LindaLand
@LindaLand
11 Years
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Is there anything to wait for? Advice needed badly
Long story not so short.
Please give me some strenght! I feel that there is a THING. But you have experience and behaviour of a cap!
English is not my mother tongue (I "flagged" the first topic just to follow it _—_—_—)
Please give me some strenght! I feel that there is a THING. But you have experience and behaviour of a cap!
English is not my mother tongue (I "flagged" the first topic just to follow it _—_—_—)
I think he's a player and just telling you what you want to hear so he can get a piece on the side.
Sorry so blunt, but that's my opinion.
Sorry so blunt, but that's my opinion.
To answer your question, though, slow is definitely a cappy trait.
Posted by djbuck1Posted by truecap
I think he's a player and just telling you what you want to hear so he can get a piece on the side.
Sorry so blunt, but that's my opinion.
No other way to put it.click to expand
I don't understand why women tolerate that kind of behavior from a man.
Thanks! A real eye opener. My girlfriends keep telling me that he is worth to wait while I keep telling myself that I am too good for him. I think I have fallen for love not him.. Dont know yet.
But hey, there is still time left on this "project", so I am going to check it out. Till the end. Isn't that the case in life?
Thanks again and if something big happens, I'll let you know!
But hey, there is still time left on this "project", so I am going to check it out. Till the end. Isn't that the case in life?
Thanks again and if something big happens, I'll let you know!
Posted by LindaLand
Thanks! A real eye opener. My girlfriends keep telling me that he is worth to wait while I keep telling myself that I am too good for him. I think I have fallen for love not him.. Dont know yet.
But hey, there is still time left on this "project", so I am going to check it out. Till the end. Isn't that the case in life?
Thanks again and if something big happens, I'll let you know!
Really— Your eyes are opened and you're going to continue on with him? You deserve a better man than this and he will treat you this way as long as you tolerate it. Just proceed with caution and maintain your dignity and self respect along the way.
I can see the schizophrenic mindset here. But half a year babystepping further.. I'm all in or nothing. And till the very end WITH my dignity and pride.
Truecap wherever you are, thanks! _??
Truecap wherever you are, thanks! _??
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Posted by LindaLand
I can see the schizophrenic mindset here. But half a year babystepping further.. I'm all in or nothing. And till the very end WITH my dignity and pride.
Truecap wherever you are, thanks! _—
It's never too late to open your eyes 🙂
Uhhhhh....
Put it to you this way: He's openly telling you he's 'experimenting' on Tinder? That means he's sleeping with other women.
He's openly told you he has a gf. Doesn't matter if it's a bad situation (obviously it is).
He's openly letting you know he's not committing to you.
Caps usually only cheat when they really aren't deeply invested in their relationship. He's not invested in his current gf, he's not invested in the women on the side, and he's not invested in you. Period. This isn't him being 'slow.' It's him not actually wanting you.
At least he's been honest...(sarcasm)
Put it to you this way: He's openly telling you he's 'experimenting' on Tinder? That means he's sleeping with other women.
He's openly told you he has a gf. Doesn't matter if it's a bad situation (obviously it is).
He's openly letting you know he's not committing to you.
Caps usually only cheat when they really aren't deeply invested in their relationship. He's not invested in his current gf, he's not invested in the women on the side, and he's not invested in you. Period. This isn't him being 'slow.' It's him not actually wanting you.
At least he's been honest...(sarcasm)
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