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Is SEX The Most Important Aspect In A Relationship
I, myself, would NEVER date someone who would think you can't have a relationship WITHOUT sex! I believe sex is something you don't take lightly. It has to be discussed and planned. There's nothing wrong with waiting until marriage. I, myself - married or not - believe you should at least have feelings for the other person. I could NEVER have sex without love - whether I'm married or not!
Well...I think it would depend on the situation. I, myself, have been on both ends of this one. I have had a fairly long-term relationship....and, yes, a one-night-stand! The relationship was based on friendship, trust and love....on the other hand the one-nighter was nothing but passion and lust! I can't say that I regret either experience!
-Scorpio Babe
WOW! I'm glad you enjoyed that!
people should probably be realistic about feelings and sex. the two can be seperate, and you could enjoy yourself with just sex if you have a healthy (safe) attitudes and behavior. when they occur simultaneously, we are very lucky, but don't go without physical pleasure in your hunt for a soulmate. get a clue.
You have to feel utterly comfortable with the person you're with. if you have even the smallest doubt that the sex may be a problem--it probably will be. It could take weeks to feel right about your partner. And more than anything, your partner has to be understanding of "when" you're ready. If thay don't, say bye, bye.
Sex isn't everything, and I absolutely agree that people who don't respect your feelings are worth losing!
Who is kidding when they say sex isn't everything. It is the glue that holds any relationship together. Both people have to be on the same page. If you have one that doesn't want much sex and then they other person can't get enough, be prepared for the person who isn't getting enough to go somewhere else!! Personally, how could anyone have too much sex? It is the best thing in life!!
SEX IS EVERYTHING!! NO, I am not a nymph!
SEX can be a complex thing. Many people think: no sex, no relationship. I'm a Virgo girl who believes friendship comes first, trust comes second, and sex comes third!
Trust is the root of ALL relationships, especially sex. How can anyone have sex with someone they don't trust?
Once trust is there, I CAN let myself go and melt into the arms of a loving, passionate Scorpio!
67.213, you're not a nymph - just a mean and misguided individual and some of your postings have been erased!
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SOME people (especially Scorpios) may think so, but I certainly don't! I'm a Virgo girl who believes TRUST COMES FIRST! Why? It's the root of all relationships - no trust, no sex!