any advice? perferably by a male
How to win a capricorns heart?
I'm not sure that love is about "winning" ones heart. I think it is either there or it isn't. No matter what sign.
The above poster is correct. A Cappy's heart can't be won, but it can however be "gotten" thru UNDERSTANDING & RESPECT!
Much luck to you - they are a CHALLENGE that's for sure, but oh so worth it IMO!
Much luck to you - they are a CHALLENGE that's for sure, but oh so worth it IMO!
ya think? I always thought there was so much more to 'getting' someone. Geez, I learn something everyday!!!!
I thought it was about love—?
I thought it was about love—?
OP,
There was a message posted a little earlier on generally the same topic. It's called "Deciphering Cap Men." Or something like that. You might also find some helpful advice there, just in case you haven't seen it already.
Good Luck to you!=)
There was a message posted a little earlier on generally the same topic. It's called "Deciphering Cap Men." Or something like that. You might also find some helpful advice there, just in case you haven't seen it already.
Good Luck to you!=)
A few useful 'hints'(Not in this order though )
1- Sex ( this will deplete his energy, and so the chance of his wondering about is limited )
2- Your undivided attention and devotion
3- Tolerance of his gullibility
4- Keep him busy with your demands, that may or may not include 1 above
5- Never tell him WHAT to do or not to do - he is quite stubborn and will do it anyway.
- Stay connected
Anyone sees my point?
1- Sex ( this will deplete his energy, and so the chance of his wondering about is limited )
2- Your undivided attention and devotion
3- Tolerance of his gullibility
4- Keep him busy with your demands, that may or may not include 1 above
5- Never tell him WHAT to do or not to do - he is quite stubborn and will do it anyway.
- Stay connected
Anyone sees my point?
Thanx for everyone's advice... I guess i'm just confused on what to think about this guy... We used to date but because i'm so...well lets put it this way i'm an aquarian and he's a capi.He's put up with alot of indecisiveness from me and i'm grateful but, I guess I just need to know what he's all about before I let him know what i'm all about (I'm not even sure if I know) but, he will open up one min and then the next i don't know I've realized that thats just him but... also there are alot of things I look for in a guy that he doesn't have. like... for instance I adore funny guys... he's made me laugh a few times but... i'm a really sarcastic gal and i like to joke around alot, whereas he's really serious... And it's hard to be completely myself because I do like him but... I don't feel that much of a connection. I can't force anything to happen but I would like to pursue something more.
Dear 24.81,
"I don't feel that much of a connection." There is your answer. Why are you still hanging around and what for? If there is no connection now, there will not be. You cannot create a connection, it is either there or it is not. He is what he is and you are what you are. You cannot change him nor can he change you. Only each one of you can change yourself and only for yourself (not for him or he for you). I'm not sure how old you are but this may be one of the lessons that you will learn in your journey of life. In any relationship, we just "know" what will work and what won't. Trust your instincts and move on so that you can experience other connections. He can still be your friend and who knows....maybe later down the road after you each have experienced more life, you may connect. Enjoy each moment for what it is.
"I don't feel that much of a connection." There is your answer. Why are you still hanging around and what for? If there is no connection now, there will not be. You cannot create a connection, it is either there or it is not. He is what he is and you are what you are. You cannot change him nor can he change you. Only each one of you can change yourself and only for yourself (not for him or he for you). I'm not sure how old you are but this may be one of the lessons that you will learn in your journey of life. In any relationship, we just "know" what will work and what won't. Trust your instincts and move on so that you can experience other connections. He can still be your friend and who knows....maybe later down the road after you each have experienced more life, you may connect. Enjoy each moment for what it is.
If you want to know more about him then make a conscious effort in that direction.
My advice:
1. Be clam and collect yourself. Listen to a fav CD or something and relax yourself.
2. Think about what you would like to know about this guy.
3. STOP self-doubting! I find that i do it sometimes and i find that has ruined many things that were going very well. Remember that your goal is to know more about him and be comfortable and enjoy the relationship and to grow with it as a person and a partner!
4. The next time you see him, smile!
Promise yourself that you are going to be happy and be yourself. Leave all doubts at home.
If he is with you then he surely sees something in you that he hasnt found in anyone else! So count on it...you are special to him.
It is just a differnt perspective to approaching the relatioship....
I have been in this kind of a situation before too...and i now wish i had taken a much simpler approach to the relationship that i did!
Sometimes, we make things much more complicated than it need be!
I really hope that you find at least some use in all the lines that i have typed above!
Heres wishing you all the very best
🙂
My advice:
1. Be clam and collect yourself. Listen to a fav CD or something and relax yourself.
2. Think about what you would like to know about this guy.
3. STOP self-doubting! I find that i do it sometimes and i find that has ruined many things that were going very well. Remember that your goal is to know more about him and be comfortable and enjoy the relationship and to grow with it as a person and a partner!
4. The next time you see him, smile!
Promise yourself that you are going to be happy and be yourself. Leave all doubts at home.
If he is with you then he surely sees something in you that he hasnt found in anyone else! So count on it...you are special to him.
It is just a differnt perspective to approaching the relatioship....
I have been in this kind of a situation before too...and i now wish i had taken a much simpler approach to the relationship that i did!
Sometimes, we make things much more complicated than it need be!
I really hope that you find at least some use in all the lines that i have typed above!
Heres wishing you all the very best
🙂
OK!
OK! —??
What? Are you confused? Why?
I find this funny!!!!!!
Were you talking to someone specific—
Were you talking to someone specific—
Funny is the wrong word!
Disregard it!
Were you directing you comment at someone specific?
I was agreeing with the information you gave, and thought it was very informative!!!
Disregard it!
Were you directing you comment at someone specific?
I was agreeing with the information you gave, and thought it was very informative!!!
I have a habit of over intellectulizing things! LOL
YOU LEARN
I recommend getting your heart trampled on to anyone
I recommend walking around naked in your living room
Swallow it down (what a jagged little pill)
It feels so good (swimming in your stomach)
Wait until the dust settles
You live you learn
You love you learn
You cry you learn
You lose you learn
You bleed you learn
You scream you learn
I recommend biting off more than you can chew to anyone
I certainly do
I recommend sticking your foot in your mouth at anytime
Feel free
Throw it down (the caution blocks you from the wind)
Hold it up (to the rays)
You wait and see when the smoke clears
Wear it out ( the way a three-year old would do)
Melt it down (you're gonna have to eventually anyway)
The fire trucks are coming up aroud the bend
You grieve you learn
You choke you learn
You laugh you learn
You choose you learn
You pray you learn
You ask you learn
You live you learn!!!
A. Morrisette
I recommend getting your heart trampled on to anyone
I recommend walking around naked in your living room
Swallow it down (what a jagged little pill)
It feels so good (swimming in your stomach)
Wait until the dust settles
You live you learn
You love you learn
You cry you learn
You lose you learn
You bleed you learn
You scream you learn
I recommend biting off more than you can chew to anyone
I certainly do
I recommend sticking your foot in your mouth at anytime
Feel free
Throw it down (the caution blocks you from the wind)
Hold it up (to the rays)
You wait and see when the smoke clears
Wear it out ( the way a three-year old would do)
Melt it down (you're gonna have to eventually anyway)
The fire trucks are coming up aroud the bend
You grieve you learn
You choke you learn
You laugh you learn
You choose you learn
You pray you learn
You ask you learn
You live you learn!!!
A. Morrisette
I'm gonna go with the flow and see from there...so until then...CIAO!
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