WithoutRegret
@WithoutRegret
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Is my Cap guy into me?
Just come out and bite the bullet, say that you like him and leave it at that.
Posted by cappyone
Just come out and bite the bullet, say that you like him and leave it at that.
Heck ya, I admit it! I REALLY like him! I just can't tell if HE likes ME.
Posted by WithoutRegretPosted by cappyone
Just come out and bite the bullet, say that you like him and leave it at that.
Heck ya, I admit it! I REALLY like him! I just can't tell if HE likes ME.click to expand
Wait...or do you mean I should tell HIM that I like him. Because that seems kind of "in-your-face", and I don't want to scare him off...especially if I can't gauge where he's at on the subject.
Posted by WithoutRegretPosted by WithoutRegretPosted by cappyone
Just come out and bite the bullet, say that you like him and leave it at that.
Heck ya, I admit it! I REALLY like him! I just can't tell if HE likes ME.
Wait...or do you mean I should tell HIM that I like him. Because that seems kind of "in-your-face", and I don't want to scare him off...especially if I can't gauge where he's at on the subject.click to expand
tell him. Caps don't scare easy
Posted by WithoutRegretPosted by WithoutRegretPosted by cappyone
Just come out and bite the bullet, say that you like him and leave it at that.
Heck ya, I admit it! I REALLY like him! I just can't tell if HE likes ME.
Wait...or do you mean I should tell HIM that I like him. Because that seems kind of "in-your-face", and I don't want to scare him off...especially if I can't gauge where he's at on the subject.click to expand
What it sounds like is he is trying to gauge you. If neither of you is going to bite the bullet, then this is just a lost cause.
What it sounds like is he is trying to gauge you. If neither of you is going to bite the bullet, then this is just a lost cause.
Understood. It still makes me a little nervous, but I guess it's best to get it over with now so I can stop obsessing over it. Quick. Like a band-aid. 🙂
Well, if you do it, then you won't have to wonder anymore.
One of two things will happen:
1. He will return the sentiment and you two can move on into a real relationship.
2. He will not return the sentiment and you can get out now before you get in too deep with your feelings.
Either way, it's a win-win! Yes, even option #2 is a win-win because you will know and you won't be strung along wondering where you stand. Nip it in the bud as soon as possible, so you can either grow in the relationship or move on before you get hurt. That's the cap way.
Caps are and like blunt and honest. He will respect it.
One of two things will happen:
1. He will return the sentiment and you two can move on into a real relationship.
2. He will not return the sentiment and you can get out now before you get in too deep with your feelings.
Either way, it's a win-win! Yes, even option #2 is a win-win because you will know and you won't be strung along wondering where you stand. Nip it in the bud as soon as possible, so you can either grow in the relationship or move on before you get hurt. That's the cap way.
Caps are and like blunt and honest. He will respect it.
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