Is it normal after sex?

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Oh wow...Honey, you might be having a miscarriage. Usually when you're having a miscarriage, the blood starts out as spotting (which makes women believe they are starting their period).The spotting is normally very light (not heavy). And then when the spotting stops, you'll be confused, saying "What the heck was that all about." Normally, when abdominal pain starts to come with or after the spotting occurs that spells out MISCARRIAGE. And since you had unprotected sex, there IS a possibility that you could've gotten pregnant. Some women have miscarriages after only being technically pregnant for 4 weeks, while some women start seeing signs of a miscarriage as late as 12 weeks (almost through with the 1st trimester). Was the test positive? Are you having any symptoms of being pregnant? If I were you, I'd definetely get that checked out. Normally when a woman starts to spot during a pregnancy there is a 50% chance that she may or may not have a miscarriage. Sometimes spotting occurs because of the uterine walls...they are expanding with the growth of the baby & the walls can shed a little bit, which causes the blood to appear (usually is a light brown or light pink). But either way, you should go to the doctor to be sure.
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I had my first sex (only intercourse, because it was so painful) and we didn't use a condom, also we had oral. I was still afraid I might get pregnant, so I took couple pregnancy tests. The whole weeks I had those blood spots on my panties, then they disappeared. I got my period 2 weeks later and after it I still keep having some of the blood spots in my panties and I started to have little pain in my abdominal left area. Is this normal?

Umm ... oh dear ... Before I say anything, LISTEN TO ME, ALWAYS USE PROTECTION! Never EVER have sex without it, if he had a problem with it, you shouldn't have let him touch you. Period, end of story, not condom, NO SEX. Goodness ....

Okay, I think you weren't (excuse my words) wet enough during sex. More then likely, the guy didn't know what he was doing and he didn't know how far to go with you and that's why it was painful and that's why you are spotting in your underwear.

Go to the OB immediately.
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"but the pregnancy tests said negative, can they lie too?"

Of course pregnancy tests can be wrong. Most of them are pretty accurate but whether or not they are accurate also depends on YOU. You have to wait the right amount of time before taking the test. Taking a pregnancy test the next day after you had sex was not the smartest thing to do (It will say NEGATIVE without a doubt).And if you're looking for the MOST accurate pregnancy test, go to your doctor & make sure they perform a BLOOD test because blood tests can detect pregnancy a little bit quicker & earlier than those home tests you can get at Wal-mart. If you were bleeding after your first time of having sex, then yes, that can be considered normal. It would be different if you experienced bleeding without the experience of pain & horrible aching during the sex but since you DID, that changes things a whole lot. Honey, start protecting yourself. You may be young but you're not stupid. You watch the news, you see the STD & pregnancy commercials, you learned about the statistics in school, & you probably personally know that one girl in YOUR neigborhood that made the same mistake but didn't get a second chance. You have NOTHING to lose by being safe, but EVERYTHING to lose by putting your life, your health, & your dignity in the arms & power of another man
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My two cents inclduing wild guess:

1. It's nothing about pregnancy
2. women are all so different.
3. your story reminds me of Sylvia Plath. In The Bell Jar she bleeds several days after the first time.
4. Sport is a good preparation for sex life.
5. I guess you don't desire him. You have just decided to do it with him.
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Well said. Now that we know alot more information NOW then we did when she first posted the thread, it's all starting to come together & make sense. Now, with all the pieces together, I'd say you nailed it right on the head.