Capricorn/Capricorn relations

I am male, potentially interested in a capricorn female.... the attraction seems to come and go. pretty volatile momentum really. sometimes totally stuck for words, other times cannot get them out quick enough. Its these variations that have put me off making a move.

Could cappy females give some advice as to what they like, what turns them on and so on? where they would like for a date?

Ok, fine... i like a lot of things. I am the atypical Capricorn, with added extras. (One of them being a massive ego, like THIS big)

I am doing well careerwise, and this person works at the same place as me.

If said person found this website and read my post, I'd naturally deny all knowledge and talk around the issue. Born politican me you see!

But heh, i put forward an open platform as to what woman would want, and to be honest your list is hardly War and Peace. are all capricorn women easily pleased then? 😉 😄

Oh yeah, and what I was starting to say before my head went all over the place....

I typically do go for what I want. Very deciseively. I can approach anyone over a general matter, and especially so for career purposes. I am around 90% confident about things in life, but sadly most of that remaining 10% is intimate relationships.

I know what I want, but sometimes my head is so screwed I do wonder whether its futile chasing that desire. Know what I mean?

Oh, I should have mentioned ages. I'm 19 and she is one year older.

Being a cappy female, in my experience I enjoy simulating conversation -- it can be interlectual or comedical, I love humor 🙂 The perfect date for me would be eiher of the fellowing:

Option A: A quiet dinner either at his place or mine (preferably mine if I don't know him that well). Since there are little to no distractions we can honestly get to know each other. The "home and hearth" atmosphere will create confort and then it's a little easier to be yourself.

Option B: "Big money sending" doesn't impress me ... not at all. So if I were to go to a resturant it doesn't have to be anywhere posh -- posh dining should be saved for the one person you are getting serious about 😉, not somewhere you should go on the first date. I nice sat down eatery would be fine with me ... it's not the place that counts it's who you're with and whether or not you are having a good time with that person.

Option C: Go some place where activity is involved -- such as bowling, pool, miniture golf, take her to a concert, bungie jumping, hiking LOL!-- I don't know about you cappy woman but I would love to one of the above on a first date. Anything involving you two working together can create bonding if the right chemistry is there.

This is my prospective, hope this helps. I hope you succeed with her. With the right man, cappys can be sensational women 😉 ***wink***, ***wink***

Great advice. Keep it rolling in!

I especially like the part about activity dates. I think doing something together would give a good converstion point if the regular conversation stalls temporarily.

Exactly! I'm a cappy woman that loves to chat ... if I feel I'm not annoying the person I fancy. However most caps are shy when they first meet someone so having activites can be a filler. I say do something interesting 😉 Don't do all the romanic stuff yet, save that for later ... hahahaha

Thanks, thats just given me great ideas too..Lunch, talk, theatre, walk..great!

I agree with Capgirlinlustwithleo...we like men who know what they want...and we need lots of attention, for me personally...if a guy is showing some interest but then all of a sudden ignoring me, that's a big turn off...it won't take too long to say "bye" and move on...so if you really like her make sure that you call and hugg her more often...I know Taurians are really good at it...i think they are the warmest and lovin' from all signs...and i noticed that cappys match really well with them...I know some signs like to play by not calling and making you wait and blah, blah, blah...not that we don't like to play, we love to, but we also know the limits and know where to stop before breaking it completely...so don't go that far...

I was having a conversation recently with this girl.

We were talking about a relationship problem her friend was having, and she said "oh well, not that is a problem for me... i don't have a boyfriend".

Seems like a strange thing to just drop into conversation. Any chance its her giving me the goahead to ask her out or something?

I sort of freaked out and said "Oh, don't burst into tears about that" and walked away..... oops.....

I just wasn't prepared to ask her out there and then, and my brain didn't come up with anything better. 😐

Whats your opinions, other than the fact I'm a spineless git?

Seems like a strange thing to just drop into conversation. Any chance its her giving me the goahead to ask her out or something?

YES!!!! she is!!! thats what i do when i like the guy im talking to, i let him know im single!!! or i say it in front of his friends hehehe

c'mon boy you can do it! just remember when you ask her, make sure your both alone... so she knows your seriouse.

i virgo friend did stuff like what you are, he never did work up the courage to say anything to me... wish he had ;(