh at least a bit.. No, I actually almost fell from chair.. 🙂

Yes, he was hurt and also he was mean because he was hurt.

Tossers the lot of em!

i agree with you about cappys being mean, this weekend i had an issue with a cappy friend of mine that we started talking but because he was so weird with me one min he wanted to see me one he didnt know me, we just left it as friends. We decided to hang out i went to his town, for some reason he was acting rude (we was with a friend when i met him) when i got in his car i sat in the back because there was no space for his friends to sit in the back , I got yelled for that so i hit him and told him to stop. he got so mad at that after a min we both apologize for what we did. then he starting cursing and using bad language which i hate and he never did that before. finally when we get to a parking lot and i park my car he gets out of my car and walks away, he left me there. Even his friend was shock at his reaction. He had never acted like that before i couldnt believe it. He never called to apologize and i would never talk to him again. He was the one that wanted to see me, he was the one that kept telling me he liked me and then i got that.
I just dont get them and i dont want to get them they are just insecure and immature.

I am a typical mean Cap.! The Cap. guy I've been dealing with has even called ME mean a few times! lol I act the same way... when I feel I've been rejected, I turn into ice queen and you don't exist!

I've seen the Cap. guy act "mean" in his own way... will get impatient and assume rejection when he hasn't even made it clear what he wants in order to be faced with a rejection! This happened when he apparently thought he was asking me to leave the bar and go home w/ him, by telling me he was going to go soon and then hanging around for a few minutes longer...(?!) He leaves the bar, then reappears 10 minutes later, and when I act happy and surprised to see him come back, he tells me "Stay there. They [these 2 mutual male friends of ours] like you." WTF?? LOL

He is weird. Today it was the same thing but my sister got in touch with me and said he ran into her and told her to tell me that "he loved me". We are no where near that point :x! How are you going to ignore me and then say such a thing like that? I think he is playing games.

"How are you going to ignore me and then say such a thing like that? I think he is playing games."

I don't think he's playing games. You are just so interesting to him and now he got challenge in you. I'm sure he's thinking of you and how will he get you interested in him too.. I'd love to hear more about this.. 🙂

>>Someone?s been struggling for edges and thought they figured the guy out.

Who me?
Actually, no, I did not think I had him figured out. He told me would not be mad so that is what I expected. Even if he did it, you don't act that way just because someone doesn't want you.

*He told me he
*did it=didn't.