Its Hell being with a Cap

in listening to you all ladies it sounds that all caps are the same. Virgo lady I'm interested to hear your point of view in dealing with a cap man, because i'm a virgo women too dealing with a cap.

Virgo lady said something really interesting about they be trying to see if you hang in there for the long haul, I wish you could elaborate on that some more. Everything was going fine with my cap until i tried to test him. he was acting as if he wanted a relationship and showing some emotions along with expressing himself (with his i love you's) but I still was not sure if it was sincere. So, I ask him if we be okay to see other people and he began to ask question about how it will be disagreed and became agressive. I wanted the reaction of him not wanting to be down with it but not what i'm getting in return. He has become cold,distant and nonresponsive. he accepts my calls and still say he cares and want to be together but he is busy. he always says will talk later about it and never calls to talk about it. I have been calling and texting trying to reason to let him know it wasnt like he thought that i really wanted to see other people that i was trying to get a reaction but he still won't come around. I said I was going to stop because he must have moved on or he no longer interested. but he has aways told me how can you just walk away so easy from the one you love,I'm confused because he has found it to be easy. some one help me to understand how to get back through to him

we are dick's

Hmmm... This relationship stuff interests me but also confuses me.
We needs relationships anyway when you have friends?

Hi GEG,


When you say I scared him what do you mean?I have apologized to him and tried to show him I am sorry but he keeps pushing me away,so I have started dated another guy and I feel he has rode through were I live and have seen me with him also. I have caught him talking to another women and have swore I seen him in my neighborhood driving her car. I don't know what he wants from me, I ask him did I make things beyond repair between us and he says no but won't allow me to see him at all. He stands me up for dinner dates and don't call on important dates.He's being a jerk. I am now getting the silent treament and what does that mean.He has said he loves me and is in love with me but I don't know if he means it because he has said it more than once and from what I hear they don't say it much. We started off talking for months over the phone and started hanging out for a month later and then I said the let's see others deal as a test to see if he was seeing others and he ran like hell. Then he says he realy wants to be in a relationship with me and want to be with me but he does not feel secure or comfortable. He tells me he knows where he heart is but feels its okay to date or talk to other women. I went to his home one night he stood me up for dinner and he was there standing outside talking to a women. He tried to hide from me but anyway I got upset and ask him what the hell is going on...... he is saying lower your voice as if he doesn't want her to hear what I'm saying and we stand there and continue to talk and she eventually gets tired of waiting for him to come back over there to talk to her....... because he didn't try to brush me off to leave so he could continue being with her and even after she left we talk for awhile.I mean when I am around him he can't keep his lips or hands off me.....he tells me he loves me and stares at me as if he's reading me or something. We haven't talk for about a week or so I guess he's gone for good this time because I told him to leave me alone if he really doesn't want something serious. Is this normal cap behavoir when they are in love with you but are afraid they push yu away or become cold and distant?

Hi GEG,

I was wondering what you mean about the saying he love me in a month,his first time he ever said it was before we even became intimate but like I said I here cappy's won't say it unless they mean it .....I am hoping that is really a character trait of theirs. My B-Day is Sept 17 1972 and his B-Day is Dec 28 1978.
I am not sure of the time of day for either of us...YOu also stated his actions show his love...... in the beginning it seems that way buying the gifts and time he spent and the things he did and said,But it changed after I said what I said. He is so distant,cold and cruel.He didn't even call for my B-day.....he calls after weeks past and says he checking up on me but why if you don't trust or want a person anymore would you care how they are doing.I ask him why he still calls if he doesn't want me and he says "I still want you". I feel he can't care anymore after the Bday deal but he had a nerve to call like nothing even happen a week after my B-day. I mean how can you tell if a person who never lets you see them but calls whenever still loves you.His actions show nothing at this point its been a month and two weeks since the see other people deal and he still hasn't been able to get over it. He says every since I said it he hasn't been right since.I guess your GEG he is back at sqaure 1 with the be freinds deal. I hope with the info I gave you can do our charts.

HI GEG,


I want to say the cap birth Place is Norfolk,va and mine is newark, New jersey but I am not sure of the times. I don't understand what the planets mean or how they relate to us.

sorry I'm late but you blew it and he will never be faithful to you again! Let him go and get on with life.

hrmmm... i wouldnt say she blew it. she just has a LOT of explaining to do. regaining trust is tough, but it can and will happen if you want it to. all you need to do is give it time and lotsa effort. tell him what you meant, what you were trying to accomplish and how you now realize that it was wrong. communicate... just be straaaaaaight with him.

V72, he'll be back. have your apology/explanation ready -- even if you have to say several times over time. stick to your story. if you deviate at all, he will not trust you -- and it will be harder to get him back then it is now.