It's so hard for me to get along with Virgo women

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leilaxxlovez
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I had a virgo friend who was unbearable! When we first met, she seemed so cool. Then she started texting me everyday, when I didn't reply she would be like 'y didn't you reply 😢' and i would tell her...oh sowi,i ws on the phone.lol or something. She is super clingy. When I go somewhere with my friends, excluding her, she goes on, why didn't you invite me? and im like wth!!! When she wants something, its all about her. she'll backstab just to get it. I caught her once flirting with my bf, and he later told me'watsup with your friend?she kept on leaning in towards me and i felt really awkward' and i ws like omg!!!lol
She calls me her bestfriend. :-/


When wer out, she never gets along with anybody but me!! So when I'm socialising,she luks at me funny, in a 'ru with me or them' way.lol and thats why I never really tel her where I'm going.

We're a group of girls goin out to a club, one of those random hyper saturday nights and a guy comes up to us. If he's not into her, she gets all weird and up in his face. She forever goes on about me not giving her enough attention. She's spoiled rotten. I have a gap year job, she went off to study, comes back home and decides she dsnt wana study anymore, she turns to me and is like, 'i wana get a job with u' omg...my heart started racing!! I already cant take it!!!omg!!!
we go out to eat, we're paying, she gets like 400 a month, i get a lil more but thats cz i've worked for it. she tells me when the bill comes, could u pay for us both, i 4got my card!!!!im like, i onli have exact for me :-/
lol im sorry but some virgos r unbearable.
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tiki33
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Valeria we were young, I wasn't aware I was yielding and doing things her way predominantly most of the time until much much later, more like to the latter end of the friendship, it wasn't always one-sided but inevitably due to other issues it became that way...I call it kissing ass only b/c I was the one giving in so much and never question the validity of our relationship, she was this and that towards others but never towards me...I didn't mind so much when she was behaving a certain way with others but when that same negative energy was turned on me things went downhill...She was not a bad person in general, selfish, very self absorbed and took people for granted, I'm sure she's grown out of that..least I hope so
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tiki33
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For the most part, yes your right...I shouldn't have kissed her ass (although unknowingly but yet It shouldn't have been like that) I never said I blamed her for that, I'm just pointing out my experience. In general my version of kissing ass is being a loyal, giving, understanding, got your back, friend to the end type of friend...too loyal, too giving, and too understanding...too much of anything can be perceived as a weakness....lesson learned
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tiki33
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No she didn't really love me at all, poor perception on my part, yet I was young and didn't understand relationships as I do now...No helped needed but appreciated, that was the past, many moons ago, I'm so not the person I was back then, still love her but from a safe distance, for the most part we got along, had a ton of fun and then it was all over, due to our immaturity issues, miscommunication, lack of understanding, lack of empathy (mostly her being argumentative and defensive) it couldn't be salvaged, don't miss her but glad that I had the experience nonetheless.
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The thing with Virgo's is that you have to call them on their crap.

I had a Virgo friend who would complain about certain things about me. I would listen and say okay because I know she was just being over critical.

As soon as she did the same thing, I just called her on it. She got the point and stfu. The thing is they will walk all over you if you let them, stand up to them and ignore them, it will be a whole new friend that will respect you.

But they are cool people in the end but you have to be strong and show them you are just as confident or even more than them.

Those darn critical Virgos