Is this normal cap behavior?!!!please help guys :(

You are being bipolar too then? You agreed to be friends - and then went back to him saying you can't move on and you love him...

He can't give you what you want. He tried to end it amicably - and then you dropped the guilt on him.
Is what I think.

I'm sorry for your pain - but it appears to be in your best interests to forget the "love"

Posted by pillowhome
When he said all of this,I felt crushed.Just terrible.I still can't eat or sleep 😢I told him then maybe we should forget about eachother and He said no I still want us to talk and I asked him so can we be friends and he said Yes.But then I told him I can't move on,i love him,it's impossible to move on and then he replied days later and told me he doesn't want me to move on

??

He's being realistic - is what it sounds like. And then serving up some tough love.
Don't take it personally at this point. From what you said there doesn't appear to be much of an issue other than logistics. Sometimes relationships aren't meant to last forever despite how much you want to believe they should.

Have you ever lived in the same city and dated traditionally?

Posted by deezie
He's being realistic - is what it sounds like. And then serving up some tough love.
Don't take it personally at this point. From what you said there doesn't appear to be much of an issue other than logistics. Sometimes relationships aren't meant to last forever despite how much you want to believe they should.

Have you ever lived in the same city and dated traditionally?

I understand.But ignoring me and when actually communicating with me, communicating in a very cold,rude way.I don't understand it.With his friends he's all funny and fun and with me all cold and serious.

He means business I guess??
Pushing you to find someone that doesn't treat you that way? Force feeding because he knows women will hold on to a friendship with hidden hopes that it means something more?

It seems pretty clear cut... so... yeah...

It sucks - but beating it to death won't work. It's already dead. Beating dead things doesn't make them more dead, and certainly won't bring it back to life with any sort of genuineness.

What's your sign?

Posted by 88NPPISCES
hahhahahaa

I was just about to say, never mind I am just wasting my time here. But you just quoted me, lmao

well yes, It is not her fault I am getting tired of her same story, and I can feel it in my skin when she says she can't sleep or eat because she is so into some man who doesn't care for her.

why are women soooooooooo blind———??

it is tough love. but dayummmm you're a tough chicky. 🙂

aww poor you, you don't know if you are coming or going... you know what, close the book on this for awhile, put it on hold, don't try to figure him out because you know what, if he truly cared for you YOU WOULD NEVER have to question it.

Be kind to yourself

can I say "you know what" again? LOL

Posted by WoundedLeo

Posted by LIBRA1234


Did you consider the "crazy" factor? Its one thing to be obsessed like this chick when you are 15 when you are discovering the world still, but at this age to act like this— you are being nice by calling her blind

I think your statement is very cruel and uncalled for. Emotions have nothing to do with age. They are what they are.

The adage "Love is blind" has been repeated for hundreds of years because it's a statement of fact.

Throw a stone at someone else only if you're perfect...and by the sounds of your sharp tongue...you're far from perfect!

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Well said beautiful 🙂

Some of us are not die hard fans of everyone's stories on here. If one is annoyed with a person's story and how she/he doesn't take your advice, uhm why do you bother reading/responding over and over? Let others who have the courtesy and patience --do it. 🙂 for all it's worth