How to lose a Cappy Man....PLEASE

6 months since i broke up with my ex-fiance. I have changed my number twice and to this day he harasses the ever living shit out me. Some how in his mind since i haven't fucked another guy then i still belong to him? Something which i wont do just to prove a point i have to be genuinely be in love with the man... or he has to be Christian Bale... Anyways it's like he'll give it a rest for a few days and just when I've breathed a sigh of relief BAM i get hit by his crazy depressive self serving bullshit. I'm not bashing on Capricorns honestly I love them! But this one just refuses to give up. the worst part is that he's sooooo fucking diplomatic he has stayed friends with my friends and family so even though i don't have a facebook or any kind of modern social media (lol a dead livejournal) he still keeps tabs on everything i do... for reference he's a cap sun and rising with a moon in leo and mars/merc/venus in scorpio... FML what does a girl have to to get the point across? help and sorry for venting @_@

Posted by Chance11
cut him off..ignore him completely. with those scorpio placements along with a cap sun and leo moon, not only does his ego not like to lose but any attention you give him will cause him to think he still has a chance. anyways good luck!

Thankies sir I think instead of running by moving and changing my number like i have in the past I'll pay and get his blocked.

Wow! This is different! lol!

I agree with Chance. If you try to respond by being nice and explaining why you don't want to be him, that will just prolong it. Cut it off cold. Caps should get that! lol! No response at all!!!! Totally ignore him. If you see him in public, act like you don't know him.

As far as him being friends with your friends and family - tell them they can be friends with him as long as they want, but ask them to please not to discuss you with him. Tell them you're trying to break it off, but what you do/say/how you are is NONE of his business.

If he keeps harassing you, keep a log of texts/calls/etc. - how often, when, what time, what was said. Just in case you need it down the road if he ends up stalking you - never know about those scorp placements. Not trying to scare you, just have your ducks in a row.

Good luck!!

I meant don't want to be WITH him, not be him. !! Oops! My bad! lol

Ignore his ass!

I had one try this crap with me. I finally just ignored him and made him feel like he didn't exist when he was around. Haven't heard from him since. Works like a charm.


Think of it this way- if a toddler is throwing a temper tantrum to get your attention, do you feed into it? Nope. You don't want to encourage such bad behavior.

Ha! My venus is in Scorpio and I keep tabs on guys from my past. Im just nosey like that, and I know to write em off if they've moved on. I think he's doing that with you.

Its said that placement make folks crazy. I think.he'll back off when you become serious with someone.

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Posted by lnana04
Ha! My venus is in Scorpio and I keep tabs on guys from my past. Im just nosey like that, and I know to write em off if they've moved on. I think he's doing that with you.

Its said that placement make folks crazy. I think.he'll back off when you become serious with someone.

I have venus in scorpio too. It's a nosy thing. I want to know what they're up to, curious as to who they're seeing. I've been guilty checking out their facebook page - one or twice. Just out of curiosity. Maybe its to see if they're doing better than I am doing? Or worse? Or the same? Who knows. I don't take it overboard. I don't stalk. I can see though, how easy it would be for someone with some mental issues to become a stalker. Scary stuff.

Funny, your ex allowed her to break up your marriage and now she's with someone else! Funny shit! Hope that happens to my cheating ex too! Sweet revenge!