Limbo in Leo

I have been on a an erratic roller coaster with my leo gf for some time now and I just don't know how much longer we can stay on this ride. I love her I do but her inability to direct her anger and frustration on the intended person, obstacle is gravely affecting any future we may have left. I think Im near my quota of being an emotional punching bag.

I avoid saying much without being told Im lecturing or i'm always right because i'm not looking to be right.

Each time I open regarding my own emotions its twisted and flipped leaving me the guilty party. Regardless of the situation Im left being the one trying to mend or find peace between us. Tiny squabbles become long period of grudges and silences. Its like a never ending cycle of breakups without actually breaking up

Im at a stage where i don't feel loved or believe it. Its not that she's in capable I just believe if a chose is to be made her ego and pride with no lie be the triumphant duo. I believe it more when shes in a fit of saying she don't care she's selfish etc etc.

Im currently at a stage of not knowing. Chancing is not my thing which i feel i'm constantly doing. Im not one to through in the towel i only fight if i believe it worth it if the other parson wants it but i just dont know anymore.



shes : Asc cancer , sun leo, Moon taurus, venus cancer ... mostly cancer

me ; Asc aries, sun cap, moon cancer, venus cancer

She seems like a terror to deal with.

None the less, if she keeps blaming her shitty attitude on you, it won't get anywhere, and you'll feel even more stuck, amd wasting time on someome who could careless about how yoy feel. Think about that.

I don't understand how we think being an emotional punching bag shows the other person we love them, I'm over that shit at this point of my life.

Are you guys long distance?
And how long have you guys been talking/dating?

Was she this person from the jump... Or you just now noticing it... I have a moon in Leo. PRIDEFUL. I'm growing out of that, but yes Leo is prideful... When you guys talk, does she shut you out immediately?

She has a moon in Taurus and your rising is in Aries. There might be some issues with stubbornness and locking horns.

Both you and her have quite a bit of Cancer floating around >> lot of emotionality and sensitivity.

IMO, there are some difficult dynamics going on BOTH sides. What do you think?

Posted by Greentea
She seems like a terror to deal with.

None the less, if she keeps blaming her shitty attitude on you, it won't get anywhere, and you'll feel even more stuck, amd wasting time on someome who could careless about how yoy feel. Think about that.

I don't understand how we think being an emotional punching bag shows the other person we love them, I'm over that shit at this point of my life.

Agreed. I have mention this to her that its becoming tiring. I am patient but its wearing out and its not healthy nor fair. And she agrees and became silent.

I know shes going to thing on that deeply and in the future will lash out with something spiteful or snarky to avoid how badly she feels.

I guess because I see beyond the smoke why I have stucked around so long

Posted by arose32
Are you guys long distance?
And how long have you guys been talking/dating?

Was she this person from the jump... Or you just now noticing it... I have a moon in Leo. PRIDEFUL. I'm growing out of that, but yes Leo is prideful... When you guys talk, does she shut you out immediately?

No we are not long distant we live pretty close to each other. And I am always around her because she likes me close and I dont mind. I have become comfortable and like being close to her.

We have been together going on 3 yrs and dated prior for 2yrs.

The longer we have been together the more I am seeing this side. In the beginning no because if yes we wouldnt have started a relationship. She even stated it. I have always been pretty blunt even more so in the beginning .Why we dated for so long . Commitment is a big deal to me and I dont intend to waste my time.

It depends when we talk. some conversation goes seemingly well then she goes of thinking and then sometimes avoid me for days get in a mood and takes space.
or gets impulsive she irrational things and start an argument then shut me out

Posted by SpiceNSugar
She has a moon in Taurus and your rising is in Aries. There might be some issues with stubbornness and locking horns.

Both you and her have quite a bit of Cancer floating around >> lot of emotionality and sensitivity.

IMO, there are some difficult dynamics going on BOTH sides. What do you think?

Oh yes our dynamic is rather difficult it hasn't been an easy road. Both of us see it and agrees on it.
Majority of her planets is in cancer

I am sensitive at times but man she takes the whole cake. Love her to bits but damn-- maybe is because majority of her placements is in cancer

Alot of horn locking . We both have strong personalities and she has stated she feels intimidated by me at times. Not necessarily regarding anything I am doing but just my aura but she finds it mysterious and alluring at the same time. I just think she loves to dominate

There is always a tug and war going on in her head and I tend to be unaware because Im not competing.

I can say I have compromised alot habits , personality and letting go being in control for peace.

Maybe its an innate thing we can avoid we will clash